how mommy issues can make u a lesbionite

[FrenchTickla]

(mi tek di day off so mi have time fi unload di recent ish wat mi been encountering )

oonu did tink dat lacking mothering could lead to lesbian tendencies?

well mi sistren just sit mi dung to dinner wah day here and she seh "i want to say something but i feel i need a drink first"

background:

she is 43, married with two preteen boys. she is french and have a high power job at our high-tech company. i met her at a party where a mutual acquaintance was burning her wedding dress and having a pity party on the night her ex-husband was remarrying.

let's call mi fren francine. well when she walk inna di party she exude sex! den she kinda latch on to me and mi get a instant crush.

later in di night she start dance wid one a har friend dem - anedda of di wives from this affluent neighborhood weh dem all live. but it was very apparent that these women had been intimate. let's just say they were not doing di two step. i've been to other parties weh dem behave di same way infront a dem husbands

true as how she married mi keep mi crush to miself but she always got me hot and bothered. especially when she ask mi fi tek har dancing, or when di two a we go dinner and have really intimate personal discussions (not abt sex!) over drinks. dis is how i found out she had mommy issues. like real deep ones. di father tried to choke out the mother, they got a divorce, he cut off all financial support to his kids, the mom was distant and competitive with the daughter but coddled the son, francine feels her mom never supported her and when francine moved from france to san fran for grad school the mom wouldn't sign loan papers for school. there were many other things but the point is there was no affection from the mom and the mom didn't try to see her or her kids - she outright said she didn't think it was a good idea.

so fast forward to our dinner wah day here ...

[sistactry]

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[FrenchTickla]

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so she seh she been seeing di ooman she been dancing provocatively wid fi di last two years

she been married fi 17 years and insists that he is her best friend and she is still terribly in love with him and she's never cheated. she feels bad for what she's doing and how she feels and that doing this to him is the worst things she's done in life.

but she's drawn to (let's call her) maxine. she loves that she mothers her and she cannot get enough of her boobs . so mi seh wah u do just sit around and cop a feel everytime she walk by? yup, basically. she seh she can do widdout the sex but she really misses her boobs.

i mean mi watch from cross di table and u could tell she really torn up bout di whole thing. they haven't seen each other in a month although there is just a 5-acre parcel of farm land between their houses and dem have clear sight of each other yard. they text still though.

i always knew francine's husband was whipped. people used to say it and a convo i had with her after me and her went dancing confirmed it. so when she told him bout maxine he was very crushed but him never mention divorce (her biggest fear). so i think she just gwaan tek advantage.

she admit that it very selfish, she wants the best of both world and although thet tried therapy her goal is to get him to agree to let her sleep with both of them! mi tell har seh she fi figet dat one. him don't sound like the type.

she on the other hand cannot see herself living with this woman (who is married anyway), feels that sex with her is foreplay, and really sees her as a mother figure. francine runs the show at work and at home so when they went away to paris (francine for work and maxine just tagged along), she was very happy caw maxine plan everything, took charge and pampered her.

mi see maxine at dinner last night and by my professional assessment, her boobs aren't all that and she is not cute. sorry, i sound *****y but i had to look again. i've been around her for a while and she never strike mi dat way so yessiday mi look pon har again fi see a wah so. di one ting i agree with is that she is very motherly and great at it suh mi see how francine get hooked.

mi tell har fi get professional help tho. wah mi never say is that mi nuh tink she gay. she is really torturing herself for an explanation. i sum it up as mommy issues that she juss hasn't dealt with yet.

[kia027]

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mi noh tink she gay and like u said is mommy issues she a look comfort whe she neva have .. might be why she neva chose a macho type husband ?

i dunno.. but i do agree she need therapy

She was not 'born this way' as Lady Gaga sings

[FrenchTickla]

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kia, i think she would throw caution to the wind if she didn't have the children and if she didn't fear living alone.

so although di husband is whipped, she getting security from having him around too.

