wha unu tink of

[sistactry]

dancers,


u know the girls who work at these strip clubs....i dont know if dem strip or just dance, but....

do you tink dem can raise a family right,

one girl me know just come from Jamaica, married, get her papers and gone bout her business, but she had a baby wid de yute, den i suppose dem mash up, so she left,

she have bout 5pickney.....and she nuh reach 40yet!

she move outta de Bronx and gone way up north where she live inna nice house wid white man, wha unu tink bout dis??

[Bizzy]

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so de girl u know?? is she a dancer now or back in jamaica or what?

an yes, a stripper or exotic dancer or whatever can raise a child(ren)

[kia027]

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Yes I think a stripper, exotic dancer etc can raise their children .. coo pon Madonna and these other artists.. They may slow down to raise their kids but they still perform

[twiney]

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I have heard of cases where there work is hidden from their children and they take on the work in order not to take on new boyfriends to support them and them children.

[ILP]

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I know to exotic dancers (met them in college) and to them dancing is the same as going to the office. Like how some people's "office" is the factory or the construction site, the sports facility or the store. The club where they dance is "the office" to them.

Both of them have kids. One still dances the other is married SAHM.

[Yvonne N.]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SistaCtry</div><div class="ubbcode-body">dancers,


u know the girls who work at these strip clubs....i dont know if dem strip or just dance, but....

do you tink dem can raise a family right, <span style="font-weight: bold"> <span style="color: #003300"> I have seen them in interviews, periodically, and they seem to do this job in order to take care of the family. </span> </span>

one girl me know just come from Jamaica, married, get her papers and gone bout her business, but she had a baby wid de yute, den i suppose dem mash up, so she left,

she have bout 5pickney.....and she nuh reach 40yet! <span style="font-weight: bold"> <span style="color: #003300">...apparently hoping that one of these fellas would take care of her and the children... </span> </span>

she move outta de Bronx and gone way up north where she live inna nice house wid white man, wha unu tink bout dis?? <span style="font-weight: bold"> <span style="color: #003300"> She chrying fi fine har way...</span> </span>


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I believe each person makes the best decision in choosing a lifestyle
based on what they have to work with, or, in other words, based on their circumstances.
The key is to make what you have work for you... without coveting your <span style="font-style: italic">neighbour</span>.

[Wendy]

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Funny ..some will tell you they are dancing to support their children ..

See no reason why the two should be mutually exclusive

[britisha]

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ahemm!!



mi wuddah nevah waan fi know seh a suh mi madda get money fi raise mi...<span style="font-weight: bold">dere is more to di trade dan juss hexotic dancing, no mek ghost fool oonoh...whole heap a abuse n ting...some juss innah di news tiddeh bout how di manger teef dem tips and grope dem privates, so dem a file class hackshan lawsuit </span> some a dem haffie strip an some a dem haffie duh lap dance pan di man....laawd, wot a life...methinks it ties in poor self-esteem and early child abuse of a sexual nature...muy humble hopinion!!

'ope dem file taxes fur haftah 40 dem usually get tossed, an hiff dem noh file dere will be no social sekuritei fi get, n dem h affie wuk a good 20 years tuh get anniting substantial...so dere.

[Wendy]

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Fauthfull – all what yuh said is true .. but mi neva wan get into the moral aspect of the profession and &quot;how&quot; yuh make your money because they question was simple – can they raise children (right). The true ansa really is – yes/no/maybe so . Cause it all depends pan other factors going on the that parent life and the environment the children are in.

Same ansa mi would give to the question – <span style="font-weight: bold">Can a woman who choose fi go into acting raise their children right?</span>. Again the ansa is yes/no/maybe so …who is to say dem a raise dem pickney betta dan the stripper. Some a dem nat even si dem pickney none a tall because of dem schedule… Meanwhile di nanny is more of a parent dan dem.

[sistactry]

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roosss, me head a go to chickenback, me neen memba me post dis~~

sooo ohhkay.....unu seem to a say its ok, and it depends....well, i suppose so, but

one girl is 18 going on 19 she knows, and as a matter of fact i think all a dem including the last one (6yrs old) knows...so this is the part I think that bothers me, the kids knowing, if me did a do dat, me wudda put on me nurses uniform and dem wudda never know a ting~~