suppose

[annshan2]

you live at home with daughter and the child father and you and the man decide to get married and baptism
so then unno baptism and couple months ago before the weddin the daughter tell you say her father use to molest her from she a small and you ask him and him say yes and please forgive him because he is not that kind of man any more
Would you still still go ahead and married

[CeaBee]

Re: suppose

no sah.

why? pastor telling her to forgive and forget?

[annshan2]

Re: suppose

yes because the bible say to forgive
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: PRoLurkah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">no sah.

why? pastor telling her to forgive and forget? </div></div>

[CeaBee]

Re: suppose

how about me forgive..but him still haffi cum outta the house?

[Gen]

Re: suppose

really ?? would the pastor like to pick up his teeth from off the floor ?? would he forgive me too ??




<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Annshan2</div><div class="ubbcode-body">yes because the bible say to forgive
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: PRoLurkah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">no sah.

why? pastor telling her to forgive and forget? </div></div> </div></div>

[Nylah]

Re: suppose


what does forgiveness really have to do with it? I as a woman could not lay with a man that had done the same with our biological daughter.

Whether a person chooses to forgive that mess is for them to do. But the dynamics of the relationship is now broken. Done. I would never torture my child like that.

Any pastor that would insist that a child continue in that environment and expect a woman to contine breeding with a man that is capable of that should be pulled from clergy

[kia027]

Re: suppose

No I would not because a man who lays with a child has a serious issue. That issue would have to be dealt with and resolved.

The daughters emotional and physical well being come first too. Is the daughter getting therapy?

[twiney]

Re: suppose

Mek a tell unno something ... mi pray mi pickney nah lie to mi cause mi believing her and he's out the door. That is one of the few things mi know that all when mi forgive you mi and you done.

[julie*mango]

Re: suppose

mi wudda need forgiveness fram di Lawd afta mi dun gut him