blakk oomen canfusinn interracial argument

[Fyah]

Re: blakk oomen canfusinn interracial argument

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Compray</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Are you saying that the black women who are involved in interracial relationships are supposed to burn fire on the white women in interracial relationships? </div></div>

My interpretation is that black women should not be hypocritical. They should not themselves be involved in an interracial relationship (by making excuses for being in said relationship) yet expressing issues with black men (rich or otherwise) who chose to date white/non-black women.

What's good for the gander should also be good for the goose.

[Nunya]

Re: blakk oomen canfusinn interracial argument

You kinda undervalued your statement by adding the disclaimer.

[Tulip]

Re: blakk oomen canfusinn interracial argument

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nunya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">You kinda undervalued your statement by adding the disclaimer. </div></div>

I had to do it because I did not want to come back in here and see that question. You know folks quick to claim ulterior motives.

[Nylah]

Re: blakk oomen canfusinn interracial argument

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Tulip</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nunya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">You kinda undervalued your statement by adding the disclaimer. </div></div>

I had to do it because I did not want to come back in here and see that question. You know folks quick to claim ulterior motives. </div></div>

very true

[Compry]

Re: blakk oomen canfusinn interracial argument

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SoulPurpose</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Compray</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Are you saying that the black women who are involved in interracial relationships are supposed to burn fire on the white women in interracial relationships? </div></div>

My interpretation is that black women should not be hypocritical. They should not themselves be involved in an interracial relationship (by making excuses for being in said relationship) yet expressing issues with black men (rich or otherwise) who chose to date white/non-black women.

What's good for the gander should also be good for the goose. </div></div>

Ohhhhhh...they should <span style="font-weight: bold">not </span>burn fire against white women in interracial relationships. Cool. I agree with Blu then. We should all live and let live.

[blugiant]

Re: blakk oomen canfusinn interracial argument

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: blakkgiant</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Queen_of_d_A</div><div class="ubbcode-body">i wanna participate but i don't understand </div></div>

wat mii chattinn bout iss blakk oomen wey bunn fiyah pon sellouts ann mzungu oomen wey inna interracial ting butt defend blakk oomen wey invalved inn interracial ting </div></div>

isnt that only Tropicana who subscribes to that theory..... </div></div>

noo itt natt onlee tropicana pon yay dat subscribes to dat theory

yu knoo sum oomen pon yah wey chatt sey dem dated mzungu men bunn fiyah pon blakk sellouts

[blugiant]

Re: blakk oomen canfusinn interracial argument

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Compray</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Are you saying that the black women who are involved in interracial relationships are supposed to burn fire on the white women in interracial relationships? </div></div>

dat de qwestian?

[blugiant]

Re: blakk oomen canfusinn interracial argument

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Tulip</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I think people who find themselves overly concerned with other people’s relationships are busybodies. What does it really have to do with you? You do not get to control other people so you may as well relax and handle your own story.

As long as the person is not molesting a child then mind your own business.

And since I know how this goes, here is my disclaimer: No, I am not in an interracial relationship.
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mii tink tulip protest too much. dat y yu tip toeinn troo da tulip

since yu sey mii nosee, ave yu eva been invalved inna interracial ting?

itt natt bout cantrolinn peeps butt bigginn upp da teachinn aff garvey one aim one peep one destiny. inn a nan racial society wey race aff no meaninn den interracial tings doan matter butt wen itt impact blakk peeps den itt fair game fii bunn fiyah pon itt

soo yu doan tink blakk men ann blakk oomen ave abligation fii look aftah each addar

[Nylah]

Re: blakk oomen canfusinn interracial argument

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: blakkgiant</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: blakkgiant</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Queen_of_d_A</div><div class="ubbcode-body">i wanna participate but i don't understand </div></div>

wat mii chattinn bout iss blakk oomen wey bunn fiyah pon sellouts ann mzungu oomen wey inna interracial ting butt defend blakk oomen wey invalved inn interracial ting </div></div>

isnt that only Tropicana who subscribes to that theory..... </div></div>

noo itt natt onlee tropicana pon yay dat subscribes to dat theory

yu knoo sum oomen pon yah wey chatt sey dem dated mzungu men bunn fiyah pon blakk sellouts </div></div>

like who?

[blugiant]

Re: blakk oomen canfusinn interracial argument

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SoulPurpose</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Compray</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Are you saying that the black women who are involved in interracial relationships are supposed to burn fire on the white women in interracial relationships? </div></div>

My interpretation is that black women should not be hypocritical. They should not themselves be involved in an interracial relationship (by making excuses for being in said relationship) yet expressing issues with black men (rich or otherwise) who chose to date white/non-black women.

What's good for the gander should also be good for the goose. </div></div>

intarestinn observation

ar blakk oomen wey inn interracial relationship wey bunn fiyah pon blakk men wey sellout ann mzungu oomen being hypocritical ar practical?


it sund like dem doan waan blakk men fii sellout ar mzungu oomen fii date ann marry blakk men cah dem tryinn fi maximize dem appartunitees fii find a mate. hypocritical butt practikkal

[blugiant]

Re: blakk oomen canfusinn interracial argument

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Compray</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SoulPurpose</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Compray</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Are you saying that the black women who are involved in interracial relationships are supposed to burn fire on the white women in interracial relationships? </div></div>

My interpretation is that black women should not be hypocritical. They should not themselves be involved in an interracial relationship (by making excuses for being in said relationship) yet expressing issues with black men (rich or otherwise) who chose to date white/non-black women.

