too nice

[baby]

I told my friend about my crisis and she ask me if me cant find a man like this for her...

So here goes...

I met a guy but for some reason he is too nice he doesnt put up a fight to anything whatever I say he does it is like if I say jump he ask u how high, I need for him to man up and not do some stuff I tell him to do if I say to him do something tell me no sometimes I need a little roughness. I dont want a man to beat me or whatever but him just too nice . he is just to nice he makes me sick

[Gen]

Re: too nice

find somebody else then and he will find someone who appreciates him...

[CeaBee]

Re: too nice

me gree wid geneva...someone out there just looking for a nice guy...she'll appreciate him.

ever thought of maybe setting him up with your friend?

[kia027]

Re: too nice

mi gree with geneva as well.. You noh ready fi a man like dat if you noh like dat when u seh jump im seh how high cause ie come in like the fact dat im value whe u a seh , noh mean nuttin eh?

[DearK]

Re: too nice

Is he like this with everybody, or just with you because of his intense love for you?

Some men will be agreeable in most areas, but have a certain issue where they take a firm stand... eg he may respect your choice of where to eat, what movie to watch, but will absolutely positively refuse to leave the house on Sundays! [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smile.gif[/img] Maybe you haven't found his 'non-negotiable' yet..

[CeaBee]

Re: too nice

Anyway it sounds like u and the guy just started going out?

u just might be in your honeymoon stage and the not so niceness might come lata...so there's hope!

[Suesumba]

Re: too nice

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: baby</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> he is just to nice he makes me sick </div></div>

you should kip more dan wan man wid him. after he realizes that you've seen more shaft than an elevator, he'll turn into a bitter woman hating frequenter of prostitutes.

[kingy]

Re: too nice

when him say no, does it turn you on or something?

[Jahbuddah]

Re: too nice

Tell har not fi worry....If she want some war, likkle walk dung di haisle will fix that! Mi husban start out di sayme way. He's just trying to butter her up!

[julie*mango]

Re: too nice

Dedding wid laff [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img][img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img][img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img]

[Bandana]

Re: too nice

I like my man to take control too.. especially in de bedroom [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/shocked.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/blush.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smirk.gif[/img]

[Jazz]

Re: too nice

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: baby</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> he is just to nice he makes me sick </div></div>

you should kip more dan wan man wid him. after he realizes that you've seen more shaft than an elevator, he'll turn into a bitter woman hating frequenter of prostitutes. </div></div>

*BOAL* -Sue u are certifiable!!! [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

[Boricua_papi]

Re: too nice

Therein lies the the problem for "nice guys." I am a nice guy at heart but after a failed marriage and several relationships in which my "niceness" was perceived as "weakness", I am a born-again heartless bastard - sort of like Heathcliff in the novel Wuthering Heights.

So go with your instincts but if you take advantage of the man's "niceness" then look out. You may be doing a disservice to other women in the future when the monster that you took hand in creating uses them like Charmins pleated toilet paper.

[julie*mango]

Re: too nice

Yu ongle so salt Bippy becaw yu neyn meet mi from di get go [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70365-flirt.gif[/img]

[Boricua_papi]

Re: too nice

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Es_Skellion</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Yu ongle so salt Bippy becaw yu neyn meet mi from di get go [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70365-flirt.gif[/img] </div></div>

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70377-loveeyes.gif[/img] Chroo. Mi is a sucka fi dem moggle-style women.