Should you confront the other woman?

[Bizzy]

Re: Should you confront the other woman?

Heck naw...what for? Afta anuh me and she supposed to be faithful to each other. Deal wid de man an done...unless u a plan fi work out a schedule wid de matey, lef har alone.

[Suesumba]

Re: Should you confront the other woman?

cheating is a game for a lot of men.

[CeaBee]

Re: Should you confront the other woman?

For you I was a flame
Love is a losing game
Five story fire as you came
Love is a losing game

Why do I wish I never played
Oh, what a mess we made
And now the final frame
Love is a losing game

Played out by the band
Love is a losing hand
More than I could stand
Love is a losing hand

Self professed, profound
Till the chips were down
Know you're a gambling man
Love is a losing hand

Though I'm rather blind
Love is a fate resigned
Memories mar my mind
Love is a fate resigned

Over futile odds
And laughed at by the gods
And now the final frame
Love is a losing game

[Wendy]

Re: Should you confront the other woman?

Mi naah go dat far to declare love a loosing game. It has its moments..Like most tings in life, yuh win some and yuh loose some. An when yuh tink yuh a loose, later down the road yuh realize seh yuh had the upper hand all along.

Pan aneda subject related to di subject ,..any a unu know a SINGLE man dat deh wid a MARRID woman? Cause mi have encountered a few a dose such marrid women (not frenz, jus acquaintances)

[sistactry]

Re: Should you confront the other woman?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Bizi_Winning</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Heck naw...what for? Afta anuh me and she supposed to be faithful to each other. Deal wid de man an done...unless u a plan fi work out a schedule wid de matey, lef har alone. </div></div>

luvvvvvv dis Bizi, :respect: bigg ooman taak dis,

[sistactry]

Re: Should you confront the other woman?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body">cheating is a game for a lot of men. </div></div>

and especially the immature one dem, no cause dem big mean dem mature!!

[sistactry]

Re: Should you confront the other woman?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: CeaBee</div><div class="ubbcode-body">For you I was a flame
Love is a losing game
Five story fire as you came
Love is a losing game

Why do I wish I never played
Oh, what a mess we made
And now the final frame
Love is a losing game

Played out by the band
Love is a losing hand
More than I could stand
Love is a losing hand

Self professed, profound
Till the chips were down
Know you're a gambling man
Love is a losing hand

Though I'm rather blind
Love is a fate resigned
Memories mar my mind
Love is a fate resigned

Over futile odds
And laughed at by the gods
And now the final frame
Love is a losing game

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a life, it no easy fe find a mate for the rest of your life,
hell its hard just finding a friend these days, much less u up inna dem face everyday wid all kinna issues,

[H_O]

Re: Should you confront the other woman?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body">cheating is a game for a lot of men. </div></div> you right. its the thrill of the catch.
but remember stiff cocky dont have a conscience

[Stormmey]

Re: Should you confront the other woman?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: WeNdY</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Mi naah go dat far to declare love a loosing game. It has its moments..Like most tings in life, yuh win some and yuh loose some. An when yuh tink yuh a loose, later down the road yuh realize seh yuh had the upper hand all along.

Pan aneda subject related to di subject ,..any a unu know a <span style="font-weight: bold">SINGLE man dat deh wid a MARRID woman? </span>Cause mi have encountered a few a dose such marrid women (not frenz, jus acquaintances)
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yes a family member......he live a Sweden....she live a jamaica......him see her bout four times a year.....sometimes more she travels for her job....so that makes it easier for them....we have tried reasoning with him bout it....but he says he is in love....says she does not want to live a Sweden take the kids where they cannot see their Dad.....they both know if she were to leave and my cousin move to Jamaioca to be with her I know her husband would kill them both

[SandiF]

Re: Should you confront the other woman?

so why is the family trying to reasoning with him about it? love is very strong and when two people are in love....well.... this sound like two people who are truly in love with each other but other matters preventing the union they both desire. how old is he btw?

