inspired by bizi and a conversation mi had today

[missus_vegas]

How do u feel entertaining or accepting visitor/friend of the opposit sex at your home while your SO is out of town? Even if its a casual friend and no feelings no deh deh?


personally i dont think its appropriate...call me immature/ paranoid/ insecure whatever...but if di man aint home i dont tink no man should come itch up a mi yard...wah him a do deh?

an if mi not home only odda ooman can deh a my yard is my madda or him sista etc

wah oonuh tink?

[diabolical_Tanya]

Re: inspired by bizi and a conversation mi had today

sounds like there is not a lot of trust in the relationship

[Bizzy]

Re: inspired by bizi and a conversation mi had today

depends on the friend.

I would feel comfortable with only one of his friends...the others no way

[missus_vegas]

Re: inspired by bizi and a conversation mi had today

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Shebada</div><div class="ubbcode-body">sounds like there is not a lot of trust in the relationship </div></div>

trust no have nothing fi do wid it some time.

[CeaBee]

Re: inspired by bizi and a conversation mi had today

this view sound kinda extreme

my friend couldnt drop by for a quick visit unless he (SO) is at home



i guess if both parties (husband and wife) agree with it, then is alrite.

[diabolical_Tanya]

Re: inspired by bizi and a conversation mi had today

well I have 2 girlfriends I feel comfortable with him being with without me there.....except mi know dem agoh chat mi

I have male friends I was friends with before he came in the picture and I would hate to think he is insecure and would get bex if dem come chill out wid mi when him noh deh bout.

[missus_vegas]

Re: inspired by bizi and a conversation mi had today

yuh read weh mi seh if ur SO is out of town

[CeaBee]

Re: inspired by bizi and a conversation mi had today

but what's the difference if him at work, gone to school or if him outta town?

or u saying that the friend is staying at the house (as in with luggage) while the man outta town?

[Bizzy]

Re: inspired by bizi and a conversation mi had today

what?<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: CeaBee</div><div class="ubbcode-body">this view sound kinda extreme

<span style="font-weight: bold">my friend couldnt drop by for a quick visit unless him is at home
</span>


i guess if both parties (husband and wife) agree with it, then is alrite. </div></div>

[CeaBee]

Re: inspired by bizi and a conversation mi had today


what what?

nuh that vegas saying?
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: BiziBubbla</div><div class="ubbcode-body">what?<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: CeaBee</div><div class="ubbcode-body">this view sound kinda extreme

<span style="font-weight: bold">my friend couldnt drop by for a quick visit unless him is at home
</span>


i guess if both parties (husband and wife) agree with it, then is alrite. </div></div> </div></div>

[twiney]

Re: inspired by bizi and a conversation mi had today

Yuh si since every man mi know who no related to me (that could possibly want fi stay at mi yaad) either was looking mi at one point or waiting for the opportunity fi get some mi no want dem at mi yaad when him not there. him have one fren weh could come stay cause if him put awgument to har shi woulda
bax him into next year.

[missus_vegas]

Re: inspired by bizi and a conversation mi had today

ok would it be different if dem came to visit a nite...outa di blue fi no reason...knowing dat ur SO is not there? and is his frend not really your fren?????

maybe mi weird but i just dont tink it appropriate

[Bizzy]

Re: inspired by bizi and a conversation mi had today

now that i re-read ur post...

i am wondering why i would be inviting my SO friend over when he is out of town something muss did wrong an de man tell mi fi link him fren or like how mi luv play match maker, mi miss a set him up wid a fren or sumthing. But to just invite his friend over for a drink while he's gone wah de point?

an him nuh fi a invite my friend over to shoot the breeze or chill either

all that sounds suspect...

[CeaBee]

Re: inspired by bizi and a conversation mi had today

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: missus_vegas</div><div class="ubbcode-body">ok would it be different if dem came to visit a nite...outa di blue fi no reason...knowing dat ur SO is not there? and is his frend not really your fren?????

maybe mi weird but i just dont tink it appropriate </div></div>

yes that is different.

if the person is not my friend them doan have no reason to be there, if SO not home.

[missus_vegas]

Re: inspired by bizi and a conversation mi had today

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Twiney</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Yuh si since every man mi know who no related to me (that could possibly want fi stay at mi yaad) either was looking mi at one point or waiting for the opportunity fi get some mi no want dem at mi yaad when him not there. him have one fren weh could come stay cause if him put awgument to har shi woulda
bax him into next year. </div></div>

ok u get wah mi say. di res dem no understand mi