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What if yu grown an fine out seh yu was adopted ...how would u react? 
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me woulda wonder how come adopted fada nose look just like mine ...and boat a we left handed
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the <span style="font-style: italic">first</span> thing i'd wanna know is why my adoptive parents never tell me. i might try not to blow dem up about it, just to see if them had any 'good' reason, b4 i go off on them.... but for real i know i'd be seriously pizzed about bein lied to all my life. and i know i'd have a problem to continue to respect ppl who did me that way, even if them was my 'parents'. i would think they were wrong, and weak, to not have the cojones to deal with the truth for all those years.
2nd thing i'd be doin is tryna find out info bout my bioligical heritage, for my own peace of mind and also health information. i know my practical side would soon take over.Comment
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Well if I had a good life, great parents I would be cool with it. I guess I would also want to know why I was given up for adoption.Comment
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It depends on how the secret came out......but then again shocked would cover any scenario for me.Comment
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Different time & space so it was not common for parents to share that their children were adopted so some old school ting dat.
How would I react? I guess I would ask why dem neva tell mi before and hear their reasons and move on.
Of course it may explain why certain siblings act like dem a bawn ediat and would be comforting to know seh mi noh have dat deh DNA
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Naturallly I would want to learn about my birth parents. I would be interested who they are and if I have other sibblings.
It wouden be a big deal especially if my adpoted parents are kool and all... Incidentally my grandmother raised me from infant to 4 years then my Aunt and husband adopted (not formally) me. Never met my Mom until I was about 7 and it was great "reunion"... esepecially since shi did have whole heapa a present fi mi
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Today I discovered I was adopted...
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Click to reveal.. <input type="button" class="form-button" value="Show me!" onclick="toggle_spoiler(this, 'Yikes, my eyes!', 'Show me!')" /></div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div style="display: none;">unfortunately, the birth parents are the same so mi stuck wid di sed ole crasses fambily dem
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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: WeNdY</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> Never met my Mom until I was about 7 and it was great "reunion"... esepecially since shi did have whole heapa a present fi mi </div></div>
she was living abroad? yu was a barrel pickney?Comment
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we may have to meet my son's birth parents sooner than later to get this ADHD ish figured out . . .Comment
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what were the conditions of the adoption?Comment
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hehhehee... Naah shi did dey a Country in hiding
A jus tink dem did waan mi grown enough wey mi can actually talk to har and ask question. Den shi went missing again ..dis time cause shi did a tek plane like taxi. Neva si har agin til 15..But mi an Moms close eva since aldowe mi noh grow wi har. 
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me wudda feel a way, thank God me no adopted, but i suppose if i did, i would just have to deal with it, and maybe even glad to know I have more family out there, the more the merrier kind of thing,
but i suppose love for your adoptive parents wouldnt falther or anyting, it would just mean that I have to come up with more love for my biological parents now that I know,
my friend has 2 Dads, she found out the Dad she lived with is not her biological father, she found out at an early age....so it wasnt a surprise.....she embraces it and she enjoys them both!Comment
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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: _____</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
unfortunately, the birth parents are the same so mi stuck wid di sed ole crasses fambily dem</div></div>
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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: _____</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Today I discovered I was adopted...
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Click to reveal.. <input type="button" class="form-button" value="Show me!" onclick="toggle_spoiler(this, 'Yikes, my eyes!', 'Show me!')" /></div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div style="display: none;">unfortunately, the birth parents are the same so mi stuck wid di sed ole crasses fambily dem</div></div></div> </div></div>
how did u react, skells?Comment
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