sex widd sleepinn wifee

**dahjah** · 01-09-2007, 06:39 PM

Re: sex widd sleepinn wifee

unno cyan bring sum sintins inna dis ee [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img]

a weh shawt shi did drugged? an a dat yuh waan duh tuh de man, unno mekk mi laff [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

unno couldn't guh a court needah [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

**ILP** · 01-09-2007, 07:38 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Emperah_dahJah</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: iluvportland</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Dahjah I noticed that you still didnt answer the question. Yes the woman is an idiot for continue to sleep in the bed with the man (at least I think so). But we dont know if she did/or did not do so. For all we know she moved to another bedroom or to the sofa.

I do not want to put words in your mouth and say that you are implying something that you are not.

Dahjah...I have observed that you are a man who likes to play Devil's Advocate just for the hell of it and I can appreciate that, as I am that way too. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img] Surely you understand that this man has committed a crime. The crime of one, being an idiot. Two, the crime of of being a hard head. And three, a crime, as it is defined by law (btw: thanks for posting the statute for us) [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img]

The woman in this story is person. The law as it is written (and so nicely posted by Mr. Dahjah) [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img], says that any person that is not given the opportunity to decline sex and is in turn made to have it, is being raped. Period. It is just a shame that the person doing these acts is this woman's "husband". Now by the law (that Mr. Dahjah has nicely posted for us), he will be painted with the same brush that people who jumped out of bushes, and put things into drinks, and the like are painted with. And to think it could all be avoided if he just woke her up...eediat man daht [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img] </div></div>
Tell yuh sistah fi come poas fi harself. Even by the law which yuh an yuh sistah twiss fi unno self [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/grin.gif[/img] she cyaan win cah shi continue fi put harself back in de situation.
I hope we can really find out wah happen in dis case though. </div></div>

I hope we find out what happens in this case as well. They will never use her name bacause it involves an alleged sexual assault. Maybe one day when I have nothing to do, I will look it up [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

Now to move into my last post on this topic. I went back and re-read ALL 7+ pages of post (lawd oonnu can chat) and I realized a few things.

You said:
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Emperah_dahJah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I am not condoning wah de man a duh aftah de ooman neh like it.</div></div>
and this (in the same post):
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Emperah_dahJah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Some fawm a sexual misconduct went on,</div></div>
in a subsequent post you said (in reference to your post on US statutes on rape and sexual assault):
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Emperah_dahJah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">wah yuh highlight is considered rape anywhere </div></div>

Dahjah, now that I understand that this is a far as you will go in admitting that this man is culpable for his actions, that will have to be enough for me. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img] and that is cool [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/cool.gif[/img]

Now I am not sure what you mean by telling me to deliver a message to my sister (sigh) and PLEASE do not answer because it may ruin any good feelings that I have for you (as mi love yuh Dahjah like mi love cook food [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70377-loveeyes.gif[/img]). I simply asked you twice to answer a question and two times you have chosen not to do so, which is all the answer that I need.

I asked my sister to simply tell me what the law in MD was as it related to the article that Blu originally posted. I posted what she said. I surmised that is why the man was arrested in the first place. I never told you that my sister was going to adjudicate the case or her win/loss ratio. I dont know that information (although I could probably find out...actually I dont care). I am not sure why you think that I dont have my own mind and thoughts (which I feel like you have implied in your post), but I do.

I am not sure why you feel I have twisted what you have posted, and PLEASE dont tell me why (again ah di love ting mi feel fah you). This wasnt (at least for me) about going to court and winning. It is about the fact this man AND woman had to be taught a life lesson that the heavens felt they needed to learn, it is just a shame that the consequences for this lesson will be long lasting. But I guess that is the point, huh?

**dahjah** · 01-09-2007, 07:48 PM

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a baddah mi a baddah yuh bout yuh sistah.
Anyone who cyan bunn as much fiyah as yuh muss ha mind a dem own [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

yes, consequences involved in a certain outcame outweigh the conduct by far.

**Q3210** · 01-10-2007, 12:18 AM

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I dont know if its the cold or the warm January, but when you call she an it and in your humour you insinuate that it belongs to you, god it is you that needs more than just a drink.
I like how you dismiss me by sending me go have another drink which I never had in the first place.

**niceniss** · 01-10-2007, 12:32 AM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Emperah_dahJah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">outta everyting mi seh, a dis yuh choose fe highlite ee? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img] </div></div> forgive this simple mind, but I did'nt realized that a marriage contract between a man and a woman meant that the woman is now the personal sex toy of the man... my bad [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smile.gif[/img]

**Bink - the Only** · 01-10-2007, 01:09 AM

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you know? i was there. my future exhusband who was sleeping in another bedroom came in while i was sound asleep and hitched me up and took his way with me. unfortunately, i let it happen (after awaking) because i was scared.

do you men hear that? scared! if he could do this, what else might he do.

after it was over and he crawled back to his own bed, my anger took hold. i marched in there and told him he had just raped me. and, plain and simple it was rape. if i am not a willing partner, it is rape.

it concerns me that this is even up for discussion in 2007.

