What should Ann do?

[sistactry]

Re: What should Ann do?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SistaCtry</div><div class="ubbcode-body">BOAL, unu a tun me inna iddyboo now~~ </div></div>

is cause mi give up coffee stawting today </div></div>

larks, pooor u, u have my sympathies, cause me cant do dat~~

[sistactry]

Re: What should Ann do?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Gen</div><div class="ubbcode-body">if barbra have POA(fi the madda) why she nuh tell carthy fi guh dead a bush ? </div></div>

unu tap ie, barbra is de madder~~

[kia027]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: tuffstuff</div><div class="ubbcode-body">oonu a gimmie pure joke. Poor Ann an Barbra an Cathol/Carthyl.


Kia- the mother, BOHRBURRAH is alert/ in her right mind etc? </div></div>

Fi the most pawt yes but the meds mekking her forgetful. Mi see Ann husband today and im tell mi seh dem eena de homestretch

[Suesumba]

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when telling dem type a story, always use A, B and C... etc. i went crazy reading that.


carry on.

[sistactry]

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true ting sues, cause like dyammm man~

[Nunya]

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Mi knoa it wasn't supposed to be a funny supm, but gawd knoa, a pere BOAL mi whenna puddung

Anyway kia, Annette soun like she sawf. An Caroline prolly a go convince Angela fi gi har de Anticues dem.

[sistactry]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nunya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Mi knoa it wasn't supposed to be a funny supm, but gawd knoa, a pere BOAL mi whenna puddung

Anyway kia, Annette soun like she sawf. An Caroline prolly a go convince Angela fi gi har de Anticues dem.

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NUNYA, tapppppiiiieeeeeeee

Annette, Caroline, Angela~~

[kia027]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nunya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Mi knoa it wasn't supposed to be a funny supm, but gawd knoa, a pere BOAL mi whenna puddung

Anyway kia, Annette soun like she sawf. An Caroline prolly a go convince Angela fi gi har de Anticues dem.

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cho leff mi ,, mi was going chroo caffeine widrawals and decide fi noh do A, B, C

Yes A bawk wus dan ar bite.. Ting is she call mi every now &amp; again cause she nee to vent so mi hear de whollllle looonnngg sttorrrreeeee

[jamdoll]

Re: What should Ann do?

I can think of two things:
1. Tell Ann to make sure that she has a DURABLE power of attorney. The normal POA only covers for medical decisions while the person is living. After death, you only decide if its a durable POA.
2. The mother can take away all the after death fighting, if she adds it in her will what she wants done or better yet, while she still has the energy go and arrange it all. Go to the funeral home, pay for the arrangements and how shi want har body handled, dat way di dawta dem nuh haffi fight bout it afta shi gaan...

[kia027]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: jamdoll</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I can think of two things:
1. Tell Ann to make sure that she has a DURABLE power of attorney. The normal POA only covers for medical decisions while the person is living. After death, you only decide if its a durable POA.
2. The mother can take away all the after death fighting, if she adds it in her will what she wants done or better yet, while she still has the energy go and arrange it all. Go to the funeral home, pay for the arrangements and how shi want har body handled, dat way di dawta dem nuh haffi fight bout it afta shi gaan... </div></div>

Jamdoll

Thanks for the advice.. I mentioned all of that to Ann as well and she &amp; her mom went to a lawyer and had <span style="font-weight: bold">everything</span> listed in detail down to which funeral home and which church to hold the service. Ann definitely has the durable POA as well.

Ann says she has to let her sister know when her mom (barbara) passes - my suggestion to Ann was to let her know right b4 the funeral starts as the sister (C) lives far away enough that she would not be able to get down there in time.

[Peasie]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body">when telling dem type a story, always use A, B and C... etc. i went crazy reading that.

carry on. </div></div>

A = Ann
B = Barbara
C = Carol/Cathy

got it thanks, Sue

[kia027]

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Update:

Barbara (de madda) dead. RIP Barbara She have her church service and cremate.

Carol (evil daughter) - did go a deh fineral home and the funeral director gave Carol her mothers ashes and death certificate even though Ann told the funeral director to only deal with Ann as Ann is the one who paid for the services.

Carol went to the hospital where the mother was getting treatment, said she was Ann and demanded the medical records. Fortunately the people she asked the records from knew Ann personally, refused to give Carol the records and called Ann. Hospital said Carol was ranting (when refused any information because they knew the full hundred from Barbara when she was alive) that Ann controlled Barbara and Barbara was not of sound mind when Barbara made her will (mind you Barbara has had her will ready for a few years now and which each update made a point known to exclude Carol)

Carol is of course contesting the will.. Let the games begin.

I wonder how hard Carol gwine try fight fi some dead leff $$

[kia027]

Re: What should Ann do?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Peasie</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body">when telling dem type a story, always use A, B and C... etc. i went crazy reading that.

carry on. </div></div>

A = Ann
B = Barbara
C = Carol/Cathy

got it thanks, Sue </div></div>

see there was a method to my madness

[Peasie]

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what a sad story

So what does Carol intend to do with her mother's ashes? Did the mother not leave a will and clarify what to do with her remains?

I don't think Carol is evil. I think she is a nutcase

[CeaBee]

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carol have issues wid har mother from life to death

when she gwine let go?

why she want her mother's ashes if them never get along? or she a hold it ransom?