What would you do

[LiteBlonde]

If you have developed deep feelings for someone else (out of the blue and the person is totally random and have no idea) if you are married and the marriage is flawless?

What would you do in that case? Would you tell the person, tell your very understanding hubby or tell yourself to forget the person and supress the feeling?

[Nunya]

Re: What would you do

Is it possible to develop 'deep' feelings for someone when you're in a 'flawless' marriage???

Is there such a thing as a 'flawless' marriage????

And how can one develop 'deep' feelings 'out of the blue'????

I'se

[MarieK]

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mi equally confused an y mention to di hubby if u have no intentions of acting on these feelings?

[missus_vegas]

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i dont see the need to put ne doubts/ drama/ watever into ur "flawless" marriage. and if the randon person from out of the blue dont know u and dont know about ur feeling den u need to burry dem...unless u intend to flaw the flawless marrige

[LiteBlonde]

Re: What would you do

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nunya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Is it possible to develop 'deep' feelings for someone when you're in a 'flawless' marriage???</div></div>

Yes, I think so. Some people don't need a reason


<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Is there such a thing as a 'flawless' marriage???? </div></div>

Yes. Subjective, but still, the answer is yes. To each their own definition.

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">And how can one develop 'deep' feelings 'out of the blue'????

I'se </div></div>

A little like &quot;love at first sight&quot;, is what I am told. Most things happen &quot;out of the blue&quot;. It's the premeditated stuff that gets people in trouble.

[LiteBlonde]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Queen_of_d_A</div><div class="ubbcode-body">mi equally confused an y mention to di hubby if u have no intentions of acting on these feelings? </div></div>

The possiblility of acting on these feelings are still present.

This is not my plight by the way. Me is with a man but not married.

[LiteBlonde]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: missus_vegas</div><div class="ubbcode-body">i dont see the need to put ne doubts/ drama/ watever into ur &quot;flawless&quot; marriage. and if the randon person from out of the blue dont know u and dont know about ur feeling den u need to burry dem...unless u intend to flaw the flawless marrige


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Good points, but according to the plan, the flawless marriage might not get flawed...

[kia027]

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the feelings for the random person out of the blue are what?

[LiteBlonde]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body">the feelings for the random person out of the blue are what? </div></div>

Uhhh, <span style="font-weight: bold">Deep</span>.

[kia027]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: DotCom</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body">the feelings for the random person out of the blue are what? </div></div>

Uhhh, <span style="font-weight: bold">Deep</span>. </div></div>

infatuation perhaps?

[LiteBlonde]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: DotCom</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body">the feelings for the random person out of the blue are what? </div></div>

Uhhh, <span style="font-weight: bold">Deep</span>. </div></div>

infatuation perhaps? </div></div>

hmmmmm! Could be, but then again, me view all that type of stuff as infatuation or temporary insanity, so I wouldn't be the best judge in that case.

[DearK]

Re: What would you do

Talk more about the flawlessness of the marriage- sounds like hubby might be in a bubble