What's good for the gander should also be good for the goose. </div></div>

Ohhhhhh...they should <span style="font-weight: bold">not </span>burn fire against white women in interracial relationships. Cool. I agree with Blu then. We should all live and let live. </div></div>

yu knoo mii believe inn equal treatment dat y mii bunn fiyah pon sellout, mzungu playtings, mzungu oomen mzungu men etc inn interracial ting

cyaan live ann let live until no more racism

[blugiant]

Re: blakk oomen canfusinn interracial argument

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
like who?

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[Tulip]

Re: blakk oomen canfusinn interracial argument

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: blakkgiant</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Tulip</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I think people who find themselves overly concerned with other people’s relationships are busybodies. What does it really have to do with you? You do not get to control other people so you may as well relax and handle your own story.

As long as the person is not molesting a child then mind your own business.

And since I know how this goes, here is my disclaimer: No, I am not in an interracial relationship.
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mii tink tulip protest too much. dat y yu tip toeinn troo da tulip

since yu sey mii nosee, ave yu eva been invalved inna interracial ting?

itt natt bout cantrolinn peeps butt bigginn upp da teachinn aff garvey one aim one peep one destiny. inn a nan racial society wey race aff no meaninn den interracial tings doan matter butt wen itt impact blakk peeps den itt fair game fii bunn fiyah pon itt

soo yu doan tink blakk men ann blakk oomen ave abligation fii look aftah each addar </div></div>

I think the definition of &quot;looking after&quot; needs some clarification. Looking after someone does not give you a right to poke your snout all up in their business and try to direct their path to suit you.

From what I have seen in this thread, I'm not sure I'd call you especially nosy, but the desire to meddle sounds strong in you, which is actually worse. I feel completely comfortable calling you a meddler or at a minimum a wanna-be meddler.

[Tropicana]

Re: blakk oomen canfusinn interracial argument

Nylah....if you are going to refer to what I have said, please do so accurately. I have licked out very strongly against White men who are obsessed with blondes with big boobs. I have deliberately avoided discussing Black men who date White women. I have strong views about it but I have not discussed them on here. I have said that as long as White men discriminate so openly against Black women I would not want my son to marry a White woman.....and I am unanimous about that There have been numerous mainstream TV documentaries and articles about the dating challenges of Black women:
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Beyond the personal interests of individual women, the trend is significant because “in terms of American society, this is one additional obstacle” to the broadening of the black middle class, Brueckner said. Fewer highly educated black people having children means that they cannot pass on those advantages and knowledge.”

This defeats the goal of affirmative action, argue some demographers. The idea behind assuring that blacks had access to higher education and graduate school was that after a generation or so, African-Americans would reach a kind of achievement parity after generations of suffering educational and career restriction. But if black women, who comprise 71 percent of black graduate students, according to the census data, do not have children, the rate of achievement reaches a kind of familial dead end.

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> But it may also be true that even highly educated black women who are willing and able to pursue a relationship with a man of another race won’t have the opportunity. A sociological line of inquiry called “exchange theory” suggests that in the piggy bank of goods each of us brings to a possible relationship — money, smarts, sense of humor, looks, family background, education, gender — African heritage is devalued compared with European or Asian heritage. African-American females, even with lots of education, do not fetch as much “value” in the marriage market.

That may be a cold way to look at love, romance, and sex, but studies dating back to the 1980s support it.

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Marriage eludes high-achieving black women
Many remain single and childless, according to new research

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/32379727

Over 70% of Black professional women can't find partners. That was highlighted on ABCa few weeks ago.

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">But in reality, one group of women has found it harder to leverage professional success into the model personal life.

Over the past few decades, black women in America have made historic strides academically and professionally. According to the Journal of Blacks in Higher Education, at least 60 percent of black students who get awarded college degrees are women. Black women make up 71 percent of black graduate students.

But the statistics point to another issue: Many of the women are single.

According to a recent Yale study, 42 percent of African-American women have yet to be married, compared to only 23 percent of white women. There's also a gap in numbers. The 2000 U.S. Census counted 1.8 million more African-American women than black men.

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Nightline Face-Off: Why Can't a Successful Black Woman Find a Man?

http://abcnews.go.com/Nightline/FaceOff/nightline-black-women-single-marriage/story?id=10424979

If there aren't enough Black men to go around who would you suggest the women date bakkgiant....or are you planning to bring back polygamy?



I have always said that I have nothing against interracial dating but the playing field must be level. Right now in the USA, the UK and especially Canada as:
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> Jackass say &quot;dis ground noh level&quot;.</div></div>

[MarieK]

Re: blakk oomen canfusinn interracial argument

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nunya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Go to bed. </div></div>

or betta yet guh date a black man