"She respects and treats me very well..."

[Yvonne N.]

...said my car - wash gentleman worker today.

Normally mi noh really ask him about his biznizz because him is a busy man. He moves around plenty from place to place washing clients' cyar dem ...an' mi noh want fi disrupt him timing ...but today him stop fi tell mi seh him going on vacation way up North so mi woan sih him fi a while. So mi proceed wid di question dem.

He'll be visiting his lady - a Caucasian lady who is a little older than he is but she treats him very well and above all she respects him a great deal. Her son likes him also and he feels very comfortable aroun' har.

So I started thinking about the various posts on the topic and mi seh to miself...so that's it?...good treatment and respect... they seem to be the key...

Are they really? or are our fellas just wanting a different experience?

[Yvonne N.]

Re: "She respects and treats me very well..."

Lawks...ah suh oonu can be tight-lipped when oonu readdi...


Okay den...I guess I am saying <span style="font-style: italic">every hoe have dem stick ah bush...</span>...an mi siddung here almoas sorry fi how hard dis man have to werk...while him have farrin lady fren who willing to do the werl fah him...

<span style="font-style: italic"><span style="font-family: 'Book Antiqua'">Lesson of the day...every hoe have dem stick ah bush...</span></span>

[SandiF]

Re: &quot;She respects and treats me very well...&quot;

Sounds like he has found the comfort he needs in a friendship.

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Mrs_Ahmidis</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Lawks...ah suh oonu can be tight-lipped when oonu readdi...


Okay den...I guess I am saying <span style="font-style: italic">every hoe have dem stick ah bush...</span>...an mi siddung here almoas sorry fi how hard dis man have to werk...while him have farrin lady fren who willing to do the werl fah him...

<span style="font-style: italic"><span style="font-family: 'Book Antiqua'">Lesson of the day...every hoe have dem stick ah bush...</span></span> </div></div>

[Blackstar*]

Re: &quot;She respects and treats me very well...&quot;

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Mrs_Ahmidis</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><span style="font-style: italic">...said my car - wash gentleman worker today.

Normally mi noh really ask him about his biznizz because him is a busy man. He moves around plenty from place to place washing clients' cyar dem ...an' mi noh want fi disrupt him timing ...but today him stop fi tell mi seh him going on vacation way up North so mi woan sih him fi a while. So mi proceed wid di question dem.

He'll be visiting his lady - a Caucasian lady who is a little older than he is but she treats him very well and above all she respects him a great deal. Her son likes him also and he feels very comfortable aroun' har.

So I started thinking about the various posts on the topic and mi seh to miself...so that's it?...good treatment and respect... they seem to be the key...

Are they really? or are our fellas just wanting a different experience?</span> </div></div>I reckon you are on to something. Black people - in general - do not treat each other very well.

[Yvonne N.]

Re: &quot;She respects and treats me very well...&quot;

...m'dear...you hit the nail on the head...and it's way more than comfort...

[Yvonne N.]

Re: &quot;She respects and treats me very well...&quot;

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: BlackStar</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
... </div></div>I reckon you are on to something. Black people - in general - do not treat each other very well. [/quote]


I know that these issues have been discussed repeatedly but they always seemed to be issues among the middle socio-ecomnomic groups...I think.
This guy is not from that background and yet he shares similar sentiments...that's what caught my attention.

[Suesumba]

Re: &quot;She respects and treats me very well...&quot;

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: BlackStar</div><div class="ubbcode-body">]I reckon you are on to something. Black people - in general - do not treat each other very well. </div></div>

true ... and it's from women to women even more. they never discuss issues, only other women and in the most derogatory ways.