I had a long term sexual relationship with my father...

**Fyah** · 09-25-2009, 03:17 PM

Re: I had a long term sexual relationship with my father...

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Marilyn</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: remo</div><div class="ubbcode-body">unno believe everything unno hear.....dis chick just trying to make a few bucks by maligning the memeory of her dead father
(who cant defend himself)
talk about selective memory she remember him shooting her up at age 10 but cant remember if they had sex before 19 </div></div>Remo

You ever been sexually abused??? I have. You don't know until you are in those shoes. You don't know how someone can control your mind. Why in the hell do you think someone would want to walk around with someone whispering at their back "She had sex with her own father," if it were not true. You think someone would make that up to make money??? I personally don't think so. </div></div>

I see your point Marilyn, however, everyone does not have the same experience.

It is obvious that this young lady has had issues for many years. She might have fallen in love with her supplier, as most addicts do, and this one just happened to be her dad.

I am finding it hard to belive that a person who've been using drugs since they were 10 years old, stayed a virgin until she was 19 years old.

She IS an addict and is obviously not receiving any treatment for her addiction. She has concocted this story to make money and as she herself has admitted, an addict knows no boundaries.

**Marilyn** · 09-25-2009, 10:19 PM

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On OPrah, others backed her story, said they knew about her and the father and that it was true.

**diabolical_Tanya** · 09-25-2009, 10:37 PM

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could sh be saying she doesn't remember having sex with her dad till 19 to spare his memory? to make it look more like consensual and not have him vilified as a child molester? I'm just asking.....no idea....

I do have experience with teenage girls claiming abuse as a means of attention grabbing and I also have experience with sexually abused toddlers but the rest is beyond my scope.

**remo** · 09-28-2009, 04:17 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Marilyn</div><div class="ubbcode-body">[quote=remo]unno believe everything unno hear.....dis chick just trying to make a few bucks by maligning the memeory of her dead father
(who cant defend himself)
talk about selective memory she remember him shooting her up at age 10 but cant remember if they had sex before 19 </div></div>
Remo

You ever been sexually abused??? I have. You don't know until you are in those shoes. You don't know how someone can control your mind. Why in the hell do you think someone would want to walk around with someone whispering at their back "She had sex with her own father," if it were not true. You think someone would make that up to make money??? I personally don't think so. [/quote

No I was never sexually abused(thank god).....The fact that you were abused does not make her story true,These whispers all started from only one source and a very unreliable source at that..If you had been a druggie your entire life you might make outlandish claims like this too,A drug addict will do anything for money

**Marilyn** · 10-01-2009, 04:48 AM

Re: I had a long term sexual relationship with my father...

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: remo</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Marilyn</div><div class="ubbcode-body">[quote=remo]unno believe everything unno hear.....dis chick just trying to make a few bucks by maligning the memeory of her dead father
(who cant defend himself)
talk about selective memory she remember him shooting her up at age 10 but cant remember if they had sex before 19 </div></div>
Remo

You ever been sexually abused??? I have. You don't know until you are in those shoes. You don't know how someone can control your mind. Why in the hell do you think someone would want to walk around with someone whispering at their back "She had sex with her own father," if it were not true. You think someone would make that up to make money??? I personally don't think so. [/quote

No I was never sexually abused(thank god).....The fact that you were abused does not make her story true,These whispers all started from only one source and a very unreliable source at that..If you had been a druggie your entire life you might make outlandish claims like this too,A drug addict will do anything for money </div></div>

REmo

I had to serve on a jury for 5 women who were sexually molested by a Judge in DyerbergTN. There is a proof of evidence in a court of law that is basically called "first reporting." Did you TELL someone after the incident. She reported to her sister, and then later took it back. My FORMER( please note this was about 25 years ago and this is none of the ladies that you all on here know about) best friend's daughter was constantly being harrssed by her step father, however when this was reported to her mother, and the mother immediately jumped to the defense of her "man", the child took everything back to keep peace in the family.

