Paternity request

[Stormmey]

So, you are in a relationship with someone.....and about year into the relationship you get pregnant. You tell spouse.....he looks at you hard with puzzled look on his face....then says, that cannot be as I cannot make kids.

During the year that you been with him he never told you this, or the reason why he cannot make kids. He now tells you due to some illness and treatment he had years ago docs. told him his sperm count was so low it is near impossible for him to get a female pregnant. The chances of him getting anyone pregnant is like one in ten million.

He then says when you have the baby, he wants a paternity....

So!! would you agree to continue seeing him and provide him with the paternity

Or!!! would you tell him fine..... I will do the paternity test and from this point onwards.... this relationship is over.I know it is your baby I have not been fooling around and when the paternity test prove it is yours you support baby and we can schedule visitation with baby.

What would you do

[twiney]

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Suck it up baby you just got lucky ... you getting me pregnant is a miracle. Now if he had declared his medical sterility I would provide the test and wouldn't be offended cause I could clearly understand. Keep this secret u been fooling the woman who obviously batting with hopes of a baby so pray baby look like mommy and wear jacket proudly if that's the case. BTW sometimes Drs dont know for sure the man sterile

[kia027]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Twiney</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Suck it up baby you just got lucky ... you getting me pregnant is a miracle. Now if he had declared his medical sterility I would provide the test and wouldn't be offended cause I could clearly understand. Keep this secret u been fooling the woman who obviously batting with hopes of a baby so pray baby look like mommy and wear jacket proudly if that's the case. BTW sometimes Drs dont know for sure the man sterile </div></div>

ditto

[RichD]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Stormmey1</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
What would you do </div></div>

i don't see having any option other than going through with the paternity test... there also have to be serious discussion around trust if the relationship is to continue

[diabolical_Tanya]

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from allllll the episodes of Maury I have watched, mi noh wrong di man fi ask fi DNA test.

Some oooman lie bad

[Stormmey]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: diabolical_Tanya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">from allllll the episodes of Maury I have watched, mi noh wrong di man fi ask fi DNA test.

Some oooman lie bad </div></div>

He should have disclosed to her what the doc. told him.....mek di bwoy gulang and btw Maury PO pay peeps $$ to come on his show and chat s!it and tell lie it's all about rating and $$ with those ghetto crep crep that frequent his show.

[Stormmey]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Twiney</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Suck it up baby you just got lucky ... you getting me pregnant is a miracle. <span style="font-weight: bold">Now if he had declared his medical sterility I would provide the test and wouldn't be offended cause I could clearly understand.</span> Keep this secret u been fooling the woman who obviously batting with hopes of a baby so pray baby look like mommy and wear jacket proudly if that's the case. BTW sometimes Drs dont know for sure the man sterile </div></div>

cosign Twiney!! same thing I tell this female....but sometimes peeps tell you stuff and ask what you would do, when your opinion differs from what they want to do....it's like they giving you tude....why ask for my opinion then.

[DearK]

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so what is her plan?

[Stormmey]

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dont know.....

what I told her I would do after she asked my opinion I guess she didn't like....... so since then she give me tude. Haven't seen or heard from her since, guess when she get ova she will call ~shrug~