Do very attractive women make stable partners ?

[SandiF]

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a wey yu a do a road so long?

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When mi reach home later I will post some experiences I had wid one hottie weh mi did a date.
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[R_C]

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Oonuh gwey...

Anyway, so mi used to date this AA girl. She was hot, I mean… <span style="font-style: italic"><span style="color: #FF0000">smoking hot</span></span>….think sort of a mix between Lisa Bonet, Halle Berry an Lauryn Hill…all very beautiful women with issues I might add. But I digress.

So anyway, after a few dates this woman tells me she was going for surgery in a couple months. Soh mi seh, wah kina surgery ? Are you not well ? So shi tell me seh she had breast implants when shi was 18 and dem don’t last for more than 10 years or so shi going to have them replaced. Breast implants!!! At 18 !!! Well, you don’t get any more insecure than that. Not to mention that the next plan was a “tummy tuck” cause the pregnancy “wrecked” her profile. Mind you, none of these issues were apparent to me. But neva mine, she was doing all this surgery “for herself”.

And it was so embarrassing for me to see how grown men would regress to childhood in this woman’s presence. From a man who rear ended the car in front of him at a stoplight because he was staring so much to one who when we were at a restaurant was looking at her and literally missed his mouth with a forkful of food. We even went out once to a nightclub and the bartender would not charge her for her drinks because he was “in love” with her and “a woman who looked like that should not have to pay for anything”. Mi seh to myself, how could this kind of attention not eventually warp smaddy brain.

And indeed it did. She turned out to have major psychological problems and I dodged a bullet. So never again babba. Too much drama. So these days when mi si wan bredda wid one of these hotties mi juss smile an laff to myself.

[Tulip]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: H_O</div><div class="ubbcode-body">until they start get older and realize that the party is over </div></div>

That was pretty funny lol.

[Tulip]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Skelly</div><div class="ubbcode-body">thought of this song too my 2c...

I have a friend who is as beautiful as they come...women get defensive when she walks in a room and men can't stop watching her..heck i'd do her too...lol...<span style="font-size: 17pt">but she is one of the most insecure people i have ever met!!!</span> it is sad really...and especially how she used to carry herself with the guys... really sad
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That part of it is very common.

[Tulip]

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To answer the original question, it's the inside and not the outside that makes a person stable. There are certainly enough &quot;ugly&quot; people unstable to hell as partners to prove that point.

[Derek]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: H_O</div><div class="ubbcode-body">until they start get older and realize that the party is over </div></div>


I know a few like that. 'Too nice' when we were teenagers and in our 20s.
Now, looking a bit plump and visiting dating websites - and, when they bump into you, commenting on how 'you look OK.' I thought I looked OK 20 years ago.

[Stormmey]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Rollin_Calf</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Oonuh gwey...

Anyway, so mi used to date this AA girl. She was hot, I mean… <span style="font-style: italic"><span style="color: #FF0000">smoking hot</span></span>….think sort of a mix between Lisa Bonet, Halle Berry an Lauryn Hill…all very beautiful women with issues I might add. But I digress.

So anyway, after a few dates this woman tells me she was going for surgery in a couple months. Soh mi seh, wah kina surgery ? Are you not well ? So shi tell me seh she had breast implants when shi was 18 and dem don’t last for more than 10 years or so shi going to have them replaced. Breast implants!!! At 18 !!! Well, you don’t get any more insecure than that. Not to mention that the next plan was a “tummy tuck” cause the pregnancy “wrecked” her profile. Mind you, none of these issues were apparent to me. But neva mine, she was doing all this surgery “for herself”.

And it was so embarrassing for me to see how grown men would regress to childhood in this woman’s presence. From a man who rear ended the car in front of him at a stoplight because he was staring so much to one who when we were at a restaurant was looking at her and literally missed his mouth with a forkful of food. <span style="font-weight: bold">We even went out once to a nightclub and the bartender would not charge her for her drinks because he was “in love” with her and “a woman who looked like that should not have to pay for anything”. Mi seh to myself, how could this kind of attention not eventually warp smaddy brain.</span>And indeed it did. She turned out to have major psychological problems and I dodged a bullet. So never again babba. Too much drama. So these days when mi si wan bredda wid one of these hotties mi juss smile an laff to myself.
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u promise not to tell anyone wait until a reach back a Canada

[Peasie]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Rollin_Calf</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Just wondering, based on personal experiences.

For example, how easy is it for a woman who has been constantly showered with male attention from all corners for most of her life to commit to an exclusive relationship with one man ? If that expectation has been a part of your reality, will attention from only one man ever be enough for you ? </div></div>


I don't think this is true. Very attractive women are probably just as likely to be stable partners as are their less-attractive counterparts. It could just be that more attractive women are under more scrutiny, i.e., we pay attention to them more.

[Wendy]

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RC - even wid weh yuh a seh up top deh, yuh still ago want to be with someone who YOU deem attractive.. Yuh naah goh tek up smaddy yuh noh attracted to jus fi seh yuh waan bi wid smaddy stable.

Jus falla In Judge Maybaline famous words of advice ....<span style="font-weight: bold">Look deep before yuh lea</span>p

[skins]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Peasie</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

I don't think this is true. <span style="font-weight: bold">Very attractive women are probably just as likely to be stable partners as are their less-attractive counterparts</span>. It could just be that more attractive women are under more scrutiny, i.e., we pay attention to them more.

</div></div><span style="font-size: 11pt"> I agree.
Sometimes more so</span>

[Bizzy]

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Only an ugly person would say it's not possible ...and only ugly men who cyaan get an attractive ooman would agree

More pressure is placed on pretty woman to get and keep a man, just because of her looks. When good looking him divorce or relationship end...everybody have sitten fi say &quot;how she so pretty an cyaan kip man&quot; or &quot;she must be crazy an have issues&quot; etc.

But when a average lookin or ugly ooman man lef dem, nobody nuh mek no comment about the ugly smaddy ability fi kip dem man.

Most men deh wid a ugly ooman because of her personality, humor, character and all other stuff. Then they get with an attractive ooman BECAUSE of her looks...and then dem find out bout everything else after that and den realize dem nuh ha nutten much in common.....

All relationships can end...regardless of looks