**blugiant** · 01-10-2007, 02:05 AM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: bink</div><div class="ubbcode-body">you know? i was there. my future exhusband who was sleeping in another bedroom came in while i was sound asleep and hitched me up and took his way with me. unfortunately, i let it happen (after awaking) because i was scared.

do you men hear that? scared! if he could do this, what else might he do.

after it was over and he crawled back to his own bed, my anger took hold. i marched in there and told him he had just raped me. and, plain and simple it was rape. if i am not a willing partner, it is rape.

it concerns me that this is even up for discussion in 2007. </div></div>

bink yaawd style ting iss dat imm a mann gitt outta addar yu tell fii yu relatives fii goo chatt too imm bout itt cah wee doan defend rapist. still sex tings between husband ann wifee iss a likkle more campleecated

da discussion dat goinn onn air dat disturbinn da oomen pon yah iss dat marital rape(sexual assualt) ann rape outside aff marriage a too diffarant tings. itt natt a simplee as marital rape is rape. even iff da husband iss found guiltee aff sexuallee assuatinn imm wifee imm gitt lessa punishment. da addar qwestian iss iff wifee ar usinn da marital rape as da pretext fii kick da man outta da ouse

**blugiant** · 01-10-2007, 02:08 AM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: justblue</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> <span style="color: #000099"> <span style='font-family: Arial'>I completely agree with you, dahJah. This should never be in court.

The first time it happened, she was to say, "No, I don't like that, please don't do that."

The second time it happened, she was to say, "I told you I don't like that and asked you not to do that. Please don't do it again or I'm going to be very upset."

The third time it happened, she was to reach between his legs, grip his penis in a firm but loving way and twist it into a basic knot -nothing fancy- and say, "When you finish untying it, please remove your belongings from the front lawn -where she will be placing them shortly- and find yourself another place to sleep."

Of course, the third time didn't have to go that way. The alternate version of the third time would have found the wife tying her sleeping husband's hands to the headboard, then oiling up the largest dildo she could purchase and preparing to find out how HE likes it while he's unconscious. (And you know she cares because she took the time to oil it first.)

Either of these scenarios would have made a messy court case completely unnecessary.</span> </span> </div></div>

soo y wifee doan vacate da prapartee

**blugiant** · 01-10-2007, 02:16 AM

Re: sex widd sleepinn wifee

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: iluvportland</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: blugiant</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Q3210</div><div class="ubbcode-body">prison may or may not have been at the back of her mind, but definitely she was calling out for a restraint on him.

I get your reasoning blu. But we haven`t heard a denial nor the guys side of the story. </div></div>

dat watt mii chattinn bout watt mekk da husband goo too da xxxtreme. mii wanda iff da ooman became frigid afta dem married cah itt look like dat wifee wass widdholdinn sex fii cantrol ar husband </div></div>

Go back and reread the article you posted. The article never said she said I dont want to have sex. It said she just asked that he wake her up first [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img] </div></div>

dat natt watt da artikkle sedd

**Bink - the Only** · 01-10-2007, 02:26 AM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: blugiant</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: bink</div><div class="ubbcode-body">you know? i was there. my future exhusband who was sleeping in another bedroom came in while i was sound asleep and hitched me up and took his way with me. unfortunately, i let it happen (after awaking) because i was scared.

do you men hear that? scared! if he could do this, what else might he do.

after it was over and he crawled back to his own bed, my anger took hold. i marched in there and told him he had just raped me. and, plain and simple it was rape. if i am not a willing partner, it is rape.

it concerns me that this is even up for discussion in 2007. </div></div>

bink yaawd style ting iss dat imm a mann gitt outta addar yu tell fii yu relatives fii goo chatt too imm bout itt cah wee doan defend rapist. still sex tings between husband ann wifee iss a likkle more campleecated

da discussion dat goinn onn air dat disturbinn da oomen pon yah iss dat marital rape(sexual assualt) ann rape outside aff marriage a too diffarant tings. itt natt a simplee as marital rape is rape. even iff da husband iss found guiltee aff sexuallee assuatinn imm wifee imm gitt lessa punishment. da addar qwestian iss iff wifee ar usinn da marital rape as da pretext fii kick da man outta da ouse </div></div>

yard style means nothing to me. the one i spoke of in the prior post was a yardie.

