Is it ok

[DearK]

for someone to throw things when angry? He/she doesnt hit, but when tempers flare, somethings getting flung across the other end of the room, or maybe a wall punched, or table slammed. Otherwise this person is passionate, loving and full of life. How to deal with this?

[missus_vegas]

Re: Is it ok

i could not deal wid dat i cry if smaddy raise dem voice much less. to me if dem ago fling tings is me or mi pickney next dem gwine fling. mi very scared of aggressive and aggressive looking men. mi fraid a beating from mi a likkle pickney. no babah.

[sistactry]

Re: Is it ok

fe real,

so me say to, next dem a go waan fling me, and me no able, noooo sah,

dem sound like dem have split personality bout loving and kind, noooo sah

[RichD]

Re: Is it ok

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Dear K</div><div class="ubbcode-body">for someone to throw things when angry? He/she doesnt hit, but when tempers flare, somethings getting flung across the other end of the room, or maybe a wall punched, or table slammed. Otherwise this person is passionate, loving and full of life. How to deal with this? </div></div>

i think those would be significant warning signs of potential problems in the future.

they might not hit now because these are &quot;small&quot; arguments...when big issues arise it probably will escalate.

demonstrated a lack of control which is never good. they need to understand themself...

[R_C]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Dear K</div><div class="ubbcode-body">for someone to throw things when angry? He/she doesnt hit, but when tempers flare, somethings getting flung across the other end of the room, or maybe a wall punched, or table slammed. Otherwise this person is passionate, loving and full of life. How to deal with this? </div></div>

only if that &quot;someone&quot; is 2 years old....and even then..

[missus_vegas]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: R_C</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Dear K</div><div class="ubbcode-body">for someone to throw things when angry? He/she doesnt hit, but when tempers flare, somethings getting flung across the other end of the room, or maybe a wall punched, or table slammed. Otherwise this person is passionate, loving and full of life. How to deal with this? </div></div>

only if that &quot;someone&quot; is 2 years old....and even then..

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no kidding

[diabolical_Tanya]

Re: Is it ok

lawd the other days I had a VERY frustrating convo on the phone with a vendor and I was soooooo PIST I threw what was in my hand

It was a one sheet contract what an impotent feeling my boss who was standing in the doorway laugh till him nearly choke

[DearK]

Re: Is it ok

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: RichD</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Dear K</div><div class="ubbcode-body">for someone to throw things when angry? He/she doesnt hit, but when tempers flare, somethings getting flung across the other end of the room, or maybe a wall punched, or table slammed. Otherwise this person is passionate, loving and full of life. How to deal with this? </div></div>

i think those would be significant warning signs of potential problems in the future.

they might not hit now because these are &quot;small&quot; arguments...when big issues arise it probably will escalate.

demonstrated a lack of control which is never good. they need to understand themself... </div></div>

I wondered about the question when watching the news and I saw a baseball player throw his water bottle in frustration. Is it ok when it's sports? And then today I saw a football coach throw a helmet to the ground. Aside from the fact that I need to stop watching sports what message is this sending to the public? Because it seems we accept this behavior from athletes- do you think they are prone to such outbursts at home too?

[DearK]

Re: Is it ok

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: R_C</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Dear K</div><div class="ubbcode-body">for someone to throw things when angry? He/she doesnt hit, but when tempers flare, somethings getting flung across the other end of the room, or maybe a wall punched, or table slammed. Otherwise this person is passionate, loving and full of life. How to deal with this? </div></div>

only if that &quot;someone&quot; is 2 years old....and even then..

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what do you think of the athletes? Although maybe thats not fair, maybe they're more invested in the game, and so have stronger reactions there. Maybe theres nothing at home that would make their blood boil to that degree?

[DearK]

Re: Is it ok

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: diabolical_Tanya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">lawd the other days I had a VERY frustrating convo on the phone with a vendor and I was soooooo PIST I threw what was in my hand

It was a one sheet contract what an impotent feeling my boss who was standing in the doorway laugh till him nearly choke </div></div>


ONE sheet??! Not even like a couple pages so it could rain? oooh Did you crumple the paper to get some distance on it? :hope:

[diabolical_Tanya]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Dear K</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: diabolical_Tanya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">lawd the other days I had a VERY frustrating convo on the phone with a vendor and I was soooooo PIST I threw what was in my hand

It was a one sheet contract what an impotent feeling my boss who was standing in the doorway laugh till him nearly choke </div></div>


ONE sheet??! Not even like a couple pages so it could rain? oooh Did you crumple the paper to get some distance on it? :hope: </div></div>the only part of it that was crumpled was where I was holding it, di ting just float to the ground like a feather

[DearK]

Re: Is it ok

Noooooo!!! and probably a short time to sashay to the floor.

[kia027]

Re: Is it ok

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Dear K</div><div class="ubbcode-body">for someone to throw things when angry? He/she doesnt hit, but when tempers flare, somethings getting flung across the other end of the room, or maybe a wall punched, or table slammed. Otherwise this person is passionate, loving and full of life. How to deal with this? </div></div>

do they do it all the time or just once?

one time smaddy got me mad enough to fling wata in dem face so I know it can happen

how to deal wid it?
Therapy

[Peasie]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Dear K</div><div class="ubbcode-body">for someone to throw things when angry? He/she doesnt hit, but when tempers flare, somethings getting flung across the other end of the room, or maybe a wall punched, or table slammed. Otherwise this person is passionate, loving and full of life. <span style="font-weight: bold">How to deal with this?</span> </div></div>

Encourage this person to masturbate.

[RichD]

Re: Is it ok

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Dear K</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: RichD</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Dear K</div><div class="ubbcode-body">for someone to throw things when angry? He/she doesnt hit, but when tempers flare, somethings getting flung across the other end of the room, or maybe a wall punched, or table slammed. Otherwise this person is passionate, loving and full of life. How to deal with this? </div></div>

i think those would be significant warning signs of potential problems in the future.

they might not hit now because these are &quot;small&quot; arguments...when big issues arise it probably will escalate.

demonstrated a lack of control which is never good. they need to understand themself... </div></div>

I wondered about the question when watching the news and I saw a baseball player throw his water bottle in frustration. Is it ok when it's sports? And then today I saw a football coach throw a helmet to the ground. Aside from the fact that I need to stop watching sports what message is this sending to the public? Because it seems we accept this behavior from athletes- do you think they are prone to such outbursts at home too? </div></div>

sometimes its an act in professional sports to demonstrate passion. in my experience in non-professional sports the guys i know who show that kind of emotion usually carry it through to other aspects of their lives.