yes a family member......he live a Sweden....she live a jamaica......him see her bout four times a year.....sometimes more she travels for her job....so that makes it easier for them....we have tried reasoning with him bout it....but he says he is in love....says she does not want to live a Sweden take the kids where they cannot see their Dad.....they both know if she were to leave and my cousin move to Jamaioca to be with her I know her husband would kill them both [/quote]

[Stormmey]

Re: Should you confront the other woman?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SandiF</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><span style="font-weight: bold">so why is the family trying to reasoning with him about it</span>? love is very strong and when two people are in love....well.... this sound like two people who are truly in love with each other but other matters preventing the union they both desire. how old is he btw?
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Because we can see a murder and suicide looming on the horizon if the husband finds out .....neway me tek wey meself from certain situation when I visit. He is 35 she is 30

[missus_vegas]

Re: Should you confront the other woman?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Stormmey1</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SandiF</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><span style="font-weight: bold">so why is the family trying to reasoning with him about it</span>? love is very strong and when two people are in love....well.... this sound like two people who are truly in love with each other but other matters preventing the union they both desire. how old is he btw?
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Because we can see a murder and suicide looming on the horizon if the husband finds out .....neway me tek wey meself from certain situation when I visit. He is 35 she is 30 </div></div>

how much longer dem expect fi carry on so....judging by har age mi a assume say har kids no older dan 10 or 12...so ur cus no intend to settle dung and have a family life of his own....how long have they been seeing each other? maybe is just a phase

[Stormmey]

Re: Should you confront the other woman?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Vegas</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Stormmey1</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SandiF</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><span style="font-weight: bold">so why is the family trying to reasoning with him about it</span>? love is very strong and when two people are in love....well.... this sound like two people who are truly in love with each other but other matters preventing the union they both desire. how old is he btw?
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Because we can see a murder and suicide looming on the horizon if the husband finds out .....neway me tek wey meself from certain situation when I visit. He is 35 she is 30 </div></div>

how much longer dem expect fi carry on so....judging by har age mi a assume say har kids no older dan 10 or 12...so ur cus no intend to settle dung and have a family life of his own....how long have they been seeing each other? maybe is just a phase </div></div>

Vegas!! don't know how long they expect to to have this love affair (dont care ) her kids are 5 &amp; 7yrs old....they been doing this for almost three years.....he was married....now divorced.....ex-wife and he still maintain a good relationship.....he is involved in his daughter life and see her regularly. He met jamaican lady when he stayed at the same hotel she was at for some conference thingy for her job. jamaican lady is my half-sister a jamdung best friend...my sister husband tell her friend don't come back to their house.....he says even though her husband is a loose screw (him think) what she doing not right....me thinks he scared that when shot start fire the husband will think he was condoning affair and shot reach him, when I visit jamaica I avoid her.....same thing wid me a doan want shot reach me 'ere My sister still meet her outside of her house....if I am there and she meeting her....I do not go with them.

She says she don't want to live a Sweden....take kids away from their Dad....if she leave husband and my cousin moves there....my sis and her husband say he will kill them both....anyway like I say I tek wey meself....the last time he came to Canada just fore I went to jamdung and wanted me to take stuff for her....me juss tell him I will not....not getting involve in that....plus I think the husband is the type that will think big disrespect she leff him for yt man....my sis says she thinks her friend will eventually move to Sweden.....btw none of her family like the husband....he is verbally abusive (I heard) and they think he has hit her.....even though she deny it cause they think she embarass.... I wish them well and hope no one gets physically hurt....especially the children.

btw Vegas!! me give u the full story cause me know u would ask more questions neway!!.....so me mek sure tell u everything from the get go....so me done

[DearK]

Re: Should you confront the other woman?

So if so many people are aware, how comes the hubby is clueless?

[Stormmey]

Re: Should you confront the other woman?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Dear K</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><span style="font-weight: bold">So if so many people are aware, how comes the hubby is clueless?</span> </div></div>

a doan know DearK....an doan care......mebbe cause they doan meet in jamaica....and is not na whole heap a peeple know