On the topic of knocking up a girl..YOUR OPINION

[H_O]

Theres this kid, Mathew who lives across the road.he just turned 18 a few weeks ago and hes in his first year of college.
Hes actually a pretty decent kid, I like him and Lorna likes him and he lets Elijah over to play xbox
but hes actually pretty handy with tools and stuff.
His dad is a alcoholic (Saturday morning by 8am he already has a beer cracked) and his mom is a raving nagging lunatic-Lorna thinks she drives him to drink). But heres the thing--his mother SPOIL HIM. you know the deal, his dad give him crap for something and his mom defend Mathew and then rags out on his dad.
Mathew has a girlfriend--shes half Trinidadian and half Canadian-she very pretty

[H_O]

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Couple times i ask him what Sara doing with a messy slob like you
Long story short, lately I havent seen Sara come around so i ask Mathew where Sara been. Well, the other day he knocks my door and Lorna let him in, tells us Sara pregnant and shes 7 months along and he hasnt told his mom
Sara isnt coming around cause she dont want his mom to see her belly
mathew sat at my kitchen table crying cuz he doesnt know how to tell his mom
Im like , yo, dude--you need to tell your mom-seriously.
Lornas like --dont you protect yourself and giving him the speech. But this kids mom going to go postal.

[Wendy]

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Man!!!

All a this not good for that unborn child. I am very old woman (29 to be exact) and I still old some pain and have not been as close as I could be with my dad over this same mess.

Mi noh waan start di bawling dis marning (<span style="font-style: italic">cause mi noh so cute wid nose naught a run dung pan mi mout lip</span>) but my Dad had me very young and he too refuse to acknowledge I was his child for quite sometime trying to hide it from my grandparents. This lying and not owning up to kids is ATROCIOUS and only hurts children!

It is so disheartening too see seemingly immature young men act so irresponsible when it comes to sex. **sigh**

Wey di hell im a do now H_O..cause pickney anoh someting yuh can hide fi eternity.

[SandiF]

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mi dey pon dis board bout 50 odd years now....
...bout yu a 29

<span style="font-style: italic">but anyways mi still 22 to be exact</span>




<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I am very old woman (29 to be exact) </div></div>

[Wendy]

Re: On the topic of knocking up a girl..YOUR OPINION

Move an Gwey Mi jus turn 29! Swweetsop can vouche fi me.

An if yuh a 22 den ILP a wan virgin

[H_O]

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Wendy, hes a nice kid,,,but hes stupid for 1) not protecting himself and her, (2) not telling his mother-cuz i know Cathy going to bust his head-because he waited 7 months to tell his mom.

and you know the little weasel told me he was thinking of &quot;dumping&quot; Sarah -like he thinks thats going to make the situation go away.

I told him if he did that to the girl i would bust his skull.
buut i told him no matter what, eventually he will end up paying for it somewhere in life

[Wendy]

Re: On the topic of knocking up a girl..YOUR OPINION

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: H_O</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Wendy, hes a nice kid,,,but hes stupid for 1) not protecting himself and her, (2) not telling his mother-cuz i know Cathy going to bust his head-because he waited 7 months to tell his mom.

and you know the little weasel told me he was thinking of &quot;dumping&quot; Sarah -like he thinks thats going to make the situation go away.

I told him if he did that to the girl i would bust his skull.
<span style="font-weight: bold">buut i told him no matter what, eventually he will end up paying for it somewhe</span>re in life

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Den noh dat.... I dont know what it will take for young people to learn that they have to protect themselves. Is not like dem noh know what can happen if they don't. If that naah scare the living Jesas outta dem ..what will? \o/

[kia027]

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Will you have to tell him he has to tell his parents

He is 18, it happens and he needs their support more than ever

plus Sara needs him more than ever too

sooo he has to grow up now.

Is he stil n school? Does he have a job?

[H_O]

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I told him he needs to tell them. he is just start college

[ILP]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Wendilina</div><div class="ubbcode-body">An if yuh a 22 den ILP a wan virgin </div></div>

mi see you love call mi name

ahn for you imformation is artificial injection gi mi di belly

[kia027]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: H_O</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I told him he needs to tell them. he is just start college </div></div>


How do the parents feel about Sara? Dem like her or dem just neutral?

Sound like im gwine haffi grow up quick!