[sistactry]

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waaaiiie, i dont have a clue a wha a gwaan, me juss luvv read ur writing....arrite, as fe francine, she pwile and luvvv have her way, and maxine a mother her, but mek me ask u, she really tink her hubby a go go fe de 3some???

so wha, u nuh feel leff out..., hush

[sistactry]

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francine naa give up hubby, she just want her cake and eat it to,

(a de second brestesss argument me a have today)

[FrenchTickla]

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cuntry u funny nuh baxide

she not looking for a 3some. she still waan rooks har husband but him nuh give har di kinda affection she get from maxine PLUS him nuh have nuh boobs. so she guh to maxine fi dat separately from har time wid har husband.

mi nuh feel left out sah. as mi seh, mi keep mi feelings to miself. mi fren dem tink she have a crush on me but mi nuh agree but would not tell dem seh mi wuda rooks har if she came wid paypas - i.e. health paypas and signed and notarized letter from har husband giving har permissions

seriously, mi nuh inna dat deh mixup. it not worth it

[FrenchTickla]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SistaCtry</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

(a de second brestesss argument me a have today) </div></div>

so wah di fuss one was bout? i am a b.atty and b.reast ooman so dem yah story entertaining.

did i tell oonu dat maxine boobies more dan likely fake? she pushing bout late 50s and dem stan up. who pines over fake boobs? maybe i shudden knock it till mi try it

[sistactry]

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watch yaa,

<span style="font-weight: bold"> The BBC News is reporting:

HAVE A LAUGH LADIES, I AM SURE THE MEN WILL BE LIKING THIS.

Very soon women will pay men to suck their breasts.

Doctors recommend that women reduce the risk of getting breast cancer by
having their breasts sucked. It is said that regular sucking of the
breast lowers the risk level that tends to build up breast cancer. The
breast must be sucked as often as possible, help women fight breast cancer
today. Men, please do your part, and suck a breast now and women please
let your body free!

This message is from the Ministry of Health in the Fight Against Breast
Cancer..

Please I honestly think we should comply. Help save a life today Send this
to all responsible men and ladies who are unaware of the high risk!


Enjoy.

ahhh man, another bill for the woman to pay, kt................all de same, dis a one bill me wudden mind pay.................dwl ~</span>

[sistactry]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: FrenchTickla</div><div class="ubbcode-body">did i tell oonu dat maxine boobies more dan likely fake? </div></div>

ewwwww, so mek me ask de fake one dem have feelings??

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: FrenchTickla</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> who pines over fake boobs? maybe i shudden knock it till mi try it </div></div>

[FrenchTickla]

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wat a ting

u see how dis world heteronormative? wat about di ladies? dem can suck a bress maybe even better dan a man caw dem know di landscape and know wah feel good. smaddy need fi rewrite dat deh prescription

maybe mi can start a suhmall business fi save di breastesses!

[FrenchTickla]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SistaCtry</div><div class="ubbcode-body">ewwwww, so mek me ask de fake one dem have feelings?? </div></div>

as experienced as i am mi never play wid one

but when mi watch dem plastic surgery shows it kinda show dat dem nuh haffi lose sensitivity. dem do an incision and put di implant under di muscle. so nipple and nerves no get too damaged.

[Skelly]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: FrenchTickla</div><div class="ubbcode-body">wat a ting

u see how dis world heteronormative? wat about di ladies? dem can suck a bress maybe even better dan a man caw dem know di landscape and know wah feel good. smaddy need fi rewrite dat deh prescription

maybe mi can start a suhmall business fi save di breastesses! </div></div>

say word!

[sistactry]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Skelly</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: FrenchTickla</div><div class="ubbcode-body">wat a ting

u see how dis world heteronormative? wat about di ladies? dem can suck a bress maybe even better dan a man caw dem know di landscape and know wah feel good. smaddy need fi rewrite dat deh prescription

maybe mi can start a suhmall business fi save di breastesses! </div></div>

say word! </div></div>

DWL.....nuh tru Skelly,

from me likkle me luvvv me bressstess dem, man cant get nothing if dem no properly oiled....ahoah... DWL