black oomen divorce

[julie*mango]

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iss dere sinting wrang widd blakk oomen dat mekk dem divorce rate soo high

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soo yu seyinn dat sintinn rand widd boat blakk oomen ann blakk men. dat sund racism now dat mii tink bout dat [img]/forums/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img]

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to boot yu sexism with a racism twist

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sund like yu ave wan intarestinn toree. soo sukuna mii wanda iff yu divorce cah itt sund like yu wood ave commuikayshan issue widd a strang blakk man. yu knoo blakk mann inn a racist countree cyaan bee sexist

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Sukuna doan lissen to him becaw wen mi did a war wid mi hubby him claim is because hubby is a strong blakk man mek mi caan deal wid him den wen mi tell him seh hubby is not blakk him seh is because hubby is a weak non blakk man [img]/forums/images/graemlins/70400-talktohand.gif[/img]...him mix up like a fedda in di whirlwind [img]/forums/images/graemlins/70392-silly.gif[/img]

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wi shoulda never elect him

[/ QUOTE ] elect him to what? holder of contempt for black women?

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wat a ting. soo donnika iff a strang blakk man sey sintinn yu kno iss troo butt yu doan feel like imm ave da rite fii chatt bout itt yu juss accuse imm aff avinn cantempt fii blakk oomen. yu knoo dat defense mechanism doan wukk pon mii. soo wat yu show iss dat blakk oomen defense mechanism fii aviod da iigh rate aff blakk oomen divorce

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iss dere sinting wrang widd blakk oomen dat mekk dem divorce rate soo high

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soo yu seyinn dat sintinn rand widd boat blakk oomen ann blakk men. dat sund racism now dat mii tink bout dat [img]/forums/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img]

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to boot yu sexism with a racism twist

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sund like yu ave wan intarestinn toree. soo sukuna mii wanda iff yu divorce cah itt sund like yu wood ave commuikayshan issue widd a strang blakk man. yu knoo blakk mann inn a racist countree cyaan bee sexist

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Sukuna doan lissen to him becaw wen mi did a war wid mi hubby him claim is because hubby is a strong blakk man mek mi caan deal wid him den wen mi tell him seh hubby is not blakk him seh is because hubby is a weak non blakk man [img]/forums/images/graemlins/70400-talktohand.gif[/img]...him mix up like a fedda in di whirlwind [img]/forums/images/graemlins/70392-silly.gif[/img]

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dat cah indian man fram yaawd identeefii widd blakk mann. aftta mii see da results aff daa tests dat indian menn too small fii candoms mii affii wanda iff dem blakk.

soo sukuna doo indian oomen tink dem blakk too ar dem fraid as being classified as untouchable

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the above points are fair ones...and had you phrased the opening post in that manner you may actually have prompted a real dialogue.
but y have a go at black women?
do you really think believe the woman has to be at fault?
do you send these messages about black women to your daughter?
do you realise that you continually propagate the mzungu stereotypes about black women? yet you continually defend black men who are cold hard killers as being victims of mzungu media?
i'm starting to believe you say some of this stuff juss to get a reaction..if so its defeats your stated agenda :shrug:

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y itt badda yu soo dat mii xxamininn blakk ooman divorce prablems. yu reed da tredd dat inspired diss wann ann yu wood see y mii focus pon blakk oomen high rate aff divorce ann da lack aff stigma attached too divorce bye sum blaakk oomen.

free papa bunn lata.

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But Blu...yu see in mi tredd mi seh anyting bout coming from a divorcing family? Almost every woman dat married inna mi family wedda is a blakk man dem married to or mzungu or mutt dem is unhappily married. Mi can look pon mi granny on both sides right down to mi modda* and mi stepmodda a guess too. Dem neyn leff dem misery cuz as smaddy seh ppl love di evil weh dem know. I myself not the divorcing type but fi see perpetual unhappiness and risk of health and dem tings deh...time fi move on.

BTW mi tink yu is a misogynist dat just love run awf yu mout. Stop blame societal ills pan blakk ooman.

