Need advice

[CyberPhobic]

Suh Mary an Joe bruk up ovah 15 years now, an only stawt talking agenn since shi bukk up inna him a har fren wedd'n last summer.

Dem been talking plentifully since den. Tings a guh good suh dem planned a vacation togedda to guh to Aruba.

Shi sey since of late shi si why shi did ditch him years aguh for di man rude and sometimes dismissive a kinda way, whe mekk shi feel slight.

Shi tell him bout him klawwt two weeks aguh and now dem talking cut dung from 3-4 times a week to one time since shi cuss him awwf, anda him cawl har anda gwaan like nutt'n nuh wrang.

Shi a wonda if shi fi guh a Aruba an check into nedda hotel sayka how shi feel right yah now. Shi sey shi nuh hate him but not prepared tuh put up widd him rudeness pan vacation, an since nuff DEXTER SAINT JACQUES aguh dey bout, shi nuh want him fi come mash up har vacation widdi nonsense.

Shi a look advice cauz a Monday dem suppose tuh fly out, and shi sey shi goin by di hook or by di crook.

[sistacaf]

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stupidness. she don't need advise, what she needs is a flickin <span style="font-style: italic">brain</span> and the good sense god gave har.

she should change her flight -take the hit and pay the change fee- and go to a different island - by her damself.

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Shi sey since of late shi si why shi did ditch him
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well hel-LOOOOOOOO..... no shyte, sherlock. it don't take a rocket scientist to know that just cau yuh still attracted to the same things you liked about somebody, the other stuff bout them u DINT like, doesn't just <span style="font-style: italic">poof</span> go away.

if yuh brukup with them feet it one time, them same issues eventually will come thru again no matter how cute them look, or how nice they seem (for a while) when yuh re-meet them. but <span style="font-style: italic">'who they are' </span> on the inside doesn't change.

saary but if she go on vacation wit this man she a real eediat.

[CyberPhobic]

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Tanks Sis.

Shi sey shi did bruk up wid him becauz him did too immature - she was 22 and he was 25 at di time.

Apparently, AA won't refund fi di trip and shi really want to go to Aruba anyway an wood radda book a nadda hotel dan cancel.

Knowing her, if shi guh shi naaguh have a bad time dat's fo shore. Shi juss a wanda if shi fi geeem a chance an stay inna di sayme hotel (it is not about di money) or juss gwaan an book a different one or room.

[sistacaf]

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yah well a man whe dismiss and slight his woman is a kinda somebody who has to make others feel small so he can make himself feel big. she is right, that <span style="font-style: italic">IS</span> immature.

i dunno, if it was me in this situation and i can see the writing on the wall, i'd cut it off straight. if booking can't be changed, i'd be bookin myself into the hotel farthest away from the one he is in....clear on the other side a de island.

IMHO it's just <span style="font-style: italic">asking</span> for more stress if she's in the same hotel

[Seveen]

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tell her to get packing - i bet HE doesn't go

[sistacaf]

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haha, nah, Captain Clueless is packin right now, member cyber did seh:

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">shi cuss him awwf, <span style="font-style: italic"><span style="font-weight: bold">anda him cawl har anda gwaan like nutt'n nuh wrang. </span></span></div></div>

<span style="font-style: italic">he</span> thinks erything just fooiiiine.
typical Testosterone Tupidness

[Seveen]

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<span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'">well between now and sunday i could make him NOT want to go </span>

[SandiF]

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CyberPhobic yu fi just gwaan a Aruba wid Joe..... Err... a mean, CyberPhonic tell Mary fi go Aruba wid Joe; have nuff nuff sex, do it frontways backways and sideways and come back wid di story fi wi.

Take some condoms wid unnu.... a mean, gi Mary a pack a condoms.

[julie*mango]

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[MarieK]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SandiF</div><div class="ubbcode-body">CyberPhobic yu fi just gwaan a Aruba wid Joe..... Err... a mean, CyberPhonic tell Mary fi go Aruba wid Joe; have nuff nuff sex, do it frontways backways and sideways and come back wid di story fi wi.

Take some condoms wid unnu.... a mean, gi Mary a pack a condoms.

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an pan tap

[CyberPhobic]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SandiF</div><div class="ubbcode-body">CyberPhobic yu fi just gwaan a Aruba wid Joe..... Err... a mean, CyberPhonic tell Mary fi go Aruba wid Joe; have nuff nuff sex, do it frontways backways and sideways and come back wid di story fi wi.

Take some condoms wid unnu.... a mean, gi Mary a pack a condoms.

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Cho! Anno mi dis time man, cho. Tapp tell lie paah mi. How mi fi a guh farrin wid nedda man? How mi hooda explain dat one?

[CyberPhobic]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Seveen</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'">well between now and sunday i could make him NOT want to go </span> </div></div>

Yuh seeet?

[SandiF]

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so me nah go get nuh juicy story? :bawl:

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: CyberPhobic</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SandiF</div><div class="ubbcode-body">CyberPhobic yu fi just gwaan a Aruba wid Joe..... Err... a mean, CyberPhonic tell Mary fi go Aruba wid Joe; have nuff nuff sex, do it frontways backways and sideways and come back wid di story fi wi.

Take some condoms wid unnu.... a mean, gi Mary a pack a condoms.

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Cho! Anno mi dis time man, cho. Tapp tell lie paah mi. How mi fi a guh farrin wid nedda man? How mi hooda explain dat one?

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