How much time together/apart?

[Nylah]

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but there is a big differenve between spending time apart and not having any interest in common. Seems like the latter to me.

I cant imagine having so little in common with Mr Nylah that I spend most of my time by myself or with my friends.

Hell, I wouldnt date him let alone marry him if that was the case.

sometimes u want to chill with ur friends or by yourself, but if the majority of the time it is like that then me and him have some problems......

[Bizzy]

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DWL @ nuh worry yuhself

[RichD]

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time together is in inverse proportion to the length of time you married

[Nunya]

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Is that from the school of Frank Barone?

[RichD]

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no, anecdotal observation

[Nunya]

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No kidding...

[DearK]

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Interesting observation Rich- why do you think that is?

[Peasie]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nunya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I am open about my need/desire to do the things I want to do. Sometimes he's invited along, other times he's not. He knows its not a slight against him, me wanting to do things by myself. He's ok with that. </div></div>


I never could stand those 'clinging vines' couples who have to do everything together It was always so stifling to me!

I like a nice, secure man who is comfortable in his own skin, has his own interests, and gives me space to just be myself. With mutual respect for each others' space, the sex is great too

[kia027]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Wendilina</div><div class="ubbcode-body">She did go to a couple of them. She invited me to a few but the thing is she is not into soccer so she can only fake that for so long

Yep - living single while married ..I always wondered about that with her and Larry but I thought it worked well for them since she is &quot;Miss up and go every 5 minute&quot; and im seem to be &quot;Mista low Key&quot;.

Mi ask her how he reacted when she asked for a divorce. She said &quot;shocked&quot;. Mi a wanda if dem neva talk bout dese tings til it was too late. </div></div>

Mi have a friend like this..She is very outgoing and he is more of a homebody.
Every weekend she poas pon fassbook how she a have ar girls weekend dis and events dat while mr sitting at home minding the kids. She also does a lot of entertaining at her home.

In the summer they have a planned vacation together and since she is a SAHM in the summer, she and the kids gone for weeks all ova the east coast of the US while mrMan at home.

N

[kia027]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nunya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I am open about my need/desire to do the things I want to do. Sometimes he's invited along, other times he's not. He knows its not a slight against him, me wanting to do things by myself. He's ok with that. </div></div>

Ditto

[DearK]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

In the summer they have a planned vacation together and since she is a SAHM in the summer, she and the kids gone for weeks all ova the east coast of the US while mrMan at home.

N </div></div> This sounds like the best of all worlds. That plus bringing the entertainment home, where the family can be having fun together!

[DearK]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Peasie</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nunya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I am open about my need/desire to do the things I want to do. Sometimes he's invited along, other times he's not. He knows its not a slight against him, me wanting to do things by myself. He's ok with that. </div></div>


I never could stand those 'clinging vines' couples who have to do everything together It was always so stifling to me!

I like a nice, secure man who is comfortable in his own skin, has his own interests, and gives me space to just be myself. With mutual respect for each others' space, the sex is great too
</div></div>

I know people who even run errands together Yes it can be considered quality time together, but we get so much more done when we divide and conquer! Quality schmality. Maybe RichD is right, cuz at the beginning of a relationship, all those little moments together, grocery shopping, people-watching while standing in line for takeout.. Those times used to be cute, now it's all about being efficient!

[kia027]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Dear K</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

In the summer they have a planned vacation together and since she is a SAHM in the summer, she and the kids gone for weeks all ova the east coast of the US while mrMan at home.

N </div></div> This sounds like the best of all worlds. That plus bringing the entertainment home, where the family can be having fun together! </div></div>

the husband only go wid them for 1 week.. She and the kids gone for the rest of the summer

[kia027]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Dear K</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Peasie</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nunya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I am open about my need/desire to do the things I want to do. Sometimes he's invited along, other times he's not. He knows its not a slight against him, me wanting to do things by myself. He's ok with that. </div></div>


I never could stand those 'clinging vines' couples who have to do everything together It was always so stifling to me!

I like a nice, secure man who is comfortable in his own skin, has his own interests, and gives me space to just be myself. With mutual respect for each others' space, the sex is great too
</div></div>

I know people who even run errands together Yes it can be considered quality time together, but we get so much more done when we divide and conquer! Quality schmality. Maybe RichD is right, cuz at the beginning of a relationship, all those little moments together, grocery shopping, people-watching while standing in line for takeout.. Those times used to be cute, now it's all about being efficient! </div></div>

We run errands together because it gives us time to chat about day to day stuff without the 'little ears' listening to every word -- disclaimer: this is the week to week food shopping run mi a chat bout.. not all the errand running as I take care of a lot of that during the week