wutless ooman drama ting

[blugiant]

bredren ann ooman ave wan yuth. bredren cum a farreen start fii send money bakk oome fii mine imm yuth. unemployed yaawd ooman livinn aff child support money durinn dat thyme ave two more yuths ann awlways a try fii sweat da bredren fii likkle moore cah tings tite. bredren gitt married ann imm ann wifee file fii imm yuth. wen da yuth paper cum troo da maddar a refuse fii mekk da yuth cum a farreen cah shi knoo dat iff da bredren gitt imm yuth dat dollars will stapp

wat a ting

soo oonnoo ting da ooman wrang fii refusinn fii mekk ar yuth stay cah shii need da money

[Jazz]

Re: wutless ooman cum drama ting

She wrang fe dat... - but maybe there is more to the story dan wah u ah tell we.

[Gen]

Re: wutless ooman drama ting

how old is the child ?

quite frankly i would not be separated from my child like that (as a mother) but thats just me , mi know some parents nuh feel nuh way

my cuz went to a prestigious hs up in boston and mi anty live a ny mi couldnt do that

it's just not the same with once a year visits as it is with seeing the child daily

[Gen]

Re: wutless ooman drama ting

suh yes if mi did live a ja and di fada deh a farrin mi would mek di fada file di paperwork for the child to visit but not live

if yuh bredrin worried bout the money him sending home mek him pay the school fees himself directly to the school etc

[julie*mango]

Re: wutless ooman drama ting

as a mom mi wudden waan b separated from my child til dem ready fi go a college...

but if is a money ting den fiyah an more fiyah pan ar

[Hush Darlin]

Re: wutless ooman drama ting

mi noh blamd de madda
especially wha did happen to the likkle Dooley boy a few years ago

[blugiant]

Re: wutless ooman cum drama ting

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Jazz</div><div class="ubbcode-body">She wrang fe dat... - but maybe there is more to the story dan wah u ah tell we. </div></div>

showaff bredren send $500us a month (pay awl da school fee ann send barrel 4 thymes a ear). imm wifee figgar imm spendinn too much ann itt wood bee cheaper iff dem bring imm upp ear ann raise imm demselves

[blugiant]

Re: wutless ooman drama ting

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Gen</div><div class="ubbcode-body">how old is the child ?

quite frankly i would not be separated from my child like that (as a mother) but thats just me , mi know some parents nuh feel nuh way

my cuz went to a prestigious hs up in boston and mi anty live a ny mi couldnt do that

it's just not the same with once a year visits as it is with seeing the child daily

</div></div>yuth 11

great pint bout da separation ting cah fii raise a yuth fram baby to 11 ann give imm upp nuh eezee. mii neva tink bout dat aspekk aff itt

[blugiant]

Re: wutless ooman drama ting

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: _____</div><div class="ubbcode-body">as a mom mi wudden waan b separated from my child til dem ready fi go a college...

but if is a money ting den fiyah an more fiyah pan ar </div></div>

soo skellee wat yu tink aff yaawd maddars wey leave dem yuths inn ja fii cum a farreen?

itt a money ting butt neva cansidar de maddar separation anxiety. ruff ting fii troo

[Jazz]

Re: wutless ooman drama ting

Very good point Gen - mi nuh tink mi coula bear to be separated from my child especially to send him to a woman that I don't even know

[Gen]

Re: wutless ooman drama ting

blu yuh bredrin wife sound like eediat and she need fi shut her trap, the child is too young to be separated from the mother

yuh bredrin should not even be considering that as an option

di 4 times a year barel is a bit much but if him want to dweet mek him dweet him sound like him really care fi him pickney, once or twice a year is enuff cause jamaica nuh have winter etc

[Gen]

Re: wutless ooman drama ting

its never easy for a parent to leave &quot;barell children&quot; in another country but if she is the only breadwinner (father not in the picture) sometime she nuh have nuh choice, if she want a better life for her kids

[kia027]

Re: wutless ooman drama ting

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SweetSsop</div><div class="ubbcode-body">mi noh blamd de madda
especially wha did happen to the likkle Dooley boy a few years ago </div></div>

Point Taken

[kia027]

Re: wutless ooman drama ting

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Gen</div><div class="ubbcode-body">suh yes if mi did live a ja and di fada deh a farrin mi would mek di fada file di paperwork for the child to visit but not live

if yuh bredrin worried bout the money him sending home mek him pay the school fees himself directly to the school etc </div></div>

exactly!

11 is an age where he needs the father but unless the father has gone down frequently to see him that will not be an easy transition

[Gen]

Re: wutless ooman drama ting

precisely. if the father and child not that close emotionally, the transition of
moving to a strange place wid stepmaddah to boot, will not be easy

it's not that easy