is being a paid dominatrix prostitution?

[Suesumba]

i really need to know.



TORONTO — A woman calling herself Canada's most famous dominatrix says the best years of her life were spent spanking and tying up clients in her north Toronto bondage hotel.

Terri-Jean Bedford, whose infamous "bondage bungalow" in Thornhill was raided in 1994, laid out her life story for federal and provincial Crown attorneys Friday as an example of why prostitution should be decriminalized.

"The safest and happiest period in my life was when I was up in Thornhill, running the (bondage) service from my house," she said


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she says being a dominatrix is not prostitution

[RichD]

Re: is being a paid dominatrix prostitution?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body">i really need to know.



</div></div> is the boots you like?

[turtledude]

Re: is being a paid dominatrix prostitution?

Glad she's trying to change the system. They (dominatrix) definitely have their place in society.
I swear, this one attorney for an insurance company (representing a guy who rear-ended and totaled my truck), was so nasty in his questioning of me, that I <span style="font-style: italic">believe</span> he must have kept a dominatrix on retainer in order to live with himself after practicing his evil money grubbing job. Nasty man.

[Suesumba]

Re: is being a paid dominatrix prostitution?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: RichD</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body">i really need to know.



</div></div> is the boots you like? </div></div>

yu wanna know something. years ago i bought pvc dominatrix boots that went over the knee. i was so excited i ran into my boss's office to show him. his reply &quot;wear them with shorts&quot;. i wore those things till the shank broke.

[RichD]

Re: is being a paid dominatrix prostitution?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: RichD</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body">i really need to know.



</div></div> is the boots you like? </div></div>

yu wanna know something. years ago i bought pvc dominatrix boots that went over the knee. i was so excited i ran into my boss's office to show him. his reply &quot;wear them with shorts&quot;. i wore those things till the shank broke. </div></div> did you get a raise?

[Suesumba]

Re: is being a paid dominatrix prostitution?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: turtledude</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><span style="font-weight: bold">dominatrix) definitely have their place in society.
</span>I... he must have kept a dominatrix on retainer in order to live with himself after practicing his evil money grubbing job. Nasty man. </div></div>

i've heard that men of this sort are exactly the type that need this sort of secret life. it balances them out.

[Suesumba]

Re: is being a paid dominatrix prostitution?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: RichD</div><div class="ubbcode-body">did you get a raise? </div></div>

the hardest part of my job was listening to him tell me his worries. the only time of year i was busy was in organizing the ski trip for clients at craighleith his club. people used to gossip that we were boinking caz we took lunches togehter and i was in his office with the door clozed all the time. but he'd just be telling me about his wife's panic attacks (i had to deal with those too), how he had the runs the evening before, why he can't submit bills... etc. ran into him the other day. lost all his hair. he used to be a better looking version of kevin costner. sigh.

[turtledude]

Re: is being a paid dominatrix prostitution?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: turtledude</div><div class="ubbcode-body">dominatrix) definitely have their place in society.
<span style="font-weight: bold">I... he </span>must have kept a dominatrix on retainer in order to live with himself after practicing his evil money grubbing job. Nasty man. </div></div>

i've heard that men of this sort are exactly the type that need this sort of secret life. it balances them out. </div></div>

could you reparaphrase my quote, pleeeez?

[Stormmey]

Re: is being a paid dominatrix prostitution?

I think it is a fine line and up for interpretation...

Prostitution is defined as the act of engaging in sexual activity in exchange for money or goods and a dominatrix is dominating woman (especially one who plays that role in a sadomasochistic <span style="font-weight: bold">sexual</span> relationship) memba dat a dominatrix does not necessarily dominate a male partner a dominatrix may well have <span style="font-weight: bold">female submissives</span>

In the <span style="font-weight: bold">above</span> capacity it can be regarded as prostitution...if is the <span style="font-weight: bold">below </span>then I think it is up for interpretation, a fine line though.....also iff the person is a male then is called a dominant or Dom

This is the below
While not always overtly sexual in nature, the activities and relationships within a BDSM context are almost always <span style="font-weight: bold">eroticized</span> by the participants in some fashion. Many of these practices fall outside of conventional sexual activities and human relationships.

Lawd me a wait pon Sue fee come gimme dis or dis

<span style="font-style: italic">wonder if mee shudda poas some whips,eroticas,chains, catsuits an adda excetera excetera!! </span>

step back in to say I think my step-dad is a prime candidate for a dominatrix.....what a man submissive if me Mada say jump him sey how high...cho

[Derek]

Re: is being a paid dominatrix prostitution?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body">i really need to know.


<span style="font-weight: bold">an example of why prostitution should be decriminalized. </span></div></div>

Does that answer your question, Sue?

If the man derives (albeit perverse) sexual pleasure from whatever the woman is doing to him, and he pays her for it, then by definition this is prostitution.

[turtledude]

Re: is being a paid dominatrix prostitution?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Derek</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body">i really need to know.


<span style="font-weight: bold">an example of why prostitution should be decriminalized. </span></div></div>

Does that answer your question, Sue?

If the man derives (albeit perverse) sexual pleasure from whatever the woman is doing to him, and he pays her for it, then by definition this is prostitution.


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then that includes marriage?

[Stormmey]

Re: is being a paid dominatrix prostitution?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Derek</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body">i really need to know.


<span style="font-weight: bold">an example of why prostitution should be decriminalized. </span></div></div>

Does that answer your question, Sue?

<span style="font-weight: bold">If the man derives (albeit perverse) sexual pleasure from whatever the woman is doing to him</span>, and he pays her for it, then by definition this is prostitution.

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No it aint bout pleasure....sex is defined only one way. Pleasure like you say is up for interpretation albeit perverse. From it does not involve penetration of the vagina as far as me concerned is not sex. and am not dealing with foreign object ida

Plus your above that I bolded a man can be the domanatrix, then he would be called a Dom lets practice equality here!!

[Suesumba]

Re: is being a paid dominatrix prostitution?

i'm of two minds Derek. some men just want to polish your toes and kiss and suck them for sexual pleasure... aye gavalt. human sexuality is such a weird thing.

personally i think they should let her run her Sissy Maid Academy

[turtledude]

Re: is being a paid dominatrix prostitution?

the &quot;Cheyenne Social Club&quot; with Jimmy Stewart and Henry Fonda and was more like my <span style="font-style: italic">speed. </span>

[Suesumba]

Re: is being a paid dominatrix prostitution?

TDude will go and google

o it's a movie