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from another site.....i hope dis chick deals wid her issues before bringing a child into dis world
Why do I want a baby so bad?
Me and my fiance have been together for 4 years we have been living together for two of those years and I really want a baby, I have for a while now. I dont think that he wants kids he keeps saying he does but he doesnt want one now. We both work and I know that we can figure it out if we have a baby. I dont know why I want one so bad, Im thinking there is several reasons. I am 20 years old. I dont like having sex anymore and My fiance gets paranoid becuase of it... But i think that sex is meant to make life and reproduce and I think i dont like having sex anymore really becuase i know im not getting what i want out of it and i think its wrong just to do it all the time for pleasure. Everytime i see a pregnant woman or a happy couple with a baby i get so jealous, I have even cried over it. I really want one!!! I dont know why he doesnt want one.. these are my reasons though.
One is my mom had kids at a young age and I got to grow up with my mom and we became really close. I would love that for my kid.
Another reason I think i might want a kid real bad is because I am a girl.. Girls want babies!!!!
I think being a mother would make me much happier in life and I dont want to have kids after I turn 25. Thats even pushing it. I dont want to be a 50 year old mom. (no offence to those of you who are its just my opinion on what I want)
does anyone have any advise as to how i can talk to him about this and maybe get him to actually see my point.? I have been feeling really depressed lately thinking i would have a baby by now and I dont. I dont know what to do I really want a baby... I know people are going to say stuff along the lines like "you're young live life" well I sit at home when i am not working i never go out and I have all the time in the world for a baby, Im not worried whatsoever about not having a "life" becuase i have a kid.. To me my kid would be my life.! like i said i would be so much happier!
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I have gotten some responses about the sex thing... and I was raped a few years back so to me sex is pretty much the last thing on my mind. it is nice in a relationship buit i think what i was trying to get at is i am sick of having sex and knowing he doesnt want a kid. I think there is more to sex than just the fun part of it. becuase to me sex is no longer fun after being raped and all the crap i got for not telling anyone. those of you who have been raped know how that is.
2 weeks ago
Why do I want a baby so bad?
Me and my fiance have been together for 4 years we have been living together for two of those years and I really want a baby, I have for a while now. I dont think that he wants kids he keeps saying he does but he doesnt want one now. We both work and I know that we can figure it out if we have a baby. I dont know why I want one so bad, Im thinking there is several reasons. I am 20 years old. I dont like having sex anymore and My fiance gets paranoid becuase of it... But i think that sex is meant to make life and reproduce and I think i dont like having sex anymore really becuase i know im not getting what i want out of it and i think its wrong just to do it all the time for pleasure. Everytime i see a pregnant woman or a happy couple with a baby i get so jealous, I have even cried over it. I really want one!!! I dont know why he doesnt want one.. these are my reasons though.
One is my mom had kids at a young age and I got to grow up with my mom and we became really close. I would love that for my kid.
Another reason I think i might want a kid real bad is because I am a girl.. Girls want babies!!!!
I think being a mother would make me much happier in life and I dont want to have kids after I turn 25. Thats even pushing it. I dont want to be a 50 year old mom. (no offence to those of you who are its just my opinion on what I want)
does anyone have any advise as to how i can talk to him about this and maybe get him to actually see my point.? I have been feeling really depressed lately thinking i would have a baby by now and I dont. I dont know what to do I really want a baby... I know people are going to say stuff along the lines like "you're young live life" well I sit at home when i am not working i never go out and I have all the time in the world for a baby, Im not worried whatsoever about not having a "life" becuase i have a kid.. To me my kid would be my life.! like i said i would be so much happier!
* 2 weeks ago
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I have gotten some responses about the sex thing... and I was raped a few years back so to me sex is pretty much the last thing on my mind. it is nice in a relationship buit i think what i was trying to get at is i am sick of having sex and knowing he doesnt want a kid. I think there is more to sex than just the fun part of it. becuase to me sex is no longer fun after being raped and all the crap i got for not telling anyone. those of you who have been raped know how that is.
2 weeks ago