What should he do?

[quodlibet]

Folks, <span style="text-decoration: underline">this is not based on a personal situation</span>, but thought I should get some perspectives here...

So the busty and attractive girl in the office finds the new supervisor (who is married) attractive.

She puts it out to him privately but in no uncertain terms that he can get some, but he flat out refused.

After the offer and refusal happened in private, since then she suggests it was he who propositioned her and is considering to report him to management.

Other men in the office have been known to have thrown their hats in the ring with no success, so it is unlikely that he would be believed in a he-said-she-said.

The man is good at what he does, gets along great with everyone so far, is making a decent income from the job, and has no other reason to leave.

<span style="font-style: italic"><span style="font-weight: bold">What do you suggest he do?</span></span>

(Additional thing to throw on the fire - he is Caucasian, she is a woman of color... and does that matter in the discussion?)

[Derek]

Re: What should he do?

What would she be reporting him for?



If I was the guy I'd ignore it all but if senior management wanted a word with me, I'd simply tell the truth.

[Nunya]

Re: What should he do?

She'd be reporting him because she feels scorned?

[Nunya]

Re: What should he do?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Quodlibet</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
After the offer and refusal happened in private, </div></div>

If it was done in private, how come oonuu know bout it?

[Stormmey]

Re: What should he do?

he should conceal a tape on him....approach her and ask her why she is doing this when she knows she is the one that hit on him first.....I told you I am married not interested. Why are you trying to ruin my reputation.

Hopefully she will incriminate herself.....wonder if I am watching/reading too much of these type of movies/books.

[RichD]

Re: What should he do?

he needs to get out in front of this..go speak to management before she does.

either that or give her what she want

[SandiF]

Re: What should he do?

Is he dumb or something? Report to HR what occurred. Why would he wait for her to have the upper hand and not act on his own behalf? He shouldn't be having any conversation with her either...

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Quodlibet</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Folks, <span style="text-decoration: underline">this is not based on a personal situation</span>, but thought I should get some perspectives here...

So the busty and attractive girl in the office finds the new supervisor (who is married) attractive.

She puts it out to him privately but in no uncertain terms that he can get some, but he flat out refused.

After the offer and refusal happened in private, since then she suggests it was he who propositioned her and is considering to report him to management.

Other men in the office have been known to have thrown their hats in the ring with no success, so it is unlikely that he would be believed in a he-said-she-said.

The man is good at what he does, gets along great with everyone so far, is making a decent income from the job, and has no other reason to leave.

<span style="font-style: italic"><span style="font-weight: bold">What do you suggest he do?</span></span>

(Additional thing to throw on the fire - he is Caucasian, she is a woman of color... and does that matter in the discussion?) </div></div>

[Stormmey]

Re: What should he do?

Quod, scratch what I said!! true thing Sandi saying....tell him to run to HR now

[quodlibet]

Re: What should he do?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nunya</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Quodlibet</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
After the offer and refusal happened in private, </div></div>

If it was done in private, how come oonuu know bout it? </div></div>

Because he confided afterwards, he didn't know what else to do.


<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Stormmey1</div><div class="ubbcode-body">he should conceal a tape on him....approach her and ask her why she is doing this when she knows she is the one that hit on him first.....I told you I am married not interested. Why are you trying to ruin my reputation.

Hopefully she will incriminate herself.....wonder if I am watching/reading too much of these type of movies/books. </div></div>

Quite illegal in these parts - invites all forms of DHS/FBI/NSA/DIA type of hell on yourself (perhaps i said too much ...)


<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SandiF</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Is he dumb or something? Report to HR what occurred. Why would he wait for her to have the upper hand and not act on his own behalf? He shouldn't be having any conversation with her either...
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I guess he has concerns that if it blows up it may go back to his home situation (didn't pry, but bottom line is that it sounds expensive) - maybe he is hoping that she wont really follow through on her threat, I dunno

[Peasie]

Re: What should he do?

What SandiF said. And he should hurry! That chick sounds like a bunny boiler to me