College Friends

[julie*mango]

So thanks to FB mi buck up wid some old college friends a mine. They are now a married couple and have a baby the same age as my last one. As a matter of fact they were born a day apart. The wife I was very good friends with until I transferred to another school so we lost touch with each other. The husband I was also friends with but we used to like each other and went out a couple times...nothing happened though because at the time I was not really looking for a relationship and I guess he wanted to go all the way. Anyway we drifted apart.

I was kinda shocked that they ended up marrying each other but hey, I am happy for them. Found out they live very close to me. She wants me to link up with her for a play-date and to catch up. I want to. I really did miss her. But I feel it would be kinda awkward knowing the history me and her husband had. Like I said, we didn't get freaky or anything...but there were feelings. Yes, we both moved on, but...like I said it is kinda awkward.

So should I politely decline the invite? Remember this was my very good friend.

[LiteBlonde]

Re: College Friends

Have YOU moved on?

Do you believe that HE has moved on?

If you answered *yes* to the above, then there should be no problems. Let bygones be bygones. Appreciate what you guys had and move on!

In fact, laugh and talk about the past and include his wife in the fun.

Just imagine what this world would be like if we should all avoid our past crushes/flings/relationships. They are steps to the top of our pyramid so just appreciate the past, embrace the present and look forward to fun-filled times together in the future.

[ILP]

Re: College Friends

why would it be awkward?
if you've both moved on and you are happy for the both of them...then Embrace Life. Live.
Enjoy what you have right now and that would be the potential for a great relationship with the BOTH of them (as great friends).

[julie*mango]

Re: College Friends

Awkward because I am not sure if my friend knows about the history I had with her husband, and if she does then I don't want her to feel like I am trying to move in on him. You know how females are...

[missus_vegas]

Re: College Friends

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: DotCom</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

In fact, laugh and talk about the past and include his wife in the fun.

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yuh have some ooman foo fool bad. not all can deal wid dis.

[missus_vegas]

Re: College Friends

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: _______</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Awkward because I am not sure if my friend knows about the history I had with her husband, and if she does then I don't want her to feel like I am trying to move in on him. You know how females are... </div></div>

well is she inviting you so either she dont know or she know but she ok wid it. Since u ago feel ackward just dont go. ole time people seh if u force wata up hill it will tun round jown yuh.

[CeaBee]

Re: College Friends

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: _______</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Awkward because I am not sure if my friend knows about the history I had with her husband, and if she does then I don't want her to feel like I am trying to move in on him. You know how females are... </div></div>

gwaan man...maybe him still cute

[julie*mango]

Re: College Friends

he is..

[CeaBee]

Re: College Friends

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: _______</div><div class="ubbcode-body">he is.. </div></div>



ohhhhh....well nuh bodda guh then

[julie*mango]

Re: College Friends

wat u scratching yu beard fah? jus because him still good lookin mean seh mi still attracted to him...

[CeaBee]

Re: College Friends

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: _______</div><div class="ubbcode-body">wat u scratching yu beard fah? jus because him still good lookin mean seh mi still attracted to him... </div></div>

ok.

well gwaan then.






wear a low cut shirt




i joke, i joke.

gwaan, assume that he *did* tell her about u. it will mek u feel less akward (sp)...laugh, joke.

if things still feel strange after that nuh bodda go again.

[LiteBlonde]

Re: College Friends

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: _______</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Awkward because I am not sure if my friend knows about the <span style="font-weight: bold">history</span> I had with her husband, and <span style="font-weight: bold">if she does then I don't want her to feel like I am trying to move in on him.</span> You know how females are... </div></div>

What does HISTORY have to do with TODAY? Unless.there was no closure, and you all a playing games with girlfriend, that don't make no daggone sense.

[LiteBlonde]

Re: College Friends

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: missus_vegas</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: DotCom</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

In fact, laugh and talk about the past and include his wife in the fun.

</div></div>

yuh have some ooman foo fool bad. not all can deal wid dis. </div></div>

True dat.

[kia027]

Re: College Friends

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: missus_vegas</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: DotCom</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

In fact, laugh and talk about the past and include his wife in the fun.

</div></div>

yuh have some ooman foo fool bad. not all can deal wid dis. </div></div>

and when dem nat foo fool dem immature but the key point is some women

Skells do you think she is one of those women?

[R_C]

Re: College Friends

&quot;<span style="font-style: italic">...he wanted to go all the way...</span>&quot;


Ole fiyah stick easy fi bun.