Is love that

[Skelly]

<span style="text-decoration: line-through">strong </span>blind?

Have a family member...deh wid her baby father from she was 14. Have first child at 15. Den many years later have the 2nd. While she was pregnant wid di 2nd him get a next woman pregnant an di babies born days apart. She had a boy. Di woman had a girl. But anyways after di fighting and what not she get him to tek di girl from di woman an she raising di chile as her own. Di guy not working and is him look after di pickney dem (3) while she out working. When she come home him gone run street. Now dem jus get married wah day and I just smh...

[diabolical_Tanya]

Re: Is love that

Why so harsh Skelly?, Maybe he accidentally fell on the other woman and got her pregnant

[Skelly]

Re: Is love that

a crackhead at that?

[Gen]

Re: Is love that

Shake yuh head and keep it moving-nothing yuh can do

[diabolical_Tanya]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Skelly</div><div class="ubbcode-body">a crackhead at that? </div></div>ahhhh that explains it, she was passed out from the crack and he slipped and fell

[DearK]

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you are really earning your name Diabolical_Tanya

SKelly- why do u think the husband agreed togetting marrried at this late date?

[Peasie]

Re: Is love that

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Gen</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Shake yuh head and keep it moving-nothing yuh can do </div></div>

true ting dis

[Tulip]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Dear K</div><div class="ubbcode-body">you are really earning your name Diabolical_Tanya

SKelly- <span style="font-weight: bold">why do u think the husband agreed togetting marrried at this late date? </span></div></div>

Health insurance and various other benefits of people who have a day job

[Skelly]

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him claim him nuh waan lose her..i wudden waan lose her too...she a good woman...deh wid one man her whole lfie...

[kia027]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Skelly</div><div class="ubbcode-body">him claim him nuh waan lose her..i wudden waan lose her too...she a good woman...deh wid one man her whole lfie... </div></div>

maybe she feel seh no man would want ar since she is no longer a virgin? so she stick wid im

how is he doing as a stay at home dad? Is he great at it?

[Skelly]

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er...he's there i guess but is the oldest child who is now 12 have to be taking care of the babies...as she come home from sch him run gone a road dump di kids pan her til mom come

[kia027]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Skelly</div><div class="ubbcode-body">er...he's there i guess but is the oldest child who is now 12 have to be taking care of the babies...as she come home from sch him run gone a road dump di kids pan her til mom come </div></div>

ok not so mr Mom because he would know that HW have to be supervised and ting

so him is daycare provider basically

[Lacy]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
Have a family member...deh wid her baby father from she was 14. Have child at 15. Den many years later have the 2nd. While she was pregnant wid di 2nd him get a next woman pregnant an di babies born days apart. She had a boy. Di woman had a girl. </div></div>

How many years later seems to be relevant. They were a couple when they were young--they drifted apart-- got back together-- had a second child. ( Both were in their 20s then?) The man had &quot;something on the side&quot; that resulted in a child being born. But, they &quot;collectively decided&quot; to hook back up (physically, emotionally and financially) and raise their &quot;collective&quot; children together--including this other woman's child.

I would have a hard time accepting the responsibly of providing for another woman's child without a financial commitment from the father (ei: JOB) But--- if I already decided that this was what I was willing to do, I guess I might perceive this arrangement in a different light.

In the man's defense---after spending 8-12 consecutive hours with 3 kids of various pre-adolescent ages, even *I* would need a break. Now, *how* that &quot;break&quot; is spent seems totally up to the woman.

[sistactry]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Skelly</div><div class="ubbcode-body">er...he's there i guess but is the oldest child who is now 12 have to be taking care of the babies...as she come home from sch him run gone a road dump di kids pan her til mom come </div></div>

not a baxside, if u go a road u better come home wid $$$$$$,

if u come back in yaa wid no seed, u and dat ish a tan a road,

(once i could see her forgiving him and moving on, and she good fe tek in de baby, but no mind, god we bless her fe it, but not working, not a baxside, if a even fe go sweep sidewalk, i cant tek a bruk pocket man)

[sistactry]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Skelly</div><div class="ubbcode-body">him claim him nuh waan lose her..i wudden waan lose her too...she a good woman...deh wid one man her whole lfie... </div></div>

mek him gwaan man, one day a good man gween buck her up, and dawg yammm fe him supper....

but u know say a dem man yaa end up a go crazy when de ooman finally get fed up and leff dem, ohhh brother