NO means NO. why is that so hard to understand?

**MrsBlue** · 01-10-2007, 02:42 AM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: blugiant</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: justblue</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> <span style="color: #000099"> <span style='font-family: Arial'>I completely agree with you, dahJah. This should never be in court.

The first time it happened, she was to say, "No, I don't like that, please don't do that."

The second time it happened, she was to say, "I told you I don't like that and asked you not to do that. Please don't do it again or I'm going to be very upset."

The third time it happened, she was to reach between his legs, grip his penis in a firm but loving way and twist it into a basic knot -nothing fancy- and say, "When you finish untying it, please remove your belongings from the front lawn -where she will be placing them shortly- and find yourself another place to sleep."

Of course, the third time didn't have to go that way. The alternate version of the third time would have found the wife tying her sleeping husband's hands to the headboard, then oiling up the largest dildo she could purchase and preparing to find out how HE likes it while he's unconscious. (And you know she cares because she took the time to oil it first.)

Either of these scenarios would have made a messy court case completely unnecessary.</span> </span> </div></div>

soo y wifee doan vacate da prapartee </div></div> <span style="color: #000099"> <span style='font-family: Arial'>That could have been option three. Personally, I prefer one of the other two. It seems to me that she is the one that has been violated (call it whatever you want, it's a violation) so why should she be the one that is displaced?

Had it been me? Well, I'm very creative, so let's just say there would be some pain(on his part) involved and leave it at that. </span> </span>

**tsophra** · 01-10-2007, 03:08 AM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: bink</div><div class="ubbcode-body">you know? i was there. my future exhusband who was sleeping in another bedroom came in while i was sound asleep and hitched me up and took his way with me. unfortunately, i let it happen (after awaking) because i was scared.

do you men hear that? scared! if he could do this, what else might he do.

after it was over and he crawled back to his own bed, my anger took hold. i marched in there and told him he had just raped me. and, plain and simple it was rape. if i am not a willing partner, it is rape.

it concerns me that this is even up for discussion in 2007. </div></div>

Bink..I'm curious..did you still marry him?

no way in heck would I stay with someone I'm afraid of.. under any conditions

**fraggie** · 01-10-2007, 05:43 AM

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There is meny who don't know the reason and wonder why she live with fearing someone.

I guest she have her reason, I undestand whatever that hold both of you together it must be a good thing regardless of all the other bad things.

I am sure there are meny good things as well.

**dahjah** · 01-10-2007, 07:52 AM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Donnika</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Emperah_dahJah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">outta everyting mi seh, a dis yuh choose fe highlite ee? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img] </div></div> forgive this simple mind, but I did'nt realized that a marriage contract between a man and a woman meant that the woman is now the personal sex toy of the man... my bad [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smile.gif[/img] </div></div>
I do forgive you, an Q aswell. I have posted nuff in here and an de two a unno an suesumba pick mi one line fi sumize de whool a it. A statement dat obviously means many different tings to different ppl.

If two agree yes they would be each oddaz personal sex toys.

speaking personally now "if" mi get married she will be "MY" wife and I will be "HER" husband. a legal and binding contract entered into by two of ownership of each other and all that go with it (unless there is a prenup). Talk of two becoming one, walking together, being each others best friend, doing almost everything together. Yes that is ownership.

i don't know what kind of sick way unno believe ownership in marriage is, but to me it is not bondage. Dat was a totally sarcastic statement but a dat unno choose fi run wid but unno nah nuttin fi seh bout de oddah ting dem mi pint out een ya. Becah unno world mek up wid babylonian thoughts that's why unno cyaan si seh marriage can be and is ownership.

We've all said...my woman, my man, my child, my cyaar, dat a nuh ownership? And Usually ppl repek wah dem own except for twisted fools like dis.

Have unno not heard weh dem seh "bone of my bone, flesh of my flesh" ?? Is dat some kind of sick twisted meaning tuh unno tuh?

**dahjah** · 01-10-2007, 07:57 AM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: bink</div><div class="ubbcode-body">you know? i was there. my future exhusband who was sleeping in another bedroom came in while i was sound asleep and hitched me up and took his way with me. unfortunately, i let it happen (after awaking) because i was scared.

do you men hear that? scared! if he could do this, what else might he do.

after it was over and he crawled back to his own bed, my anger took hold. i marched in there and told him he had just raped me. and, plain and simple it was rape. if i am not a willing partner, it is rape.

it concerns me that this is even up for discussion in 2007. </div></div>
unless a woman has asked he man to do this, mi nuh kno how a man can dweet suh. But bink you did let him kno straight away. What happened after that, did he continue wid de foolishness?

sex widd sleepinn wifee

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