Question for the girls

[ZaraJah]

When you hear someone speak to or about another woman (on the bus/internet/work) in a derogative manner, does it make you think of yourself, your mother and other women in your life?

Does it make you feel sick inside and as a result, do you find yourself being careful about what you say, because of such experiences?

[diabolical_Tanya]

Re: Question for the girls

No, mi chat bad bout ooman all di while...it's about THEM not about ME an if certain people man/woman/child/black/white/orange/purple decide to carry themselves a certain way (lack of respect for themself) yes mi ago chat bout dem. infront a dem and backa dem same way.

[Daoud4]

Re: Question for the girls

In between all that chatting can you go dig up the BBQ recipe and post it in Ackee, I'm starving and feel for some right now. Thanks.

[ZaraJah]

Re: Question for the girls

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Aynat_SlvrTush</div><div class="ubbcode-body">No, mi chat bad bout ooman all di while...it's about THEM not about ME an if certain people man/woman/child/black/white/orange/purple decide to carry themselves a certain way (lack of respect for themself) yes mi ago chat bout dem. infront a dem and backa dem same way. </div></div>

Got that and fully appreciate.

What I meant though was for example, on the bus the woman next to you is speaking about her girlfriend in a not so nice way, calling her names outta her name and saying all manner of evil about her mother, does it make you cringe and take a step back in disgust?

[diabolical_Tanya]

Re: Question for the girls

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Zarah</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Aynat_SlvrTush</div><div class="ubbcode-body">No, mi chat bad bout ooman all di while...it's about THEM not about ME an if certain people man/woman/child/black/white/orange/purple decide to carry themselves a certain way (lack of respect for themself) yes mi ago chat bout dem. infront a dem and backa dem same way. </div></div>

Got that and fully appreciate.

What I meant though was for example, on the bus the woman next to you is speaking about her girlfriend in a not so nice way, calling her names outta her name and saying all manner of evil about her mother, does it make you cringe and take a step back in disgust? </div></div> [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img] cringe at the one doing the talking because that aint the time or the place yes, but cringe as in feel bad or empathy for the one being spoken about? probably not.

[diabolical_Tanya]

Re: Question for the girls

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: TeeTee</div><div class="ubbcode-body">In between all that chatting can you go dig up the BBQ recipe and post it in Ackee, I'm starving and feel for some right now. Thanks. </div></div>Sorry Tee Tee I forgot to bring in the bok today....but it still would not help you, it takes like 6 - 8 hours to cook [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

[Jazz]

Re: Question for the girls

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Zarah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">When you hear someone speak to or about another woman (on the bus/internet/work) in a derogative manner, does it make you think of yourself, your mother and other women in your life?

Does it make you feel sick inside and as a result, do you find yourself being careful about what you say, because of such experiences?



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I hate how some women continuously tear down other women... men don;t do that - they look out for each other and hook each other up... and if they have adisagreement they don;t let it ride them to the grave - dem cuss an den dem feget bout it...

I am all about biggin up my sisters, black, white, whatever colour... I support any woman that is doing it for herself and getting ahead.

if we push we wan anedda de way men push each other we'd be further along.

[Daoud4]

Re: Question for the girls

No problem having tea instead. Please do post it as soon as you can tho, every since you mentioned it I've been dying to try it.

[ZaraJah]

Re: Question for the girls

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Jazz</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Zarah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">When you hear someone speak to or about another woman (on the bus/internet/work) in a derogative manner, does it make you think of yourself, your mother and other women in your life?

Does it make you feel sick inside and as a result, do you find yourself being careful about what you say, because of such experiences?



</div></div>

I hate how some women continuously tear down other women... men don;t do that - they look out for each other and hook each other up... and if they have adisagreement they don;t let it ride them to the grave - dem cuss an den dem feget bout it...

I am all about biggin up my sisters, black, white, whatever colour... I support any woman that is doing it for herself and getting ahead.

if we push we wan anedda de way men push each other we'd be further along. </div></div>

Thank you. That is something I just cannot get accustomed to. It irks me to no end to see/hear the negative stuff. I had to school a sista on the Express Bus. I just could not cringe anymore.

TeeTee-kindly open your own thread or use PM even to discuss your own thang. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70365-flirt.gif[/img]...sister-to-sister [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70459-hugs.gif[/img]