Ladies does your husband/significant other do this?

[Seveen]

Re: Ladies does your husband/significant other do this?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: remo</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Ja. Jewel</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Seveen</div><div class="ubbcode-body">right before each of my divorces i saved copious amounts of money before moving out

i skimped on food - we ate chicken, chicken and more chicken

one day i drove home in my new car

and the next day i moved into my luxury apartment

while he was at work

<span style="font-weight: bold"><span style="font-style: italic">it's a poor rat that only has one hole to climb into </span></span> </div></div>

Seveen!! </div></div>

A bet yuh if a man had done dat di whole a unno wudda call him a dirty scroundrel
an worse </div></div>

believe me i was called worse than that - but even then i knew about the following:


<span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'">Divorce leaves women significantly worse off financially than men, a study has found.

Despite recent reports of multi-million pound settlements, the study of more than 4,000 people has found that while a man's income increases, on average, by 11 per cent after he parts from his wife, a woman loses around 17 per cent of her income.

Sociologists, who tracked the income of divorcees over seven years, concluded that divorced women would be better off finding a new husband than trying to return to work.

They also said that mothers of young children fared particularly badly after divorce because they found it difficult to juggle work and raise a family.</span>

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[Dr.Dudd]

Re: Ladies does your husband/significant other do this?

If you have to hide money from your wife,it mean that you are not satisfying her financial needs. <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: H_O</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Hide money from you? </div></div>

[Stormmey]

Re: Ladies does your husband/significant other do this?

My take on this....

if you have to hide money from your SO it simply means you do not trust each other, so should should not be together just step. Stuff does not happen overnight it is usually staring you right in the face. Women usually like to look through rose <span style="font-weight: bold">tinted glasses</span> in a relationship when the signs have always been there because they claim to be in love.

Just like any other contract, and yes relationship is a contract which needs to be examined thoroughly before going in and while you are in keep assessing.

[Stormmey]

Re: Ladies does your husband/significant other do this?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Dr.Dudd</div><div class="ubbcode-body">If you have to hide money from your wife,it mean that you are not satisfying her financial needs. <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: H_O</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Hide money from you? </div></div> </div></div>

Doc makes sense

[missus_vegas]

Re: Ladies does your husband/significant other do this?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Stormmey1</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Dr.Dudd</div><div class="ubbcode-body">If you have to hide money from your wife,it mean that you are not satisfying her financial needs. <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: H_O</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Hide money from you? </div></div> </div></div>

Doc makes sense </div></div>

not necessarily...maybe the wife is just really bad with money and by yuh quint she done off di man paycheck and no grocery still no buy... i have heard these stories

[Dr.Dudd]

Re: Ladies does your husband/significant other do this?

My wife is bad with money. She will spend any amount for the church, and forget the grocery, but i still will not hide from her. As a matter of fact I still give her after she use all she has. i believe that it is my responsibility to earn it. Sh e does not have access to our investment funds.
not because U prevented her, but I can't access it either.
So whatever she spend is OK as long as I have some when i retire.
I myself do not spend money other than to buy gas. So i don't know what would happen if she did not.
sometimes I have checks 3 months old to be lodged in the bank.<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: missus_vegas</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Stormmey1</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Dr.Dudd</div><div class="ubbcode-body">If you have to hide money from your wife,it mean that you are not satisfying her financial needs. <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: H_O</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Hide money from you? </div></div> </div></div>

Doc makes sense </div></div>

not necessarily...maybe the wife is just really bad with money and by yuh quint she done off di man paycheck and no grocery still no buy... i have heard these stories </div></div>

[Stormmey]

Re: Ladies does your husband/significant other do this?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">not necessarily...maybe the wife is just really bad with money and by yuh <span style="font-weight: bold">quint</span> she done off di man paycheck and no grocery still no buy... i have heard these stories
</div></div>

the above bolded, why the hell this girl vegas always a quote her granmere bout quint!! a ded

[missus_vegas]

Re: Ladies does your husband/significant other do this?

ok do u even know wat quint mean...

mi keep forgetting seh u are not a real jamaican eino

[missus_vegas]

Re: Ladies does your husband/significant other do this?

Doc your wife obviously not bad wid money. bad wid money mean seh by time seh done spen u dont have no more to give har unless u did have some stashed aways

but i get wat ur saying though.

[Pepper]

Re: Ladies does your husband/significant other do this?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Yuri_</div><div class="ubbcode-body">My best friend has her husband handle all - ALLLLL - the the family finances. She says its too overwhelming for her.

I tell her, she best get with the program.

She's no clue what in what's account, which bill due when, when, who, what.

He alone pays all the bills.

He'll tell her ... <span style="font-style: italic">'dont spend anything on that credit card this month as we're running low on that acct'</span>

Peer 1952 ah buss inna da house deh.

So wrong. </div></div>

This happen all ovah, is not just the women. My GF has been managing the books for 19 years of marriage. One month she got tired and told him to pay the bills. As I said, ONE month that happened. He just can't manage it. I forget how long it took get the checkbook back in order.

She could rob him blind, or their credit could be shot. I guess he would rather have good credit.

[Gen]

Re: Ladies does your husband/significant other do this?

is your friend a space cadet ?? what she mean overwhelming ?? suh when she guh work a day time it too overwhelming fi guh cafeteria and order/pay fi lunch ? she call the husband fi come pay fi it fi har ?




<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Yuri_</div><div class="ubbcode-body">My best friend has her husband handle all - ALLLLL - the the family finances. She says its too overwhelming for her.

I tell her, she best get with the program.

She's no clue what in what's account, which bill due when, when, who, what.

He alone pays all the bills.

He'll tell her ... <span style="font-style: italic">'dont spend anything on that credit card this month as we're running low on that acct'</span>

Peer 1952 ah buss inna da house deh.

So wrong. </div></div>

[Gen]

Re: Ladies does your husband/significant other do this?

BOAL

checks ? lodge ? EFT nuh mek it up to new england yet ?

[Hugo]

Re: Ladies does your husband/significant other do this?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Gen</div><div class="ubbcode-body">BOAL

checks ? lodge ? EFT nuh mek it up to new england yet ? </div></div>

I was thinking the same thing. boal.

[Dr.Dudd]

Re: Ladies does your husband/significant other do this?

Many of my clients are old and still believe in the old school runnings.
And I collect from different income streams.
And We don't have the system to scan the check in my private office. And I can't deposit them in partnership account.
i have been in this position for years.
Some years, I get duplicate checks for checks that I did not deposit and didn't even realize it.
The state attorney dept usually advise the payer to send me duplicates. They are always a surprise tome.
My wife should deposit some and me some. But she is suppose to check the deposits. so is her fault <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Gen</div><div class="ubbcode-body">BOAL

checks ? lodge ? EFT nuh mek it up to new england yet ? </div></div>