Re: so, when you know a man has come to take advantage of
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: jamaicalover</div><div class="ubbcode-body">your kindness, why not walk away, RUN away?
what makes us stay and think they will change????
they won't and we know it, so, why do we stay so long
Re: so, when you know a man has come to take advantage of
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SweetSsop</div><div class="ubbcode-body">come with the rest of the story and we will tell you why </div></div>
BOAL .. aah sah.
Re: so, when you know a man has come to take advantage of
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: WeNdY</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SweetSsop</div><div class="ubbcode-body">come with the rest of the story and we will tell you why </div></div>
BOAL .. aah sah. </div></div>
so a noh choots mi a talk
an u dun kno sey u a de #1 lovelorn hexpert
Re: so, when you know a man has come to take advantage of
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SweetSsop</div><div class="ubbcode-body">come with the rest of the story and we will tell you why </div></div>
okay, shortened version, since the whole story would take far to long
met this man many years back,just in passing by his car and stopping to hail him..saw his little Jamaican emblem hanging from his mirror, stop.. holler "hey Jamaican man"
whoo,,, sometimes mi shoulda jus nah chat
after so many years, and much help he needed from me for a legal issue, mostly my advice and guidance with some $$ involved,I let my heart go to him
uh.. and my booty
ugh....again, not to wise, especially when finding out another woman, ahem, maybe a few, had been in the picture same time as me
Now, I come to overstand, he took my kindness for weakness, my doing of course,since I believe... we can't blame anyone but ourselves for letting someone take advantage of us
not anymore though, no more kindness or weakness with this man, just came away a smarter woman for it all
a lesson that needed to be learned
and
of course
he loses, although he doesn't know that as of yet
but, as with all things in life, people have to see for themselves
Re: so, when you know a man has come to take advantage of
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SweetSsop</div><div class="ubbcode-body">meeda like fe hear the long version
caa mi noh undastan dat dey shaawt vershan at all </div></div>
the long version goes over 7 years, had he and I physically with each other,many times, him asking me to marry(which translated to me that he needed to borrow, not take mind you, borrow some money)
him calling me when his mom passed, in tears since he couldn't go home to Jamaica because of his problem with the system
oh my, to much of a long story
a closeness in many ways that now I have to let go of
I did some BIG things for him, none of which I regret
regrets aren't healthy for our soul
just a matter of knowing when you feel that a man is taking your kindness for weakness it is time to show that man
Mi nah weak, mi jus love from the heart
as I said, he is going to realize in time, he lost a good woman, no, not good, GREAT!!!
so it go... time to let the heart go for him and move on
up until two weeks ago, again I assisted him with something he needed assistance with...he isn't a man who very well knows how to deal with the system ....although he has lived here some 22 years he hasn't ever had any problems like now
so, he turns to me for guidance with some of this
it is almost ironic, we hadn't talked for a little while
some vibe drew me to call him, just to say hey, what's up, how are you? he would do the same
he went on to tell me about a situation he had to deal with and of course, I offer to help him through it
I believe that all happens for a reason
what drew me to make that call after not talking to him for a while?was it again, he needed someone to give him guidance
so, to avoid this, no more calls to him
he has pride, he wasn't calling me to help him with this current issue,but when I did call him he brought it up
of course he has dealt with his life long before meeting me and will continue long after mi gone
time to me to really move along
if I didn't love him I could help him but
when the heart is in it, it is not easy to be just "friends"
not at least for me
what is the statement....people come to your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime.....
this was obviously a reason, a teaching for me too
I did explain to him from a while ago
I am sure I came to him for the big issue I helped him with
he needed me to cross his path for that reason
love from the heart on my side
now the love must dissolve and allow me to move on
Re: so, when you know a man has come to take advantage of
well dem sey cow neva kno de use a him tail til it gone
so you did what you did and could for him without regrets
jus move on and learn from it
dont go back to it or continue doing it knowin that it is not fully appreciated
dem sey one time fool a fool but two time fool a damn fool
so dont continue to make de same mistakes
Re: so, when you know a man has come to take advantage of
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Peasie</div><div class="ubbcode-body">is the sex <span style="font-style: italic">that</span> good? </div></div>
yes, it was that good,this is a man who was able to show his emotions mainly while making love
but
when you leave the bed and nuttin else a gwan, the sex becomes less good
Re: so, when you know a man has come to take advantage of
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SweetSsop</div><div class="ubbcode-body">well dem sey cow neva kno de use a him tail til it gone
so you did what you did and could for him without regrets
jus move on and learn from it
dont go back to it or continue doing it knowin that it is not fully appreciated
dem sey one time fool a fool but two time fool a damn fool
so dont continue to make de same mistakes </div></div>
I can admit, I have been a dam dam fool
even this man's sister look at me and say
"ya to good to him"
she was right
as I am sure many women have done before me, and many will after me
you give more than you ought to only to wake up one day and
figure out
enough is enough
and ONLY when you get to this point can you walk away
go through the disappointment, the heartache, and move on
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