Sexual abuse within a family is often a delicate balance of issues. She DID tell her sister. THere were at least 10 other people who had knowledge of this as well. The daughter of one of her father's band mates called in to the show and said that McKenzie's father had confessed this to HER Dad, who had then discussed it with her. She said MckENZIE IS telling the truth.

If people take a hard line like you have here, no wonder women, little girls, don't report this more. We have this rapist here called the "Big Belly Rapist", and for good reason. They have him in custody on 5 rapes, but the authorities believe there are many more victims out there who just are "too afraid" to come forward.

Things like this have been perpetrated on girls within families for generations, and will forever stay shrouded in mystery if people don't start believing these children. It works to the molesters advantafe because it's almost like osme unspoken thing within you helps to keep the secret, because you seem to know inside that you have been a part of something bad and wrong.

**remo** · 10-01-2009, 10:14 AM

Re: I had a long term sexual relationship with my father...

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Marilyn</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: remo</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Marilyn</div><div class="ubbcode-body">[quote=remo]unno believe everything unno hear.....dis chick just trying to make a few bucks by maligning the memeory of her dead father
(who cant defend himself)
talk about selective memory she remember him shooting her up at age 10 but cant remember if they had sex before 19 </div></div>
Remo

You ever been sexually abused??? I have. You don't know until you are in those shoes. You don't know how someone can control your mind. Why in the hell do you think someone would want to walk around with someone whispering at their back "She had sex with her own father," if it were not true. You think someone would make that up to make money??? I personally don't think so. [/quote

No I was never sexually abused(thank god).....The fact that you were abused does not make her story true,These whispers all started from only one source and a very unreliable source at that..If you had been a druggie your entire life you might make outlandish claims like this too,A drug addict will do anything for money </div></div>

REmo

I had to serve on a jury for 5 women who were sexually molested by a Judge in DyerbergTN. There is a proof of evidence in a court of law that is basically called "first reporting." Did you TELL someone after the incident. She reported to her sister, and then later took it back. My FORMER( please note this was about 25 years ago and this is none of the ladies that you all on here know about) best friend's daughter was constantly being harrssed by her step father, however when this was reported to her mother, and the mother immediately jumped to the defense of her "man", the child took everything back to keep peace in the family.

Sexual abuse within a family is often a delicate balance of issues. She DID tell her sister. THere were at least 10 other people who had knowledge of this as well. The daughter of one of her father's band mates called in to the show and said that McKenzie's father had confessed this to HER Dad, who had then discussed it with her. She said MckENZIE IS telling the truth.

If people take a hard line like you have here, no wonder women, little girls, don't report this more. We have this rapist here called the "Big Belly Rapist", and for good reason. They have him in custody on 5 rapes, but the authorities believe there are many more victims out there who just are "too afraid" to come forward.

Things like this have been perpetrated on girls within families for generations, and will forever stay shrouded in mystery if people don't start believing these children. It works to the molesters advantafe because it's almost like osme unspoken thing within you helps to keep the secret, because you seem to know inside that you have been a part of something bad and wrong. </div></div>

I saw her on Larry King last nite and I am sorry this woman has no credibility
It's my position that she's making this up for monetary reasons

**Marilyn** · 10-01-2009, 08:44 PM

Re: I had a long term sexual relationship with my father...

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: remo</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Marilyn</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: remo</div><div class="ubbcode-body">[quote=Marilyn]

Originally posted by remo

unno believe everything unno hear.....dis chick just trying to make a few bucks by maligning the memeory of her dead father
(who cant defend himself)
talk about selective memory she remember him shooting her up at age 10 but cant remember if they had sex before 19 </div></div>
Remo

You ever been sexually abused??? I have. You don't know until you are in those shoes. You don't know how someone can control your mind. Why in the hell do you think someone would want to walk around with someone whispering at their back "She had sex with her own father," if it were not true. You think someone would make that up to make money??? I personally don't think so. [/quote

