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Why you should never dump your girlfriend for a man
Cecelia Campbell-Livingston
Monday, March 15, 2010
COUNT yourself lucky if you are one of those persons who have a really good girlfriend who you can be yourself with. We are not talking about a 'frenemy' who can't wait for an opportunity to knife you in the back, but the kind that is there for you when it matters most.
If you have such a friend then you had better try your best not to rock the friendship boat -- even when you find happily ever after with your beau. Here's why:
<span style="font-weight: bold">1. Girlfriends offer a good support system</span>
Girlfriends are very supportive and won't hesitate to give you that shoulder to cry on if you need it. They are sensitive to your feelings and somehow know just what to do or say to make you feel better. Men are sometimes clueless when it comes to tapping into your deepest emotions.
<span style="font-weight: bold">2.Girlfriends are accessible</span>
They are never more than a phone call away and no matter what, if you really need them, they will find the time to talk through the night with you. Men are not long talkers and will get impatient with your need to talk things through.
<span style="font-weight: bold">3. Good girlfriends are in it for the long haul</span>
If you think about it, some of your girlfriends have outlasted even your marriage. Lovers come and go, but a good friend sticks around forever.
<span style="font-weight: bold">4.They love you for yourself</span>
Your girlfriends know your deepest, darkest secrets and love you anyway. They don't judge, but are rather encouraging.
<span style="font-weight: bold">5. Challenges don't scare them</span>
When the going gets tough girlfriends stick together, they find ways to weather out the storm. Men tend to run when things get sticky.
<span style="font-weight: bold">6. Only a girlfriend will do</span>
When you want to cuss out and bad-mouth your spouse who is the cause of your distress, you can only unload on your girlfriend. After all, after the cussing-out session is through you can go back to your spouse fully vented!
<span style="font-weight: bold">wat about di supposed gfs who still deh bout an a lie to u bout wat u a do etc etc etc...even if is ur bizniz n oono seh oonoo tite dem still tell u wat u wan fi hear not wat u need to hear .... </span>
Cecelia Campbell-Livingston
Monday, March 15, 2010
COUNT yourself lucky if you are one of those persons who have a really good girlfriend who you can be yourself with. We are not talking about a 'frenemy' who can't wait for an opportunity to knife you in the back, but the kind that is there for you when it matters most.
If you have such a friend then you had better try your best not to rock the friendship boat -- even when you find happily ever after with your beau. Here's why:
<span style="font-weight: bold">1. Girlfriends offer a good support system</span>
Girlfriends are very supportive and won't hesitate to give you that shoulder to cry on if you need it. They are sensitive to your feelings and somehow know just what to do or say to make you feel better. Men are sometimes clueless when it comes to tapping into your deepest emotions.
<span style="font-weight: bold">2.Girlfriends are accessible</span>
They are never more than a phone call away and no matter what, if you really need them, they will find the time to talk through the night with you. Men are not long talkers and will get impatient with your need to talk things through.
<span style="font-weight: bold">3. Good girlfriends are in it for the long haul</span>
If you think about it, some of your girlfriends have outlasted even your marriage. Lovers come and go, but a good friend sticks around forever.
<span style="font-weight: bold">4.They love you for yourself</span>
Your girlfriends know your deepest, darkest secrets and love you anyway. They don't judge, but are rather encouraging.
<span style="font-weight: bold">5. Challenges don't scare them</span>
When the going gets tough girlfriends stick together, they find ways to weather out the storm. Men tend to run when things get sticky.
<span style="font-weight: bold">6. Only a girlfriend will do</span>
When you want to cuss out and bad-mouth your spouse who is the cause of your distress, you can only unload on your girlfriend. After all, after the cussing-out session is through you can go back to your spouse fully vented!
<span style="font-weight: bold">wat about di supposed gfs who still deh bout an a lie to u bout wat u a do etc etc etc...even if is ur bizniz n oono seh oonoo tite dem still tell u wat u wan fi hear not wat u need to hear .... </span>
Amen when it comes to my gfs sorry dude but they r not going anywhere.
yuh cyaan mannij fi dash dem deh wan weh ennuh
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