DEXTER Negril

[Hush Darlin]

Re: DEXTER Negril

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">He asked me to marry him/have his baby and I fell for his patter.
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she wanted to have his baby hence not using birth control

[Nylah]

Re: DEXTER Negril

sorry to say, just cause you have known him for years doesnt mean you &quot;knew&quot; him.

if you had truly gotten to know him, you would have seen the warning signs long time especially if u are a cautious person who pays attention.

Men like him always leave clues......

[Hush Darlin]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: played</div><div class="ubbcode-body">He played me for a fool,He was NOT somebody I felt I hardly knew,I had known him for years.
The reason I put the girls name on here is becase she is only 18 and I know he is doing the exact same thing to her only even worse as he has made her parents believe he really truly loves her and so they bring her to see him.
Me and this one other girl in particular actually met a few times he was playing us both at the same time and place I just never realised it until it was too late to tell her.Then I found out about the others.
I am usually the one to warn others away from messes like this so he must have been one smooth talker.First on my agenda will be std testing. </div></div>
so you are saying after you found out he was playing you and the others you continue to play along and got pregnant

[Seveen]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: loops</div><div class="ubbcode-body">ooo ooo i know the answer to that one.

it's because condoms suck </div></div>

or . . . it's hard to suck a condom

anyway - get yourself back on track, take _______'s advice, get an abortion if necessary, get an STD check (and i hope that's all you have) and check it up to &quot;experience&quot;

this story has &quot;played&quot; itself out over and over again - but each person thinks their &quot;man&quot; is different

the sun and sea are that strong to me

<span style="font-size: 8pt"><span style="font-style: italic">bet she never comes back </span></span>

ETA: wow she did come back!

[Hush Darlin]

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aha upi paid and got played huh

[played]

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He had us BOTH in his car at one point and the 18 yr old girls parents asked me who I was and was it my first time to Jamaica(probably looking out for their daughter)
so I just answered casually,IF I had realised that was one of the girls sat in the back at that time I would have made it clear to them that he had invited me and asked me to marry him!
The same girl also came to meet him when I had gone to suprise meet him,I saw her coming and he darted off but I never actually saw them talking because when he darted off I asked his friend where had he gone and his friend said maybe to put gas in the car so I waited a few minutes thinking he best not be with that girl(gut feeling)
but when I turned around she was sat there reading a book and he was at the bar-Turns out he had saw her coming took her around the back of the bar,probably told her he was taking me and his friend somewhere and that she was to sit there and wait and read a book!Then was laughing with the boys at the bar at the fact he had 2 girls sat there.There were at least 4 or 5 of us over a 2 week period.I think the others are totally clueless about it all.I was going to stay and confront him and speak to the girls but that would have been at my cost of a flight change so why bother?

[Hush Darlin]

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so you think that the other girls come to this board so you come here and post this ish to warn them.

[Seveen]

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how did you know him for &quot;years&quot; if you only go for holidays

sounds like he was making up for slow season . . .

[played]

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Not at al,Just cannot believe I was so stupid,getting it off my chest and warning ladies in general
Like I said-I was always the one who used to tell other ladies not to fall for the men's chatter out there,This one was REALLY believable though.I think that must be a talent in itself.

[RichD]

Re: DEXTER Negril

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: played</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I think that must be a talent in itself. </div></div>
thats how they make their living.

[Hush Darlin]

Re: DEXTER Negril

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: RichD</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: played</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I think that must be a talent in itself. </div></div>
thats how they make their living. </div></div>
BOAL

[played]

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I suppose I should be grateful that I never paid for any of his services.
I stupidly assumed working on the boat and doing tours was his job.If I had the slightest feeling he was a gigalo I would never have looked twice at him.

[played]

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Which is another reason why I believed him,He was calling me,He chased me and I never gave him money so I guess I will never know what he wanted.Maybe just a visa,maybe he liked me a bit.

[RichD]

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did you buy him drinks? pay for meals? send diapers for the baby? top up his phone?

[Seveen]

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if you bought him &quot;gifts&quot;, paid for drinks, paid for dinner and screwed him - he got paid for his services

with a little western union thrown in . . .