Do women try too hard to

[Fyah]

Keep their man/marriage intact?

My daughters, husband and friends had this discussion last night and the outlook for young people who are anticipating a "normal" life with a future family is not bright.

Our summary:

There are so many articles, tv show and advice books that are suppose to provide women with the solution to keeping their men.

--remain the woman your husband married
--strive to be the woman he wants to and not has to come home to
--keep him by doing what he wants, when he want and how he wants
--be there for him, morning, noon and night, sick or sin, thick or thin
--instruct him on how to love and make love to you
--wear makeup - plenty of it
--wear sexy lingerie, shoes, clothes and hairdo
--don't say this or that could lower his self-esteem
--love his kids (if they come with kids)
--love his mama'anem
--tell him 24/7 how much you love, adore, respect, support and appreciate him, and that life would just be worthless without him
--don't appear too needy, never cry and/or accuse him of anything

The list goes on and on. Could this be the reason why so many women are having problems with their men? Could it be that the men are reading the same advice columns and are therefore taking advantage and not doing their part to keep the unit?

Things seem to be getting out of hand and regardless of the advice columns, books, therapists etc. that many have incorporated in the past 20 years, does not seem to be effective. Why are more men not subjected to the same process in keeping the relationship healthy.

Is it time to go back to basics where men should just know what to do and if they do not the women just leave them to their nonsense?

Does anyone else think that there is some merit to this? Probably not, but the truth prevails.

[jah_yout]

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men try hard too

[missus_vegas]

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yes we really get a raw deal. we haffi breed fi ten months and den push out baby tear up wid pawts an affi get it sew back while him faint weh inna di room or dont come none at all cus him queasy

:bunfiyah:



uhm yes it does seem like dat eh...but then again i think women tend to read more that men so even if the book out deh dem nah go read it so the authors nah go mek no money.

i know for me( and i dont tink is me on) if mi have a nose bleed mi affi go find one book or article about wat cause it. how to stop it etc etc... same wen something go wrong wi run to each other(or books) to find out why it went wrong and how to fix it.

women jus love work up dem self more a so we tan.

[julie*mango]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: jah_yout</div><div class="ubbcode-body">men try hard too </div></div>

try hard to do what? keep an erection going?

[applepie]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Mrs___Diabolical</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: jah_yout</div><div class="ubbcode-body">men try hard too </div></div>

try hard to do what? keep an erection going? </div></div>

[twiney]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: applepie</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Mrs___Diabolical</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: jah_yout</div><div class="ubbcode-body">men try hard too </div></div>

try hard to do what? keep an erection going? </div></div>


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seems to be the discussion of the day ... waiiiiiie mi bodie

[SandiF]

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[bigbooie]

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**KISSTEET**

[R_C]

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&quot;<span style="font-style: italic">Is it time to go back to basics </span>?&quot;

Yes. Always wear something tight and revealing and be a little more friendly.

[H_O]

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Mizz vegus--uuum gestation is 9 months

[missus_vegas]

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and after nine months of diabitis and carring ur bad breed child she still affi push it out wen you(speaking to HO now cus him cyan be trusted) goodly outside di waiting room trying to push it in one a di young pretty nurse dem

[H_O]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: missus_vegas</div><div class="ubbcode-body">and after nine months of diabitis and carring ur bad breed child she still affi push it out wen you(speaking to HO now cus him cyan be trusted) goodly outside di waiting room trying to push it in one a di young pretty nurse dem

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yup. yuh write. das why hospitals have lots of storage clozet

[missus_vegas]

make him fall inlove and stay forever!!!!!!!!!

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[Suesumba]

Re: make him fall inlove and stay forever!!!!!!!!!

and they say women are high maintenance

[julie*mango]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: H_O</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Mizz vegus--uuum gestation is 9 months </div></div>

no dude it is actually 10 months ....