Is she too desperate to keep him

[Hush Darlin]

So they met and just over a month he asked her to marry him
They dont live in the same city but as he got any free time duringthe first 5 months he would be at her place
meaning every weekend or days off during the week
She have 2 young boys by 2 different men.

One of the boys father lives in another country and have not seen him in nearly 3 years due to circumstances beyond his control but do send child support every month.
The older of the boys dad lives in the same apartment building but only sees his son because the court said so. He curses the mom in front of the son and say all sorts of nasty thing.
The boy has ADHD and his behaivour is left to be desired he swears at the mom and says nasty things to her but he does behave well when he is with his father.

Anyhoo the couple talked about moving in together and getting married. He wants her and her kids to move closer to the city that he lives or to the same city she even entertained the idea and started looking for places to live.


soon come wid de ress

[Stormmey]

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That is so sad, guess he is copying the Dad. Now I do not belive that everything/behaviour a Kid has that is because something is wrong with them. Just blastid bad.....yes me say so.

If my granmere was alive she would say......
Han vill ha nagra bra finnes med en sked tra
Some jamaicans I know would say that pikni want some razz lick iiesi
see how fast he straighten out.

maybe she should let him go live with the Dad and see how he likes it

[Hush Darlin]

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So for the past 3 month or so she has seen him twice
He dont answer his phone for days and he is always working or he is
frustrated or not feeling well he left his phone somewhere or his phone was turned off and he did not realize and all kinds of excuses.

She has not met any of his family or friends when she ask him about that he says he is not close with his family and his friends are not worth meeting as they would not like her.
He has met most of her family and her friends.

[Stormmey]

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Helllloooo Miss Lady....

That man sound like a blastid liar....or he is no longer interested and don't know how to tell her.

[Hush Darlin]

Re: Is she too desperate to keep him

I think he wants out of the relationship or there is another woman.
He does not have his papers to live here and he had hope that she would have married him already cause of some of the stuff he has said to her in a kind of pressuring way.
She thinks he is playing both of time to see which one would marry him first so that he can get his papers.

She claims she love him and dont want to lose him.

She has gone as far as to look up one of his relatives on 411.com and got her number and called her and told her what is been happening. She claims she got the relative info because said relative had mailed him stuff to her adresss so she got the name and full address from the envelope.

[Hush Darlin]

Re: Is she too desperate to keep him

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Stormmey1</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Helllloooo Miss Lady....

That man sound like a blastid liar....or he is no longer interested and don't know how to tell her. </div></div>
Hole awn Stawmmey mi wi get to dat paawt soon

[Stormmey]

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Look here na SS....betcha yu at the office a type this....next time only do it from home wey yu can give the full story one time...cho

Have to flash go Doctor

[Hush Darlin]

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Anyways he found out about her calling his relative in the States and he was royally p.d off. She has since tried calling the relative back and have been unsuccessful no matter what day or time she calls.

So a few days ago he told her she calls him and texts him too much and he cant deal with how her son treats her anymore. She started telling him how good he is for her sons and how much her sons love him and how devastated they would be if they broke up
She even put her sons on speaker and question them about him and make them tell him how much they like him and all that thing.

She even told him that he should play a greater part in her sons life and help the one that has behavioural problems to be better. Its been a few days and he have not heard from him. He did not spend New Years with her as he claim he had planned to hand with his land lord NYE night and he did not call her that night as a matter of fact his phone was off for teh whole night and she did not speak to him til the day after New Years day.

She told me for a fact that she knows he loves her and one of the reason she gave me is that he would not have bought her a phone for Christmas this is a phone that doent work where she lives as that is a new phone company and dont have service in her town.

One more thing she has never been to where he lives. She has not been to work all week saying she cant function.

Is she desperate?

[Hush Darlin]

Re: Is she too desperate to keep him

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Stormmey1</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

Look here na SS....betcha yu at the office a type this....next time only do it from home wey yu can give the full story one time...cho

Have to flash go Doctor </div></div>
mi dey home man but the phone noh stap ring
she all call mi during the time mi typing dis

[CeaBee]

Re: Is she too desperate to keep him

desperate for love yes

i think she just not ready to admit to herself seh tings done with the man.

[Hush Darlin]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: CeaBee</div><div class="ubbcode-body">desperate for love yes

i think she just not ready to admit to herself seh tings done with the man.

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mi tink she a one a dem ooman wha cannot do without a man in dem life
yes the ship has set sail awhile now but she is trying to swim to reach it

[Nunya]

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Can't believe she actually had her sons 'fighting' her battles for her... that ish is pathetic.

[JAmerican Ooman]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SweetSsop</div><div class="ubbcode-body">She even put her sons on speaker and question them about him and make them tell him how much they like him and all that thing. </div></div>

Pure desperation!! And if that did not sway him... nothing will...

She should be shame

[Hush Darlin]

Re: Is she too desperate to keep him

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nunya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Can't believe she actually had her sons 'fighting' her battles for her... that ish is pathetic. </div></div>
thats why mi tink she desperate
she helped the older son dad to get his papers and 3 weeks after he got them he walked out
and now she wants to help this guy too
he is upset that she got her self fixed cause he wanted a child by her he said
He has 2 children back where he came from

[kia027]

Re: Is she too desperate to keep him

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SweetSsop</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nunya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Can't believe she actually had her sons 'fighting' her battles for her... that ish is pathetic. </div></div>
thats why mi tink she desperate
she helped the older son to get his papers and 3 weeks after he got them he walked out
and now she wants to help this guy too
he is upset that she got her self fixed cause he wanted a child by her he said
He has 2 children back where he came from </div></div>

so what is so special that he wants a child with her dna + his? Sound like he is thinking of all the excuses.. time fi she to grow up and stand on her own two feet.