Shi a seek advice

[CyberPhobic]

Suh shi involve inna a LDR and spenn nuff hours pan fone widdim a nite time. Dem been togedda fi 6 months but kno each other fi ova 20 years wen dem was an item.

Shi live a NY and him live a Canada (far out inna di sticks in British Columbia). Yes, mi did ask har a wha him a do way out dessuh.

Ennyway, dem talking bout going away on vacation in June so dem can spenn quality time togedda an ray-ray, cause di two a dem busy widd wurk and ting. Shi did seem in Feb caus shi did haffi guh Canada fi wurk suh dem work it out.

Shi decide sey shi waah seem before dem vacation suh shi say tuh him sey, "mi waan fi come si yuh". Him sey, "really, a trip just to see me and not work related?" Shi sey "yes". Him sey "ohhh, that is sweet". Suh dem talk bout wha date wood wurk but while dem a discuss dat, hear di man nuh, "you wanna come get some and go back to NY uhh, ha! ha!".

Shi sey shi was like

Shi tell him dat him hurt har feelings, suh shi naah badda go see him inbetween. Him sey shi thin-skinned. Shi sey shi never feel fi talk tuh him an tell him dat shi nuh feel fi talk and wi call him back.

Now shi upset and waant advice on wha shi fi do cauz shi suprise dat him wood sey dat.

[SandiF]

Re: Shi a seek advice

a so man tan, dem sey all kinna fawt things some times but noh really mean nutten. she nuh should a just gi him likkle spicey talk as a follow up.... me would a bringle too but i don't think he meant anything. Tell her to plan their trip.

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: CyberPhobic</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Suh shi involve inna a LDR and spenn nuff hours pan fone widdim a nite time. Dem been togedda fi 6 months but kno each other fi ova 20 years wen dem was an item.

Shi live a NY and him live a Canada (far out inna di sticks in British Columbia). Yes, mi did ask har a wha him a do way out dessuh.

Ennyway, dem talking bout going away on vacation in June so dem can spenn quality time togedda an ray-ray, cause di two a dem busy widd wurk and ting. Shi did seem in Feb caus shi did haffi guh Canada fi wurk suh dem work it out.

Shi decide sey shi waah seem before dem vacation suh shi say tuh him sey, &quot;mi waan fi come si yuh&quot;. Him sey, &quot;really, a trip just to see me and not work related?&quot; Shi sey &quot;yes&quot;. Him sey &quot;ohhh, that is sweet&quot;. Suh dem talk bout wha date wood wurk but while dem a discuss dat, hear di man nuh, &quot;you wanna come get some and go back to NY uhh, ha! ha!&quot;.

Shi sey shi was like

Shi tell him dat him hurt har feelings, suh shi naah badda go see him inbetween. Him sey shi thin-skinned. Shi sey shi never feel fi talk tuh him an tell him dat shi nuh feel fi talk and wi call him back.

Now shi upset and waant advice on wha shi fi do cauz shi suprise dat him wood sey dat. </div></div>

[quodlibet]

Re: Shi a seek advice

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: CyberPhobic</div><div class="ubbcode-body">...

Shi decide sey shi waah seem before dem vacation suh shi say tuh him sey, &quot;mi waan fi come si yuh&quot;. Him sey, &quot;really, a trip just to see me and not work related?&quot; Shi sey &quot;yes&quot;. Him sey &quot;ohhh, that is sweet&quot;. Suh dem talk bout wha date wood wurk but while dem a discuss dat, hear di man nuh, &quot;you wanna come get some and go back to NY uhh, ha! ha!&quot;.

Shi sey shi was like

...

Now shi upset and waant advice on wha shi fi do cauz shi suprise dat him wood sey dat. </div></div>

Umm, maybe she's mad because its the truth?

[Peasie]

Re: Shi a seek advice

Well I think she needs to toughen up her skin and soften up her attitude .

C'mon now. They have been rooksing. They plan some more rooksing on this planned vacation. Nothing wrong with that.

She should have just replied, &quot;For all that is said about NY, I have found the grines here are not as sweet as yours.&quot;

Or

&quot;Consider this a prep for the good grinin I will expect from you on our vacation&quot;

Dose responses woulda hole him an control him. Awooa.

[DearK]

Re: Shi a seek advice

She's touchy but thats understandable. She probably would have preferred that he be just as excited to see her as she is to see him

Tell her she's overreacting, and to get the reassurance from him that he wants to see her too! (even if it is to 'get some'). BTW whats their long term plan?

[Nylah]

Re: Shi a seek advice

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Peasie</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Well I think she needs to toughen up her skin and soften up her attitude .

C'mon now. They have been rooksing. They plan some more rooksing on this planned vacation. Nothing wrong with that.

She should have just replied, &quot;For all that is said about NY, I have found the grines here are not as sweet as yours.&quot;

Or

&quot;Consider this a prep for the good grinin I will expect from you on our vacation&quot;

<span style="font-weight: bold">Dose responses woulda hole him an control him. Awooa</span>. </div></div>

amen sister she is over-reacting for true.

[CyberPhobic]

Re: Shi a seek advice

TANKS (((((((((Jam.com)))))))

Dat hug is fram har, aldoe mi did tekki cauz shi tink a mi come up wid unnoo genius advice.



Mi did a jine di pity pawty widd har befo mi post this but now dat me read unnoo responses, mi chanjj mi mine.

Shi did sey shi felt upset chroo him might a tink sey a dat nummo dey on har mine.

Ennyway, mi did tell har sey him might have said dat becauz him nuh want har fi leave and prolly a tess har fi si if a di rooks nummo shi a come for.

[kia027]

Re: Shi a seek advice

and what is wrang if dem know dem one anedda fi 20 years and dat is numero uno on har mind and it pleasing to ar?

dem have all the chatting, skype &amp; dem ting deh the rest a de time- is nat like is a peer physical ting a gwan

[Emperah]

Re: Shi a seek advice

yuh seet,

is ooman like dis who wi stawt big awgument in de future ova de likkless foolishness.

Tell him to beware