Chase and Catch

[Compry]

I recently read a conversation on someone’s FB wall where a guy was telling all the women that “men” prefer to chase women and that women should hold back their feelings and desires. He said, the harder it is for “men” to “catch” a woman, the harder he pursues her. Is that a fact for all men?

Ja.com men, do you prefer to do all the chasing or do you want to know how a woman feel about you?

Ladies are you open about your feelings for a man or do you hold back for fear that he won’t be interested?

[Nunya]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Compray</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
Ladies are you open about your feelings for a man or do you hold back for fear that he won’t be interested?
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I had no fear (my friends used to say I had no shame).

[sistactry]

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i would think you just have to be confident #1, and of course you dont tell all, and of course you should be pursued, caught, and handle to tek in de testament, and def dont hold back in dat dept~~

[Nunya]

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wha...????

[Compry]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nunya</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Compray</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
Ladies are you open about your feelings for a man or do you hold back for fear that he won’t be interested?
</div></div>

I had no fear (my friends used to say I had no shame). </div></div>

Nunya, prior to being settled down with the love of your life, did anyone ever lose interest because you didn't hold back your pursuit? Also did you pursue David?

[Compry]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SistaCtry</div><div class="ubbcode-body">i would think you just have to be confident #1, and of course you dont tell all, and of course you should be pursued, caught, and handle to tek in de testament, and def dont hold back in dat dept~~ </div></div>

Auntie are you saying that a woman should play the game? Show a little interest but not the whole 9 yard?

[Nunya]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Compray</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
Nunya, prior to being settled down with the love of your life, did anyone ever lose interest because you didn't hold back your pursuit? Also did you pursue David? </div></div>



My 'pursuit' wasn't obvious. I'd go after a guy, but he'd end up thinking he was the one in pursuit...

I had no problem approaching a guy - striking up a conversation and stuff. But I am prone to snap judgments. And if after a few words I saw that he looked better than he sounded, I'd gracefully extract myself.

Maybe there were guys who knew what I was up to and was turned off by it but I wasn't bothered by that.

As for David he took long enough to build up the nerve to ask me out ...

[sistactry]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Compray</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
Auntie are you saying that a woman should play the game? Show a little interest but not the whole 9 yard? </div></div>

exactly, be confident and not needy, and yes indeed, the chase is on, and when him ketch u, no fraid fe let it go pan him~~

[Nylah]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nunya</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Compray</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
Ladies are you open about your feelings for a man or do you hold back for fear that he won’t be interested?
</div></div>

I had no fear (my friends used to say I had no shame). </div></div>

whose the hussy now

[Compry]

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Then Nunya, yuh confirming what di man said. You ended up with the man who pursued you.

[Compry]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SistaCtry</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Compray</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
Auntie are you saying that a woman should play the game? Show a little interest but not the whole 9 yard? </div></div>

exactly, be confident and not needy, and yes indeed, the chase is on, and when him ketch u, <span style="font-weight: bold">no fraid fe let it go pan him</span>~~ </div></div>

Auntie...what exactly wi letting go?

[Nunya]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Compray</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Then Nunya, yuh confirming what di man said. You ended up with the man who pursued you. </div></div>

It's not that cut and dried. One day when we meet, I'll tell you all about it...

[Nunya]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Compray</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
Auntie...what exactly wi letting go? </div></div>

Don't ask man, don't ask...

[quodlibet]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Compray</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SistaCtry</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Compray</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
Auntie are you saying that a woman should play the game? Show a little interest but not the whole 9 yard? </div></div>

exactly, be confident and not needy, and yes indeed, the chase is on, and when him ketch u, <span style="font-weight: bold">no fraid fe let it go pan him</span>~~ </div></div>

Auntie...what exactly wi letting go? </div></div>

Yu bline? Di testament! When shi <span style="font-style: italic">let aff di testament</span>, im fi bawl GLORY...

(BTW, is dat di OLD testament, or di NEW testament?)

[sistactry]

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u know de song??

<span style="font-style: italic">come tek off u frack fat gyal, come mek me put in me testament </span>

waaiiiee, me a sin me soul to raaa~~