Baby mama, mama drama

[7777]

dat means, baby mama, *mother* and daughter coming to the new wife's house fe a visit..
Would you allow her presence de mother's mother of the woman who had your baby - knowing that she never liked you nor har daughter being together, and she gave u hell...
all call police pon you and put u inna jail....
or would u just allow the grandmother and your daughter to visit and let bygones be by bygones..
Tuff one , me know.. [img]/forums/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]

[Tanesha]

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well I would allow the visit...an be cordial...that's it....family is family good and bad and if im love dis ooman im haffi try fi get along wid har madda

[7777]

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him not with the ooman..
dis relationship is history..
him is with the new wife...
and dis is the mother of his exgirlfriend and his daughter visiting..
aka..
baby mama -his ex
mama - grandmother
drama [img]/forums/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

[Tanesha]

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a hoooe...I see said di blind...den hell to di no.....mi might all dash dutty wata pan har...not fimi house nope

[MrsBlue]

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<font color="blue">All of them? Why? Obviously the child, and I can even see the baby's mother. But why the baby's grandmother? Nope. </font>

[butterflydiva]

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dat means, baby mama, *mother* and daughter coming to the new wife's house fe a visit..
Would you allow her presence de mother's mother of the woman who had your baby - knowing that she never liked you nor har daughter being together, and she gave u hell...
all call police pon you and put u inna jail....
or would u just allow the grandmother and your daughter to visit and let bygones be by bygones..
Tuff one , me know.. [img]/forums/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]

[/ QUOTE ] I would be adult about the situation. Let her mother come she just wants to be nosy and see if you are doing better or worse without her daughter(hopefully better)She'll probaly be so green with jealousy she won't stay long. [img]/forums/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]

[MrsBlue]

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<font color="blue">I guess you're asking the men, from their perspective. My answer was from the wife's perspective. </font>

[DearK]

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The grandmother came uninvited, or was she the one dropping off the child?

Has grandmother shown any remorse for past actions? This is when I would accept her in my home, otherwise, it might be best to collect child at a public location...

[Yvonne N.]

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dat means, baby mama, *mother* and daughter coming to the new wife's house fe a visit..
Would you allow her presence de mother's mother of the woman who had your baby - knowing that she never liked you nor har daughter being together, and she gave u hell...
all call police pon you and put u inna jail....
or would u just allow the grandmother and your daughter to visit and let bygones be by bygones..
Tuff one , me know.. [img]/forums/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]

[/ QUOTE ] I would be adult about the situation. Let her mother come she just wants to be nosy and see if you are doing better or worse without her daughter(hopefully better)She'll probaly be so green with jealousy she won't stay long. [img]/forums/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]

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Sevens: why grandma haffi eena it?

[7777]

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the child is now 27 years old, and the grandmother is the mother of the exgirlfirend...

[MrsBlue]

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<font color="blue">27? Oh, hell no, then even the baby's mother has no reason to be in my house. Unless we've had a great relationship and have become something close to friends over time.

You're saying that it's the grandmother that was kind of nasty in the past, so that doesn't mean that the mother was, too. I can see getting along with the baby's mother. But I can't see putting up with the grandmother if she's nasty to my husband. </font>

[Nunya]

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If the 'child' is now 27, I would assume that all the animosity was years ago, ah mean, like prolly two decades ago... a lifetime dat man...

So doah it did hot at de time, him should be de bigger man an let it go... what's the point of holding onto a grudge fi so long??? flippin heck...

[Venn]

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oh hell naah,, a coulda 10 lifetimes agoh yuh naah set foot inna fi my house [img]/forums/images/graemlins/mad.gif[/img] but den das jus me, I noh figive nar figet easily [img]/forums/images/graemlins/ooo.gif[/img]

[Nunya]

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Ten years ago, mi prolly woulda say dat to. But as mi get older, mi find say mi ha less strent fi hol on to grudge...

An consider: whappen if she did come visit as an 'olive branch'???? [img]/forums/images/graemlins/70402-thinking.gif[/img]

[7777]

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yes granny come too, cus de child (27 years old now) and granny wainya drive from Florida to NY to visit har mother..
so a guess dats why dem stop by the *father*..

me friend tell me seh granny (the exgirlfriends mother) asked so..
"a how big dis house be?* aka..
how many rooms inna ya soh.. [img]/forums/images/graemlins/704555_dwl.gif[/img]
Me tell me friend seh a *tour* she wayna look..
Me friend tell me seh, the ooman (granny) upon leaving, tun on the dinning room lite, and proceeded fe *look round* de dining room, as it did by the front door, and she never get tour of the bedrooms, I guess....
How rude.. [img]/forums/images/graemlins/blush.gif[/img]
I tink I woulda haffe pitch har out..