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When we think of the other woman, we think of a classless woman who plotted and schemed to break up your happy home, or your version of it.
She is often thought of as being a gold digger, likened to a thief and a harlot, called a whore, compared to the word reserved for a female dog.
Let us examine the chain of events that occur in the typical “man tekkin saga”. We have somehow convinced ourselves that this jezebel one day decided to swoop down with wings the span of an airplane’s, descended upon your unsuspecting man with eyes hungry like a vulture, with talons as sharp as an eagle and snatched the man from between your loins and took this poor unsuspecting man away.
But in reality, is that ever really what happens? In ninety-percent of these cases didn’t your man pursue her? Now what she did is by no means ok, but she didn’t steal him because if she did, the FBI would have ample evidence to open up a large kidnapping ring.
You hurt, you cry, you curse but in reality she didn’t kidnap him, for if she did, she would have made a ransom demands and one can assume if ransom demand has been made and she has not returned him then you could quite possibly go to court and convince a judge that he has met an untimely death and collected on his life insurance policy. In reality he’s somewhere holed up in her house doing what HE wants to do, he is where HE wants to be and that’s with her and not with you. For the moment.
You see men who can be “taken” are usually looking for ego boosters, he will eventually get tired of her flavor and move on to the next and this is where the rose colored glasses need to come off in your world.
I must warn you if you are of the mindset that these women are always at fault stop reading now because this article will no doubt give you a coronary, you may have to endure a quadruple by pass.
Are you ready for the truth? She didn’t take him. He left. Willingly.
Go back to that statement and read it three times. Accept it? Ok now let’s move on.
How do you approach this situation. Here’s what you should do to get him back.
Nothing.
Yep that’s right and before you start rolling your eyes at the words in front of you and try to have my editor have me committed for being insane give me the time to explain myself.
This man that you have been pining over was never any good. Chances are you weren’t happy anyway, you may have pretended but you really weren’t were you? Ninety-percent happiness isn’t true happiness and if he’s busy making you 100% happy that makes him invisible to the gutless vulture encircling your home. He wd be too busy to be snatched up. She would swoop and would crash land each time.
How do you handle this situation then? You say a little prayer of thanks, ask God to richly bless her for her insight to realize from a distance that you were a very unhappy woman and she did what Jesus did on that cross she picked up your burden and is bearing it for you.
You compared her to the almighty savior you might ask. Why, yes I did. Get your hands off that dial pad trying to have your pastor condemn me and hear me out. He’s was a lying conniving narcissist who had no problems being selfish and not realizing the true value of what he had, a good woman, a good home, being catered to, being unconditionally loved. He spent time putting you down, not giving you the time of day and being downright disrespectful. You prayed for a change, you have asked for an intervention, God (or the devil – that’s still up in the air) has granted you the reprieve and you are not being ungrateful by cursing the very hands that so selflessly decided to remove your burden and bear it all.
Appreciate her for she is a strong woman to have done what you have been so weak to do. At night say an extra God Bless for her, show her mercy and kindness from a distance because pretty soon she will need it. Send her a bouquet of flowers anonymously with a huge thank you card attached. Splurge on it. As for you, MOVE ON!!!!!!!!!!!
<span style="font-size: 8pt">posted with permission from the author</span>
When we think of the other woman, we think of a classless woman who plotted and schemed to break up your happy home, or your version of it.
She is often thought of as being a gold digger, likened to a thief and a harlot, called a whore, compared to the word reserved for a female dog.
Let us examine the chain of events that occur in the typical “man tekkin saga”. We have somehow convinced ourselves that this jezebel one day decided to swoop down with wings the span of an airplane’s, descended upon your unsuspecting man with eyes hungry like a vulture, with talons as sharp as an eagle and snatched the man from between your loins and took this poor unsuspecting man away.
But in reality, is that ever really what happens? In ninety-percent of these cases didn’t your man pursue her? Now what she did is by no means ok, but she didn’t steal him because if she did, the FBI would have ample evidence to open up a large kidnapping ring.
You hurt, you cry, you curse but in reality she didn’t kidnap him, for if she did, she would have made a ransom demands and one can assume if ransom demand has been made and she has not returned him then you could quite possibly go to court and convince a judge that he has met an untimely death and collected on his life insurance policy. In reality he’s somewhere holed up in her house doing what HE wants to do, he is where HE wants to be and that’s with her and not with you. For the moment.
You see men who can be “taken” are usually looking for ego boosters, he will eventually get tired of her flavor and move on to the next and this is where the rose colored glasses need to come off in your world.
I must warn you if you are of the mindset that these women are always at fault stop reading now because this article will no doubt give you a coronary, you may have to endure a quadruple by pass.
Are you ready for the truth? She didn’t take him. He left. Willingly.
Go back to that statement and read it three times. Accept it? Ok now let’s move on.
How do you approach this situation. Here’s what you should do to get him back.
Nothing.
Yep that’s right and before you start rolling your eyes at the words in front of you and try to have my editor have me committed for being insane give me the time to explain myself.
This man that you have been pining over was never any good. Chances are you weren’t happy anyway, you may have pretended but you really weren’t were you? Ninety-percent happiness isn’t true happiness and if he’s busy making you 100% happy that makes him invisible to the gutless vulture encircling your home. He wd be too busy to be snatched up. She would swoop and would crash land each time.
How do you handle this situation then? You say a little prayer of thanks, ask God to richly bless her for her insight to realize from a distance that you were a very unhappy woman and she did what Jesus did on that cross she picked up your burden and is bearing it for you.
You compared her to the almighty savior you might ask. Why, yes I did. Get your hands off that dial pad trying to have your pastor condemn me and hear me out. He’s was a lying conniving narcissist who had no problems being selfish and not realizing the true value of what he had, a good woman, a good home, being catered to, being unconditionally loved. He spent time putting you down, not giving you the time of day and being downright disrespectful. You prayed for a change, you have asked for an intervention, God (or the devil – that’s still up in the air) has granted you the reprieve and you are not being ungrateful by cursing the very hands that so selflessly decided to remove your burden and bear it all.
Appreciate her for she is a strong woman to have done what you have been so weak to do. At night say an extra God Bless for her, show her mercy and kindness from a distance because pretty soon she will need it. Send her a bouquet of flowers anonymously with a huge thank you card attached. Splurge on it. As for you, MOVE ON!!!!!!!!!!!
<span style="font-size: 8pt">posted with permission from the author</span>
This is a dam good article and I must admit I agree 120% with the author's veiw point 
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