Controlling SO

[Bizzy]

so yuh get a man/ooman an when u an dem deh good good, exclusively dem start tell yuh say u cyaan go certain place no more.
Yuh nuh fi talk to certain friends anymore.
u muss wear ur hair certain way
yuh cyaan dress how u want

etc

do you change up yuhself and accomodate de man/ooman requests, do what you wanna do anyways, lef de person...what?

[Yuriatin]

Re: Controlling SO

Come on Bizi - that's a no brainer.

At least - it <span style="font-weight: bold">should</span> be.

[Gen]

Re: Controlling SO

no, yuh inform him/her that &quot;mental health&quot; assistance is free some places


<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: BiziBubbla</div><div class="ubbcode-body">so yuh get a man/ooman an when u an dem deh good good, exclusively dem start tell yuh say u cyaan go certain place no more.
Yuh nuh fi talk to certain friends anymore.
u muss wear ur hair certain way
yuh cyaan dress how u want

etc

do you change up yuhself and accomodate de man/ooman requests, do what you wanna do anyways, lef de person...what? </div></div>

[esp]

Re: Controlling SO

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: BiziBubbla</div><div class="ubbcode-body">so yuh get a man/ooman an when u an dem deh good good, exclusively dem start tell yuh say u cyaan go certain place no more.
Yuh nuh fi talk to certain friends anymore.
u muss wear ur hair certain way
yuh cyaan dress how u want

etc

do you change up yuhself and accomodate de man/ooman requests, do what you wanna do anyways, lef de person...what? </div></div>


Dat person is jus plain disgusting

[ILP]

Re: Controlling SO

lawd...daht kinna ting still go on inna di millinuume

[RichD]

Re: Controlling SO

woman do this kind of thing but in a much more passive way

[Bizzy]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Yuri_</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Come on Bizi - that's a no brainer.

At least - it <span style="font-weight: bold">should</span> be.

</div></div>LOL afta annuh my situation.
and it isn't a no brainer cause nuff man and Especially ooman allow ppl fi do dat to dem.

[Bizzy]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: ILP_N_Belly</div><div class="ubbcode-body">lawd...daht kinna ting still go on inna di millinuume </div></div>

well, if you depserate or naw no self esteem smaddy can do dat you anytime at all

[esp]

Re: Controlling SO

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: RichD</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> woman do this kind of thing but in a much more passive way </div></div>

Especially the non slutty ones

[RichD]

Re: Controlling SO

yuh know moas time dem nuh even admit that this is what they doing

[loops]

Re: Controlling SO

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: BiziBubbla</div><div class="ubbcode-body">so yuh get a man/ooman an when u an dem deh good good, exclusively dem start tell yuh say u cyaan go certain place no more.
Yuh nuh fi talk to certain friends anymore.
u muss wear ur hair certain way
yuh cyaan dress how u want

etc

do you change up yuhself and accomodate de man/ooman requests, do what you wanna do anyways, lef de person...what? </div></div>

generally speaking...it goes like this.

you tell him where he can poop in the woods, fight breaks out. you don't speak for a few days...make up...then he starts up again....again you tell him to GDAB.

you see a shrink
HE sees a shrink....long term, intensive growing up process shrink

he either leaves or smartens up...next thing you know, he's giving other couples jealousy advice.

shrink dollars well spent=relationship issue solved

at any rate...YOU don't change a thing.

[esp]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: RichD</div><div class="ubbcode-body">yuh know moas time dem nuh even admit that this is what they doing </div></div>

Until dem fine out dat dem man name mearl insted of earl.....

[RichD]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: e_p</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: RichD</div><div class="ubbcode-body">yuh know moas time dem nuh even admit that this is what they doing </div></div>

Until dem fine out dat dem man name mearl insted of earl..... </div></div>



or that him gone

[Bizzy]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: RichD</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: e_p</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: RichD</div><div class="ubbcode-body">yuh know moas time dem nuh even admit that this is what they doing </div></div>

Until dem fine out dat dem man name mearl insted of earl..... </div></div>



or that him gone </div></div>


a wah do unu

EP, u need fi go tek time out inna one corner

[Bizzy]

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dis soun very detail Loops.\o/

if mi neva know betta, mi would think u have sumting fi share

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: loops</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: BiziBubbla</div><div class="ubbcode-body">so yuh get a man/ooman an when u an dem deh good good, exclusively dem start tell yuh say u cyaan go certain place no more.
Yuh nuh fi talk to certain friends anymore.
u muss wear ur hair certain way
yuh cyaan dress how u want

etc

do you change up yuhself and accomodate de man/ooman requests, do what you wanna do anyways, lef de person...what? </div></div>

generally speaking...it goes like this.

you tell him where he can poop in the woods, fight breaks out. you don't speak for a few days...make up...then he starts up again....again you tell him to GDAB.

you see a shrink
HE sees a shrink....long term, intensive growing up process shrink

he either leaves or smartens up...next thing you know, he's giving other couples jealousy advice.

shrink dollars well spent=relationship issue solved

at any rate...YOU don't change a thing. </div></div>