How would you handle this?

[ZaraJah]

You've been dating for over 14 mths, he is planning to move in and plan a life together...spoke of marriage in a year.

He is kind, caring, humble, hard-working, intellectually challenging, handsome, etc., etc.,

You've discussed "safe-sex" extensively and he knows where you stand. No condom, no sex. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70388-shameonyou.gif[/img]

You've just found out "by accident" that he had been removing the condom. You go mental and he apologizes and assures you that it will never happen again...I love you, blah, blah.

Now you've decided that he has breached your trust so you want out of the relationship.

Your best friend said that she would know if her man was removing the condom.

Would you? How could you tell?

Would you break off the relationship with him?

[loops]

Re: How would you handle this?

without explaining the details...yeah...i think i could tell. If i was unsure...i'd just look.

[diabolical_Tanya]

Re: How would you handle this?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Zarah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">You've been dating for over 14 mths, he is planning to move in and plan a life together...spoke of marriage in a year.

He is kind, caring, humble, hard-working, intellectually challenging, handsome, etc., etc.,

You've discussed "safe-sex" extensively and he knows where you stand. No condom, no sex. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70388-shameonyou.gif[/img]

You've just found out "by accident" that he had been removing the condom. You go mental and he apologizes and assures you that it will never happen again...I love you, blah, blah.

Now you've decided that he has breached your trust so you want out of the relationship.

Your best friend said that she would know if her man was removing the condom.

Would you? <span style="color: #6600CC">I think I would know </span> How could you tell? <span style="color: #6600CC">should feel different I think </span>

Would you break off the relationship with him? <span style="color: #6600CC"> hard to say not being in the situation but that is a BIG breach of trust, him knowing how I feel about no glove no love and doing that...then he would be the first to say I'm not the father?? I am thinking he's gonna have to hit the road..but maybe I might give him one more chance.</span> </div></div>

[Compry]

Re: How would you handle this?

I'm so confused...how does the person not know that he wasn't wearing a condom?

[CeaBee]

Re: How would you handle this?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Compry</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I'm so confused...how does the person not know that he wasn't wearing a condom? </div></div>

it's dark? mi noh know yaah

[Compry]

Re: How would you handle this?

Cools...dark or not, how does the person not know that he's been removing the condom? Come on. What about the stuff that comes at the end?

[CeaBee]

Re: How would you handle this?

oh... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70361-embarassed.gif[/img]...you're right..

[Shine_Eye_Girl]

Re: How would you handle this?

WOW......that is scary.
Forget about breaking trust, she needs to go to the doctor to get tested..... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70458-applaud.gif[/img]

I know a few who like to play that game and you know what I do??????????

I always feel....just to make sure its all there....

BTW....is he really "caring, humble, hard-working, intellectually challenging, handsome, etc., etc., " and still play this kind of game with someone's life.......... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70388-shameonyou.gif[/img]

[tsophra]

Re: How would you handle this?

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] that's just wrong..out an out deception..does not speak well fe his character at all..would make me wonder what else he's capable of

[MrsBlue]

Re: How would you handle this?

<span style="color: #3333FF">I'd know. I think. It feels different. And yeah, he'd have to go, he can't be trusted. </span>

[Yuriatin]

Re: How would you handle this?

This is all one big, huge, flapping in the wind, visiable from a mile away red flag.

Your/her choice if she chooses to ignore it. So long as one can deal with the sure to be and soon to come, sure to be bad, consequences!

[Bandana]

Re: How would you handle this?

ohhh yeah... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/shocked.gif[/img]

I would <span style='font-size: 14pt'>RUNNNNNN </span> as fast as I could out of this relationship... condom not something to play around with :shamehim: [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70388-shameonyou.gif[/img]

Not sure how someone could not know the condom been removed [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img]
The time it take to remove it, the feel is different, the ending [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] how someone not know these things???


By what "accident" did "you" find out he was removing the condom?? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/confused.gif[/img]

[MrsBlue]

Re: How would you handle this?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Bandanna</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> the ending... </div></div> [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bannana_purple.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bannana_purple.gif[/img]

<span style="color: #3333FF"> <span style='font-family: Comic Sans MS'>*sigh*</span> </span>

[tsophra]

Re: How would you handle this?

mebbe she tawt dere was a plumbing problem..leaky or overflowing condoms [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70456-eyebrows.gif[/img]

[Bandana]

Re: How would you handle this?

Maybe "the ending" so good she think it just her juice a wet the place up [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/blush.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]