was she right to be angry...

[tsophra]

now me juss taking this story at face value..

I was watching an interview with one of tiger's "bit on the side". She say she was with him for 18 months and that it was a lot more than just sex..they shared innermost feelings,thoughts..yadayadayada. He never gave her money or expensive gifts...but one time she was in tight spot and needed downpayment for a new apt. She ask him fe help har an im tell har that he was sorry but he could not. She sey him call har back again..an she thought he was calling to say he'd changed is mind. But instead him tell har she im really sarry him couldn't help har out. She say she broke up wid him an de spot.

what oonu tink?

would you have done the same in her situation?

[RichD]

Re: was she right to be angry...

i would have done the same in his position...she show her hand


needing help to buy a place is not a tight spot....

[Nunya]

Re: was she right to be angry...

Where's Tanya?

[tsophra]

Re: was she right to be angry...

I'm not sure if it was rent or purchase...she said she had to leave where she was living and need help with the down payment for another apt..

so if you were seeing someone for over a year and they asked you to help them out one time..and you were in a postion to do so..you would not?

[mountaingal]

Re: was she right to be angry...

i think this discussion came up on the board areddy. my question was whether him giving her money would give her some sort of claim or leverage over him, she could make that out as some kind of support and elevate their relationship to a different level.

[Wendy]

Re: was she right to be angry...

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: MGee</div><div class="ubbcode-body">i think this discussion came up on the board areddy. my question was whether him giving her money would give her some sort of claim or leverage over him, <span style="font-weight: bold">she could make that out as some kind of support and elevate their relationship to a different level.</span> </div></div>

[tsophra]

Re: was she right to be angry...

i'm trying to make this a more general situation than specifically about tiger...should you expect someone to help you out financially if you've been seeing them for awhile?

lawd knoes how much of what she said was spin..

[RichD]

Re: was she right to be angry...

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Jaded</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I'm not sure if it was rent or purchase...she said she had to leave where she was living and need help with the down payment for another apt..

so if you were seeing someone for over a year and they asked you to help them out one time..and you were in a postion to do so..you would not?


</div></div>

depend on whether or not i think its real need or she just trying to get paid.

eta: in this specific case if she drop him so quick ovah this how vested in the relationship was she?

[Wendy]

Re: was she right to be angry...

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Jaded</div><div class="ubbcode-body">i'm trying to make this a more general situation than specifically about tiger...should you expect someone to help you out financially if you've been seeing them for awhile?

lawd knoes how much of what she said was spin..

</div></div>

Welll since the post was about the Tiger Mistress yuh ago get di point of view from that vantage point. Den again in any normal relationship ..if yuh deh wid a man fi a while an di minute im sey im cyan help yuh outta a rut an yuh drap im like hot bread ..how serious was that relationship?

She didn't disclose why he said he could not help (I saw the interview) so who knows what the situation was. What if he had helped her out a million and one time before and im decide sey nat dis time. Like yuh sey wi noh know di whole story

[Bizzy]

Re: was she right to be angry...

well de fack say him call back an apologize show say him probly did waan help har out but nuh waan lef nuh money trail fi mek tings seem a way in case Elin fine out or de media dem start investigate.

Den she would have sumting ova him fi say, hey, mi an tiger deh, si him sen mi check or mek deposit to mi account fi $5000 or whatever.

Anyways, if mi an a man deh fi nearly 2 year an mi inna tight spot, an mi know an him know him have more than enuff fi help mi out I would drop his bahine same time too. Wah mi a deh wid smaddy fah if dem cyaan help mi in times of need might as well tan by miself..

[tsophra]

Re: was she right to be angry...

that's why I said face value

they were dating for a while
it was more than just sex
him neva give har nu money or nutten expensive
is the first time she ask him fe help and he was in position to do so..

[Pepper]

Re: was she right to be angry...

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Jaded</div><div class="ubbcode-body">i'm trying to make this a more general situation than specifically about tiger...should you expect someone to help you out financially if you've been seeing them for awhile?

lawd knoes how much of what she said was spin..

</div></div>

Isn't that supposed to be one of the benefits of seeing a marrid man? Especilally one wid a much money as Tiger?

[RichD]

Re: was she right to be angry...

is not for love?

[tsophra]

Re: was she right to be angry...

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: RichD</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Jaded</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I'm not sure if it was rent or purchase...she said she had to leave where she was living and need help with the down payment for another apt..

so if you were seeing someone for over a year and they asked you to help them out one time..and you were in a postion to do so..you would not?


</div></div>

depend on whether or not i think its real need or she just trying to get paid.

eta: in this specific case if she drop him so quick ovah this how vested in the relationship was she? </div></div>


i've never asked a man for financial help..but if i was in a tight spot and he was in a position to do so nd he said no...I would have to really think about the relationship..its not soo much about the money itself...more about the man's looking out for me.

[Bizzy]

Re: was she right to be angry...

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Jaded</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I would have to really think about the relationship..its not soo much about the money itself...more about the man's looking out for me. </div></div>