Jookie Jam time

[Hush Darlin]

so dem meet a month ago and staawt a relationship.
She was married but she and de husband seperated for over 7 years
Him have a baby mada fram de country wey him come fram
Him noh have no papers
so one month after dem meet him go dung pan one knee and propose marriage...im buy de whole set wedding band and engagement ring.
dem ongle see each odda on the weekends...Friday to sunday as they both work and live a dinstance and they dont have a vehicle.

wha unno tink is dis too soon
unno tink a paper im want

[halfwaytree]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SweetSsop</div><div class="ubbcode-body">wha unno tink is dis too soon </div></div>
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MUCH</span> too soon!!!!!

[Nunya]

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F'sure! After only a month??? I'd be suspicious. He's on a deadline...

And why wouldn't he put that money towards a car instead a go splash out pon ring??? I guess de bling wi buy har...

[Hush Darlin]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nunya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">F'sure! After only a month??? I'd be suspicious. He's on a deadline...

And why wouldn't he put that money towards a car instead a go splash out pon ring??? I guess de bling wi buy har... </div></div>
yes Nunya is one month
when she tell me i was shack mi neva even sey congrats
but she haffi go divorce her husband first before nay marriage can take place

[kia027]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">unno tink a paper im want</div></div>

am yup is paypas im want yes!

[Marielle]

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Marry in haste, repent at leisure....

Wonder why she never bothered to get a divorce in those 7 years...

[kia027]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Marielle</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Marry in haste, repent at leisure....

Wonder why she never bothered to get a divorce in those 7 years... </div></div>

she probably was not ready to commit to another relationship so it was a convenient barrier?

[Hush Darlin]

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her marriage lasted for a long time
she has an adult daughter from the marriage
and her daughter todl the ex-husband that her mom wants to remarry and he is saying that he weont sign divore papers.

[Nunya]

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Does he really need to sign the papers for her to get the divorce? After that lengthy separation? I'm pretty sure she could get it on her own...

[Hush Darlin]

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she said he doesnt need to sign it
she moved on long time and even had 2 kids since the seperation.

[Wendy]

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Look like Paypas business dis

Soh Sweets shi noh hint at any hesitation bout getiing hitched so soon given the circumstance?

[Compry]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SweetSsop</div><div class="ubbcode-body">she said he doesnt need to sign it
she moved on long time and even had 2 kids since the seperation. </div></div>

What does that mean? Isn't she planning on being divorced before marrying this new dude?

[Hush Darlin]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: WeNdY</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Look like Paypas business dis

Soh Sweets shi noh hint at any hesitation bout getiing hitched so soon given the circumstance? </div></div>
no sah
mi did find it quite strange bout 2 weeks after dem meet mi hear she a tell him sey she love him whne she was ending a phone conversation wid him. she sey she bawl when him propose on him knee an ascarding to ar the fuss husband neva do anyting like dat

[Hush Darlin]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Compray</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SweetSsop</div><div class="ubbcode-body">she said he doesnt need to sign it
she moved on long time and even had 2 kids since the seperation. </div></div>

What does that mean? Isn't she planning on being divorced before marrying this new dude? </div></div>
yes sh eplanning on divorcing the ex husband
but she sey dem seperated long time now and she hear sey the ex sey him not gonna sign de divorce papers when him get dem.

[kia027]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SweetSsop</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Compray</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SweetSsop</div><div class="ubbcode-body">she said he doesnt need to sign it
she moved on long time and even had 2 kids since the seperation. </div></div>

What does that mean? Isn't she planning on being divorced before marrying this new dude? </div></div>
yes sh eplanning on divorcing the ex husband
but she sey dem seperated long time now and she hear sey the ex sey him not gonna sign de divorce papers when him get dem. </div></div>

but if dem legally separated de judge can grant the divorce no? It will take longer than if the ex just sign the papers.

Why does the ex not want to sign the papers if they have been separated from each other for years now?