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skellee mii neva sey yu cum fram divorce fambilee. wat mii wass chattinn bout iss oww yu feel like fii tell yu maddar fii leff yu faddar. da reason y soo manee aff dem oomen wey married ar unappee iss learn behavior ting ann dem learn itt fram dem olda unappee married oomen inn da fambilee

[julie*mango]

Re: black oomen divorce

How can you learn to be unhappy? If your husband have a next woman out there are you supposed to smile and put up with it? [img]/forums/images/graemlins/mad.gif[/img]

[MrsBlue]

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inspired bye skellee tredd mom yu fii leave dad.


y iss itt dat blakk oomen are less likelee fii marry but dem ave a higha rate aff divorce. iss dere sinting wrang widd blakk oomen dat mekk dem divorce rate soo high

[/ QUOTE ] <font color="blue">The whole phrasing of this makes me laugh. So Black women have a high rate of divorce. Who the hell are they divorcing, themselves? </font>

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inspired bye skellee tredd mom yu fii leave dad.


y iss itt dat blakk oomen are less likelee fii marry but dem ave a higha rate aff divorce. iss dere sinting wrang widd blakk oomen dat mekk dem divorce rate soo high

[/ QUOTE ] <font color="blue">The whole phrasing of this makes me laugh. So Black women have a high rate of divorce. Who the hell are they divorcing, themselves? </font>

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wee knoo fii a fact dat moas blakk oomen marree blakk men. intarracial couple ave a higha rate aff divorce. soo itt alsoo meen sintinn wong widd intarracial ting. da ting dough iss dat blakk oomen woo divorce ar less likelee fii reemarry


soo yu tellinn mii dat prablem iss da phrasinn aff da qwestian natt dat realitee dat sintinn rang widd blakk oomen iighest rate aff divorce

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How can you learn to be unhappy? If your husband have a next woman out there are you supposed to smile and put up with it? [img]/forums/images/graemlins/mad.gif[/img]

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african menn cum fram a poleegamy histaree dat y dem more likelee fii reemarree afta deevorce. da ting iss dat blakk oomen material lifestyle decrease wen dem unhappee dat bout da addar oomen soo dem gitt deevorce. soo yu triinn fii seyy dat more blakk oomen ann blakk yuths livinn inn pavartee afta divorce leed too appee oomen ann appeee yuths

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but y have a go at black women?
do you really think believe the woman has to be at fault?
do you send these messages about black women to your daughter?
do you realise that you continually propagate the mzungu stereotypes about black women? yet you continually defend black men who are cold hard killers as being victims of mzungu media?
i'm starting to believe you say some of this stuff juss to get a reaction..if so its defeats your stated agenda :shrug:

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mzungu man sey menn ar fram mars ann ooman fram venus.

mii neva sey onlee blakk oomen ar att fault. still da fact da deevoorcee rate aff blakk oomen ar da iighest meen dat dere iss prablems widd blakk oomen divorcinn att such iigh rate

mii dawta iss veree parceptive ann mii teech ar fii look att tings criticallee. da moas important ting mii teech ar iss judge peeps bye dem actions natt wurds.

do yu reallee tink mii proogatinn mzungu sterotypes aff blakk oomen ar iss dat yu way aff avoidinn da fact da blakk oomen high rate aff divorce show sintinn wong widd blakk oomen.

yu lie wen yu sey mii defend killers woo ar blakk cah dem blakk. iff yu tekk da thyme fii reed moas aff da ting bout oj yu wood see dat imm wass innacent. moas peeps refuse fii research da eveedence soo dat y dem jump too canclusion dat itt onlee cah dem blakk menn y mii defend dem. still mii knoo dat juss yu way aff triinn fii shift da issues pon blakk menn issues

wat iss mii stated agenda

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One-third

of U.S. women's first marriages have dissolved after 10 years, either because of separation or divorce. But the rates vary considerably by ethnic group. For white women, 32 percent of their marriages have ended. For black women, the rate is higher – 47 percent. For Asian women – it's considerably lower – 20 percent

[Gen]

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inspired bye skellee tredd mom yu fii leave dad.


y iss itt dat blakk oomen are less likelee fii marry but dem ave a higha rate aff divorce. iss dere sinting wrang widd blakk oomen dat mekk dem divorce rate soo high

[/ QUOTE ] <font color="blue">The whole phrasing of this makes me laugh. So Black women have a high rate of divorce. Who the hell are they divorcing, themselves? </font>

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wee knoo fii a fact dat moas blakk oomen marree blakk men. intarracial couple ave a higha rate aff divorce. soo itt alsoo meen sintinn wong widd intarracial ting. da ting dough iss dat blakk oomen woo divorce ar less likelee fii reemarry


soo yu tellinn mii dat prablem iss da phrasinn aff da qwestian natt dat realitee dat sintinn rang widd blakk oomen iighest rate aff divorce

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OK..mi get it..so the reason why it's only black women (and not black men) who have a high rate of divorce...is because we are talking about black lesbians right ? wah mi win ..wah mi win [img]/forums/images/graemlins/bannana_purple.gif[/img]

[MrsBlue]

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wee knoo fii a fact dat moas blakk oomen marree blakk men. intarracial couple ave a higha rate aff divorce. soo itt alsoo meen sintinn wong widd intarracial ting. da ting dough iss dat blakk oomen woo divorce ar less likelee fii reemarry


soo yu tellinn mii dat prablem iss da phrasinn aff da qwestian natt dat realitee dat sintinn rang widd blakk oomen iighest rate aff divorce

[/ QUOTE ] <font color="blue">The question is phrased in a manner similar to the statement "Women are being battered." It leaves the woman all alone in the equation, as if she is the only one involved. Women aren't being battered, men are battering women. Women, Black or otherwise, are not divorcing themselves, they are divorcing their husbands, which means that men are divorcing, also.

