Clear the Air Just incase

[Wendy]

I have got to ask this question cause mi kina confuse pan dah wan yah. One guy a tell mi sey im cyan undastan why some women mad when dem find out that the man dem with has a girlfriend or a wife and she is di “wan pan di side” basically a fi dem fault cause dem neva ask.

Im claim sey it is up to the woman to clear di air up front and ask the man straight up – “Yuh have any odda woman mi should know of?

OK my take is that.. yeah dat soun fine and dandy but what if yuh ask dat up front and it back fire and di man tink yuh insecure right off the bat an loose yuh numba

Wey unu tink bout dat claim sey every woman mus clear di air on that subject fram day one.

[diabolical_Tanya]

Re: Clear the Air Just incase

I do not agree wid it



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[Wendy]

Re: Clear the Air Just incase

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Den sey why yuh noh agree noh .. Mi waan hear yuh argument

[diabolical_Tanya]

Re: Clear the Air Just incase

If a man come look mi an wi in the process of establishing a relationship then I am assuming that he is free and clear to be doing that. No wife or live in oooman in the picture.

But what happens sometimes is the side piece fools herself into thinking she is the one and only because she don't want to admit to herself that she is the fool that she is. Tek what is just a bootycall an try mek it in to a relationship (in her head)

[Seveen]

Re: Clear the Air Just incase

i'm may not ask the question on the first date but i am going to ask it before the &quot;bootycall&quot;

[diabolical_Tanya]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Seveen</div><div class="ubbcode-body">i'm may not ask the question on the first date but i am going to ask it before the &quot;bootycall&quot; </div></div> Bootycalls don't go out on dates. Please familiarze your self with the rules posted on www.bootycalls.com if you going to use the term

[Wendy]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Diabolical_Tanya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">If a man come look mi an wi in the process of establishing a relationship then I am assuming that he is free and clear to be doing that. No wife or live in oooman in the picture.

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That's wey mi did a sey to ... But im adamant sey woman muss clear di air and not get mad when them find out other wise

To me im jus a try excuse the man's dishonesty and cast the blame pan di <span style="font-style: italic">victim</span>.

[Boopie2]

Re: Clear the Air Just incase

If a man come look mi an wi in the process of establishing a relationship then I am assuming that he is free and clear to be doing that.


That kind of thinking is plain silly, most men are just greedy and have a woman/ women or a wife. You have to ask up front, if not you're being the stupid one.