sintinn wrang widd battered oomen

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like itt ar natt sintinn wong widd a latt aff oommen wey gitt battared.

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"A victim of domestic violence may act in ways that seem incomprehensible to people not aware of the dynamics of abuse. Many people believe that the victim of violence must somehow have invited it, encouraged it, or even found some kind of satisfaction from it."

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[Pepper]

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What would you say is 'wrong' with them?

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iss dear sintinn wrang widd battared oomen? doo battared oomen deserved annee aff da blame

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What would you say is 'wrong' with them?

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iff a yuth gitt licks fram dem parents peeps wood ask y da parents give dem licks instead aff seyinn dat de parents ave noo reason? wen oomen gitt licks peeps automaticallee blame da man even dough dem knoo dat oomen sumtime insteegate.

[Pepper]

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Blu, I can't think of any reason/scenario/situation where it would be ok for someone to hit their partner.

[natilee25]

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What would you say is 'wrong' with them?

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iff a yuth gitt licks fram dem parents peeps wood ask y da parents give dem licks instead aff seyinn dat de parents ave noo reason? wen oomen gitt licks peeps automaticallee blame da man even dough dem knoo dat oomen sumtime insteegate.

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Some people have different methods of disciplining and raring their children. When children misbehave some parents use words, time out or some would apply the old fashion butt whipping. Parents use these form of punishment as methods of controlling and molding their children into what they want them to be…yuh know keep dem in line.

Now as for a man disciplining his wife/girlfriend, that is a BIG NO NO. He is not her father. She is already grown. Any man who hits a woman is a weak individual who doesn’t know how to express himself other than through violence. Yes, some women can be very aggregating. But if you are not man enough to calm her down when she gets like that without raising your fist then you need to leave that woman because its obvious that you are man enough for HER. You need to find someone else that you are more compatible with.

[ohliz]

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Now as for a man disciplining his wife/girlfriend, that is a BIG NO NO. He is not her father. She is already grown. Any man who hits a woman is a weak individual who doesn’t know how to express himself other than through violence. Yes, some women can be very aggregating. But if you are not man enough to calm her down when she gets like that without raising your fist then you need to leave that woman because its obvious that you are man enough for HER. You need to find someone else that you are more compatible with.

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Yes indeed. if you can't USE WORDS (like I tell my kids) then you shouldn't be there....no excuse to get physical, none at all.

[natilee25]

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Now as for a man disciplining his wife/girlfriend, that is a BIG NO NO. He is not her father. She is already grown. Any man who hits a woman is a weak individual who doesn’t know how to express himself other than through violence. Yes, some women can be very aggregating. But if you are not man enough to calm her down when she gets like that without raising your fist then you need to leave that woman because its obvious that you are man enough for HER. You need to find someone else that you are more compatible with.

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Yes indeed. if you can't USE WORDS (like I tell my kids) then you shouldn't be there....no excuse to get physical, none at all.

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[JM1]

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What would you say is 'wrong' with them?

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iff a yuth gitt licks fram dem parents peeps wood ask y da parents give dem licks instead aff seyinn dat de parents ave noo reason? wen oomen gitt licks peeps automaticallee blame da man even dough dem knoo dat oomen sumtime insteegate.

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So women who are beaten to a pulp, set on fire, their bones broken, burned with acid, shot, and murdered are just like misbehaving children who deserve what's coming to them ?

[niceniss]

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What would you say is 'wrong' with them?

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iff a yuth gitt licks fram dem parents peeps wood ask y da parents give dem licks instead aff seyinn dat de parents ave noo reason? wen oomen gitt licks peeps automaticallee blame da man even dough dem knoo dat oomen sumtime insteegate.

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So women who are beaten to a pulp, set on fire, their bones broken, burned with acid, shot, and murdered are just like misbehaving children who deserve what's coming to them ?

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shake me head to rhatid. yuh know say me did even generous enough fi think him might mean woman who stay with men after the first beaten to the point of being constantly abused my have low self-esteem? [img]/forums/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img]

no sah! blu, yuh try noh impart dem nonsence to ppl pickney [img]/forums/images/graemlins/smirk.gif[/img]

[kia027]

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no. something is wrong with the person battering the woman.
The batterer has no self love therefore projects it onto a target- if it is a man, then his woman and kids are the targets

[Compry]

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I'm giving you the benefit of the doubt that you are merely asking a question to start a dialogue on the top. Despite some of the mind-blowing stuff that you've written on this site, I will give you the benefit of the doubt that there is no way you believe that a victim (woman or man) deserves to be beaten by their partners.

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I'm giving you the benefit of the doubt that you are merely asking a question to start a dialogue on the top. Despite some of the mind-blowing stuff that you've written on this site, I will give you the benefit of the doubt that there is no way you believe that a victim (woman or man) deserves to be beaten by their partners.

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compry mii neva knoo mii blow yu mine sumtime. sooanwsa da qwestian ann stapptrii fii mekk diss bout mii. oomen dat yu kno dat gitt battared doo yu sinnting wrang widd dem

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I'm giving you the benefit of the doubt that you are merely asking a question to start a dialogue on the top. Despite some of the mind-blowing stuff that you've written on this site, I will give you the benefit of the doubt that there is no way you believe that a victim (woman or man) deserves to be beaten by their partners.

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compry mii neva knoo mii blow yu mine sumtime. sooanwsa da qwestian ann stapptrii fii mekk diss bout mii. oomen dat yu kno dat gitt battared doo yu sinnting wrang widd dem

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No. However if they allow the man to do it a second time, there is definitely something wrong with them. Goes for the men who are beaten as well.

What do you think? Is something wrong with men who get beaten by their women?

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Now as for a man disciplining his wife/girlfriend, that is a BIG NO NO. He is not her father. She is already grown. Any man who hits a woman is a weak individual who doesn’t know how to express himself other than through violence. Yes, some women can be very aggregating. But if you are not man enough to calm her down when she gets like that without raising your fist then you need to leave that woman because its obvious that you are man enough for HER. You need to find someone else that you are more compatible with.

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soo yu feel itt da mam respanseebilleetee fii calm a grown ooman down. moas studee showw dat oomen ar juss as likelee as menn fii battar butt cah menn hitt arda dem doo more damage. watt diss showw iss dat a latt battared oomen battar too soo yu beeleeve dat itt da mann wey need fii learn cantrol