Den if him cyaan help yuh out weh him good fah ?

[niceniss]

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maybe cus the ooman feel seh if u sleep with har, u owe har a little sumting, sumting...
U know nutten in life is free.. [img]/forums/images/graemlins/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

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Isn't that the same as selling it?

[/ QUOTE ] no. everything comes with a price tag, whether that price is money, or comfort or needing to belong. every relationship is based on the needs of the people involved and what they think the other is able to provide for them. in some cases man want punny and woman fi take care a him, the woman might want something else namely security...

[JM1]

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everything comes with a price tag..

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Even love. **sigh**

Mi sooo glad mi off the shelf.

[Mutty]

Re: Den if him cyaan help yuh out weh him good fah ?

This proves the theory that some have put forward that relationships/marriages are nothing more than legalized prostitution.

[niceniss]

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everything comes with a price tag..

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Even love. **sigh**

Mi sooo glad mi off the shelf.

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what is love? you didn't marry your wife because she could provide you with 'love'(what adds up to love? sex, cooking and cleaning up after you? bearing your children?) those things cost her you know? what did you give her in return?

[Afrocentriclady]

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[img]/forums/images/graemlins/70388-shameonyou.gif[/img] :Rolls neck: I don't need <u>N0</u> man to pay my bills. Mmkay!

[JM1]

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you didn't marry your wife because she could provide you with 'love' ?

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Actually we married because we were, and still are, in love with each other.

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what adds up to love? sex, cooking and cleaning up after you? bearing your children?

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Not in our case. It was friendship, mutual respect, companionship, affection, shared interests, shared goals and a willingness to put up with each other's faults.

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those things cost her you know?

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She didn't, and still doesn’t, keep a running tab.

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what did you give her in return?

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See above.

[Compry]

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[MrsBlue]

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I don't put a price on my [censored] because it's priceless. Never been one to ask men for things, at least not monetary or material. I'm used to running things, so I need my man to support me, not financially, but emotionally.

Besides, men tend to feel like if they're providing material things, the [censored] is theirs. I want him to know that my [censored] is his not because he bought and paid for it, but because I choose to give it to him. </font>

[CeaBee]

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I don't put a price on my [censored] because it's priceless. Never been one to ask men for things, at least not monetary or material. I'm used to running things, so I need my man to support me, not financially, but emotionally.

Besides, men tend to feel like if they're providing material things, the [censored] is theirs. I want him to know that my [censored] is his not because he bought and paid for it, but because I choose to give it to him. </font>

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[img]/forums/images/graemlins/ooo.gif[/img].. wid di [censored]

[niceniss]

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you didn't marry your wife because she could provide you with 'love' ?

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Actually we married because we were, and still are, in love with each other.

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what adds up to love? sex, cooking and cleaning up after you? bearing your children?

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Not in our case. It was friendship, mutual respect, companionship, affection, shared interests, shared goals and a willingness to put up with each other's faults.

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those things cost her you know?

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She didn't, and still doesn’t, keep a running tab.

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what did you give her in return?

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See above.

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ah love! so indefinable... or is it? you love her and not the women you dated before, no? what does she have that the others didn't? what did you have that other fellas didnt?

reread your post and this <font color="blue"> It was friendship, mutual respect, companionship, affection, shared interests, shared goals and a willingness to put up with each other's faults.
</font> sounds like a transaction to me. once someone decides that they can no longer give affection or respect or whatever, then that person breaks the contract...

[MrsBlue]

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[niceniss]

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<font color="blue"> [img]/forums/images/graemlins/70402-thinking.gif[/img]

I don't put a price on my [censored] because it's priceless. Never been one to ask men for things, at least not monetary or material. I'm used to running things, so I need my man to support me, not financially, but emotionally.

Besides, men tend to feel like if they're providing material things, the [censored] is theirs. I want him to know that my [censored] is his not because he bought and paid for it, but because I choose to give it to him. </font>

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so you need him to provide something for you: emotional support and in exchange he gets your censored. isn't that still something for something?

or is it because some women state that they need financial support their cost factor less noble?

[MrsBlue]

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<font color="blue"> [img]/forums/images/graemlins/70402-thinking.gif[/img]

I don't put a price on my [censored] because it's priceless. Never been one to ask men for things, at least not monetary or material. I'm used to running things, so I need my man to support me, not financially, but emotionally.

Besides, men tend to feel like if they're providing material things, the [censored] is theirs. I want him to know that my [censored] is his not because he bought and paid for it, but because I choose to give it to him. </font>

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so you need him to provide something for you: emotional support and in exchange he gets your censored. isn't that still something for something?

or is it because some women state that they need financial support their cost factor less noble?

[/ QUOTE ] <font color="blue"> [img]/forums/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img] @ he gets your censored.

Nope, not saying it's less noble. Some women do need financial support, not necessarily because they're not contributing but because it's just too damn hard on one income. I'm saying how I choose to move.

Some women can put a price tag (financial) on their censored and do it well. It works for them. It doesn't for me. It is what it is. </font>

[niceniss]

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aye sometimes that doesnt work for some women 'cause they end up with useless spoiled men who have no clue how to be responsible and male children particularly need to learn responsibility...

[JM1]

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you love her and not the women you dated before, no?

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Never spent a lot of time thinking about that.

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what does she have that the others didn't?

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Moi.

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what did you have that other fellas didnt?

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Her

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reread your post and this It was friendship, mutual respect, companionship, affection, shared interests, shared goals and a willingness to put up with each other's faults.
sounds like a transaction to me.

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Depends on how cynical you want to be about relationships.