Creeping.

[julie*mango]

Re: Creeping.

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Peasie</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: _____</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I am not naive enough to say that it can never happen behind my back without my knowledge... but if him shud be ever so careless fi mek mi fine out an it come back to mi...all hell breaketh loose </div></div>
But what if you cheated? What if you were curious and had an affair or a short-time fling? You are now sorry. What do you think would happen? </div></div>

Liseen to mi....mi neva seh mi perfeck ie nuh...mi seh jus nuh mek mi ketch him...an mi will mek sure him nuh ketch mi

[Makafat]

Re: Creeping.

Wendy mentioned lack of sexual satisfaction; and revenge.
Do you think that for the most part men will creep for sex; while women are inclined to creep for revenge?

[Peasie]

Re: Creeping.

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Makafat</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Wendy mentioned lack of sexual satisfaction; and revenge.
Do you think that for the most part men will creep for sex; while women are inclined to creep for revenge? </div></div>
Revenge sex .... ooh la la

[Wendy]

Re: Creeping.

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Shebada</div><div class="ubbcode-body">any how dis whole creeping ting....many people go into a relationship/marriage and NEVER have the conversation about cheating, just assume that if he/she loves me they won't cheat.

COMMUNICATION people COMMUNICATION.

si me, I go in with the assumption that given the opportunity he is going to cheat. So we had the conversation and established ground rules and unforgivable lines and made everything crystal clear.

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AMEN Cudden say it any better about the communication factor.

Mi was pleasantly surprised sey mi SO come to mi an have a dialogue about the Tiger Woods ting an fram that conversation I get to understand more of how he thinks and feels about the subject {reading between the lines} and vice versa. Nutten is gauranteed but the open communication is vital.

[Wendy]

Re: Creeping.

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Makafat</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Wendy mentioned lack of sexual satisfaction; and revenge.
Do you think that for the most part men will creep for sex; while women are inclined to creep for revenge? </div></div>

But Makafat yuh k=know sey statistics show dat men often do not cheat just for &quot;sex&quot;. They end up straying more for lack of companionship and appreciation from their partner ..when they develop this &quot;closeness&quot;, connection and feel a sense of appreciation from the other women then that leads to sex .. but the initial draw most men claim is not to have the sex.

[Makafat]

Re: Creeping.

Wendy, I think you are striking the nail on the head; so for men, they need to be better communicators.
What about the women; what are the main reasons why they creep?

[diabolical_Tanya]

Re: Creeping.

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Makafat</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Wendy, I think you are striking the nail on the head; so for men, they need to be better communicators.
What about the women; what are the main reasons why they creep? </div></div>same thing, attention/appreciation