Why should women remarry after divorcing? Some women may feel that once is enough. </font>


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How can you learn to be unhappy? If your husband have a next woman out there are you supposed to smile and put up with it? [img]/forums/images/graemlins/mad.gif[/img]

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african menn cum fram a poleegamy histaree dat y dem more likelee fii reemarree afta deevorce. da ting iss dat blakk oomen material lifestyle decrease wen dem unhappee dat bout da addar oomen soo dem gitt deevorce. soo yu triinn fii seyy dat more blakk oomen ann blakk yuths livinn inn pavartee afta divorce leed too appee oomen ann appeee yuths

[/ QUOTE ] <font color="blue">So what are you saying, that these women should not be unhappy about the other women and should just live with it? For the sake of their material lifestyle? </font>



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do yu reallee tink mii proogatinn mzungu sterotypes aff blakk oomen ar iss dat yu way aff avoidinn da fact da blakk oomen high rate aff divorce show sintinn wong widd blakk oomen.

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[MrsBlue]

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inspired bye skellee tredd mom yu fii leave dad.


y iss itt dat blakk oomen are less likelee fii marry but dem ave a higha rate aff divorce. iss dere sinting wrang widd blakk oomen dat mekk dem divorce rate soo high

[/ QUOTE ] <font color="blue">The whole phrasing of this makes me laugh. So Black women have a high rate of divorce. Who the hell are they divorcing, themselves? </font>

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wee knoo fii a fact dat moas blakk oomen marree blakk men. intarracial couple ave a higha rate aff divorce. soo itt alsoo meen sintinn wong widd intarracial ting. da ting dough iss dat blakk oomen woo divorce ar less likelee fii reemarry


soo yu tellinn mii dat prablem iss da phrasinn aff da qwestian natt dat realitee dat sintinn rang widd blakk oomen iighest rate aff divorce

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OK..mi get it..so the reason why it's only black women (and not black men) who have a high rate of divorce...is because we are talking about black lesbians right ? wah mi win ..wah mi win [img]/forums/images/graemlins/bannana_purple.gif[/img]

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woo sey it onlee blak oomen. yu gawn like mii neva mention dat moas blakk oomen marree blakk men. soo geneva y yu tink yu ann a latt aff da addar oomen pon yah a use da misaree luv companee deefense. itt like iff mii doo wan tredd bout da prablem associated widd single maddars. da oomen pon yah wood bawl itt cah da faddar ar natt inn da house. den iff mii doo wan tredd bout blakk oomen high rate aff divorce da oomen pon yah bawl sey wat bout dem blakk men. den dem runn too dem nexx defense aff sexism ar mii eight blakk oomen dat y mii sey soo.

soo yu see geneva wan aff da cause aff blakk omen high rate aff deevorce iss cah dem waan fii solelee blame blakk menn

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wee knoo fii a fact dat moas blakk oomen marree blakk men. intarracial couple ave a higha rate aff divorce. soo itt alsoo meen sintinn wong widd intarracial ting. da ting dough iss dat blakk oomen woo divorce ar less likelee fii reemarry


soo yu tellinn mii dat prablem iss da phrasinn aff da qwestian natt dat realitee dat sintinn rang widd blakk oomen iighest rate aff divorce

[/ QUOTE ] <font color="blue">The question is phrased in a manner similar to the statement "Women are being battered." It leaves the woman all alone in the equation, as if she is the only one involved. Women aren't being battered, men are battering women. Women, Black or otherwise, are not divorcing themselves, they are divorcing their husbands, which means that men are divorcing, also.

Why should women remarry after divorcing? Some women may feel that once is enough. </font>


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da battarinn qwestian intarestinn. soo tell mii y dat a latt aff battared oomen end upp inn addar battarinn relationshipps. like itt ar natt sintinn wong widd a latt aff oommen wey gitt battared.

itt natt oww da qwestian phrase dat de prablem itt iss oomen triinn fii gitt blakk men fii agree widd dem dat blakk menn ar doinn wurst ting dat y blakk oomen divorce rate soo iigh. blame da blakk menn

da qwestian iss y blakk oomen ave da higha rate aff deevorve ann lowa rate aff remarriage dan blakk men.