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"mi spirit juss neva tek to dem"
have you ever had one?
have you ever had one?
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Definitely. Some people just don't rub me the right way even before they open their mouth good I already know. People still put off vibes.
I would not call it completely irrational but maybe not yet containing supporting evidence lol.
Keeping distance from the person has never led me wrong though. I just sit back and watch how they treat others and know I felt the way I did for a reason. -
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aye Tulip yu seet
I have one in the workplace. I should say work environment as I don't work with her she juss work for the same co. and we in the same union.
first time I laid eyes on her mi did juss feel like sumting noh too righted wid har but I didn't know if she was an an employee or just there for other tings.
then few weeks later we were in a union meeting an mi si har, everyone was sitting (lunch was served) but she stannup gainst the wall fi di whole ting. dem did have elections and ting an ting then dem stawt talk bout the on going negotiations and there was some back and forth wid different people and she only been there fi a month seh to smaddy. "I don't think this is the time and place to discuss this"
aye sah the whole place silent an a look pan har, mi juss shake mi head
an seh to miself, yes mi spirit was right, di gyal dyamn nuff shi mussi name Nuffisha
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yep Tanya i can relate. mi will just see somebody and just dont liek dem for no reason
and wid me if first impression me decide say mi no like u, u could prove to be mother Theresa (which is rarely the case) mi still not gwine like u. its really bad. even wen mi realize say di smaddy is ok...mi still decide say mi nah go like dem. makes no sense.
the one good ting i guess is i will talk to dem and be really civil (unless dem do something fi mek mi rude to dem) so much so dat they may actually think i like dem. i find this comes in handy in the workplace doe. i can work wid just about neone. mi no affi like dem. as long as come 5 a clack mi no affi see dem again
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@ Nuffisha. I have had a few Nuffishas at work. Don't they really make you wonder what's really wrong with them at all? Lawd!
Vegas, I am willing to give them an opportunity to prove me wrong but from a distance. I am just about unable to give anything more than a polite "hi". Cannot chat them up because frankly I just don't feel like it.Comment
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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Vegas</div><div class="ubbcode-body">yep Tanya i can relate. mi will just see somebody and just dont liek dem for no reason
and wid me if first impression me decide say mi no like u, u could prove to be mother Theresa (which is rarely the case) mi still not gwine like u. its really bad. even wen mi realize say di smaddy is ok...mi still decide say mi nah go like dem. makes no sense.
the one good ting i guess is i will talk to dem and be really civil (unless dem do something fi mek mi rude to dem) so much so dat they may actually think i like dem. i find this comes in handy in the workplace doe. i can work wid just about neone. mi no affi like dem. as long as come 5 a clack mi no affi see dem again </div></div>Vegas you and me same so ... some time the only thing cross mi mind as them talking (today was a prime example) biatch stop talking to me ...but I am such a polite person and then I come into to shout box and cuss.
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