No I was never sexually abused(thank god).....The fact that you were abused does not make her story true,These whispers all started from only one source and a very unreliable source at that..If you had been a druggie your entire life you might make outlandish claims like this too,A drug addict will do anything for money </div></div>

REmo

I had to serve on a jury for 5 women who were sexually molested by a Judge in DyerbergTN. There is a proof of evidence in a court of law that is basically called "first reporting." Did you TELL someone after the incident. She reported to her sister, and then later took it back. My FORMER( please note this was about 25 years ago and this is none of the ladies that you all on here know about) best friend's daughter was constantly being harrssed by her step father, however when this was reported to her mother, and the mother immediately jumped to the defense of her "man", the child took everything back to keep peace in the family.

Sexual abuse within a family is often a delicate balance of issues. She DID tell her sister. THere were at least 10 other people who had knowledge of this as well. The daughter of one of her father's band mates called in to the show and said that McKenzie's father had confessed this to HER Dad, who had then discussed it with her. She said MckENZIE IS telling the truth.

If people take a hard line like you have here, no wonder women, little girls, don't report this more. We have this rapist here called the "Big Belly Rapist", and for good reason. They have him in custody on 5 rapes, but the authorities believe there are many more victims out there who just are "too afraid" to come forward.

Things like this have been perpetrated on girls within families for generations, and will forever stay shrouded in mystery if people don't start believing these children. It works to the molesters advantafe because it's almost like osme unspoken thing within you helps to keep the secret, because you seem to know inside that you have been a part of something bad and wrong. </div></div>

I saw her on Larry King last nite and I am sorry this woman has no credibility
It's my position that she's making this up for monetary reasons

I'm watching the sister on entertainment tonight, and once again she says it is TRUE....so what....she's going to get a cut you think????

**H_O** · 10-02-2009, 11:05 AM

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discusting

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**Marilyn** · 10-03-2009, 07:02 AM

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This is true that it is disgusting....but didn't Jamaica have to go on an all out ad campaign to curb the practice of father's feeling it was their "duty' to "break in" their daughters "properly"? Thus part of it the song Daddy don't touch me there????

**Fyah** · 10-03-2009, 09:23 AM

Re: I had a long term sexual relationship with my father...

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Marilyn</div><div class="ubbcode-body">This is true that it is disgusting....but didn't Jamaica have to go on an all out ad campaign to curb the practice of father's feeling it was their "duty' to "break in" their daughters "properly"? Thus part of it the song Daddy don't touch me there???? </div></div>

What is the correlation here (what you said happened in Jamaica)?

I doubt everyone will agree on this tragedy and I also doubt anyone is saying it does not happen. It is doubtful obviously, that this lady was the type of victim she is trying to convince the public that she is, and a part of that has to do with her sordid past and her current situation.

Bringing what happens in Jamaica into this discussion will not add any weight to your argument nor will it sway anyone, per se, it is instead viewed (by me) as grasping. Just deal with the unreliable storyteller.

**Marilyn** · 10-03-2009, 08:24 PM

Re: I had a long term sexual relationship with my father...

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SoulPurpose</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Marilyn</div><div class="ubbcode-body">This is true that it is disgusting....but didn't Jamaica have to go on an all out ad campaign to curb the practice of father's feeling it was their "duty' to "break in" their daughters "properly"? Thus part of it the song Daddy don't touch me there???? </div></div>

What is the correlation here (what you said happened in Jamaica)?

I doubt everyone will agree on this tragedy and I also doubt anyone is saying it does not happen. It is doubtful obviously, that this lady was the type of victim she is trying to convince the public that she is, and a part of that has to do with her sordid past and her current situation.

Bringing what happens in Jamaica into this discussion will not add any weight to your argument nor will it sway anyone, per se, it is instead viewed (by me) as grasping. Just deal with the unreliable storyteller. </div></div>

So soorry yOU don't see the correlation....I believe her, and those of you who don't have that choice.

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