Ignoring your gut feelings

[Suesumba]

Re: Ignoring your gut feelings

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: gullygirl</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

aside from his good looks he was well read, traveled, held 2 Masters degrees, no ex-wife/baby mama drama, a good listener, very outgoing...
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you know what the worse thing is --&gt; now we'll forever be skeptical [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img]

[JM1]

Re: Ignoring your gut feelings

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[gullygirl]

Re: Ignoring your gut feelings

Lawd, JM yuh mek mi feel real [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70392-silly.gif[/img]

Yes, It did cross my mind, and said as much to my best friend..

She said I need to stop being my skeptical self and give him a chance..

...And I kinda thought if there are women out there who have not yet found the "right" man there may be men out there who have not found the "right woman as well..

[Suesumba]

Re: Ignoring your gut feelings

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: gullygirl</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
She said I need to stop being my skeptical self and give him a chance..

...And I kinda thought if there are women out there who have not yet found the "right" man there may be men out there who have not found the "right woman as well.. </div></div>

i think you and me have the same relationship counselling friend GG. and yes, some people just haven't met their right*match* so you hold out hope that even though it sounds all too good to be true, it's true in this one instance.

~~~ sigh ~~~

[JM1]

Re: Ignoring your gut feelings

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Lawd, JM yuh mek mi feel real [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70392-silly.gif[/img]</div></div>

Hush. A noh dat mi was a try. I am just here attempting to figure out this thing we do of ignoring what our good sense is telling us.

Been there myself. Plenty times. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70361-embarassed.gif[/img]

[gullygirl]

Re: Ignoring your gut feelings

After that relationship, I went in the opposite direction..

I would tolerate nothing and trusted no one.. The first sign of any "imperfection" I bailed..

Broke up with a really sweet guy because of it..(He's the one I dubbed "the one that got away")

[loops]

Re: Ignoring your gut feelings

i think it's easy to overlook a small blister...i mean, we're all flawed...so you think...what the hey, i'm not perfect either.

then....when that small blister turns into a festering annoying abcess...that's when you say....ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh i should have known better.

hindsight...is always 20-20

[trelawnysmall]

Re: Ignoring your gut feelings

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: JM1</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Have you ever got yourself in a relationship or made choices even though while you are in the process you just <u>know</u>, that it is not going to go well ?

Why do we do this ? Neediness ? Fantasies ? Self esteem issues ? </div></div> <span style="color: #FF6600"> All of the above may be the case, or a good challenge, or a men-o-pause moment when you just cant think straight.... </span>

[missus_vegas]

Re: Ignoring your gut feelings

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: JM1</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Have you ever got yourself in a relationship or made choices even though while you are in the process you just <u>know</u>, that it is not going to go well ?

Why do we do this ? Neediness ? Fantasies ? Self esteem issues ? </div></div>

yes and for the most part i'd say its instant gratifiacation and or lust

[Shine_Eye_Girl]

Re: Ignoring your gut feelings

oh yes......are you my psychic advisor or something....... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/confused.gif[/img]

All done out of fear....afraid of beig alone