Overweight lover in the house...

[franksterr]

Would you dated and begin a relationship with someone who is obese?
Have a fling(for those who do)?

about size Monique for the gents



or Ruben for the Ladies



Of course in this scenario you just meeting then and they are neither rich or famous

[Skelly]

Re: Overweight lover in the house...

Heck yeah! Why not? So long as <span style="text-decoration: line-through">mi can fine di one eye monsta afta mi liff up di belly flab</span> he treats me like a queen and worships the ground I walk on den we good to go!


Heavy D was a brother who cudda get it fi me

[ILP]

Re: Overweight lover in the house...

i did, but it didnt last long.
he was very obese. ahn basically did things that didnt require movement.
ok...that didnt really bother me except he was annoyed when i worked out or wanted to go outside. ahn became increasing vocal about it.
he knew two positions in bed...although excellent at them but di said 2 just the same. he would try others...but quickly got out of breath...so much so I just knew a heart attack was approaching.
o, and forgedaboutit when it came to sleeping. ILP didnt sleep when he slept over. His weight caused severe sleep apnea and I freaked each time he stopped breathing.
he had terrible knee problems...his knees just couldnt support his weight.

it was awful....

a beautiful guy (on the inside/out) and treated me wonderfully (except for the annoyance with my activity), smart, well read, funny.... sigh...

[CyberPhobic]

Re: Overweight lover in the house...

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: franksterr</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Would you dated and begin a relationship with someone who is obese?
Have a fling(for those who do)?
or Ruben for the Ladies



Of course in this scenario you just meeting then and they are neither rich or famous </div></div>

Hellz to dah Naaaah!!!!

If him cyaah care enuff bout himself fi tekk care a him owna health, how him fi guh tekk care a mi and fullfil alllllllla my hi-maintenance wants, not to menshan my needs dem?

Ovahweight lova? Den nuh oxymoron dat? Mi jussa hawks kaw mi juss cyaah picha it.

<span style="font-style: italic">langkissteet and cutmiyeyedem awfta all dose who aguh come chat like sey mi nuffi talk chroot</span>

[SandiF]

Re: Overweight lover in the house...

no nope nyet

[Tulip]

Re: Overweight lover in the house...

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: franksterr</div><div class="ubbcode-body">...about size Monique for the gents or Ruben for the Ladies...</div></div>

Franksterr, I don't think Monique and Ruben are equally yoked lol. In the body category, Gabourey Sidibe is more inline with Ruben.

[Tulip]

Re: Overweight lover in the house...

To answer the question, I'd consider it if he was trying to lose weight. If he was perfectly content at his size, then probably not.

Now, I'm not going to kick a man out of bed over a few extra pounds like say the size Ice Cube is most of the time or Gerald Levert was most of the time. Ruben, on the other hand, is a really big boy.

[Gen]

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ditto

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SandiF</div><div class="ubbcode-body">no nope nyet

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[Cultcha]

Re: Overweight lover in the house...

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Gen</div><div class="ubbcode-body">ditto

[quote=SandiF]no nope nyet

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If they became obese after you married them and they refused to get it under control would that be reason enough to seperate?

[CyberPhobic]

Re: Overweight lover in the house...

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SandiF</div><div class="ubbcode-body">no nope <span style="font-weight: bold">nyet</span>

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A mi wan nuh undastan wat mi read?

[SandiF]

Re: Overweight lover in the house...

lol

a so mi multi-lingual .... nyet is Russian for no

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: CyberPhobic</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SandiF</div><div class="ubbcode-body">no nope <span style="font-weight: bold">nyet</span>

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A mi wan nuh undastan wat mi read? </div></div>

[SandiF]

Re: Overweight lover in the house...

Such a situation would put a big strain on the marriage and would affect my happiness within the marriage... Yes, it may be a factor to cause a separation. I am a heath conscious and image conscious person. I do not necessarily need a partner to be a gung-ho fitness enthusiast as I am but I expect the to be focused and aware that being healthy is important to a relationship, and work towards or maintain a healthy and fitness lifestyle.

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: KF_Milo</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Gen</div><div class="ubbcode-body">ditto

[quote=SandiF]no nope nyet

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If they became obese after you married them and they refused to get it under control would that be reason enough to seperate? </div></div>

[R00TS]

Re: Overweight lover in the house...

I've always been attracted to big bellied men
but the leg gotta be good

[Pepper]

Re: Overweight lover in the house...

Two big belly can't work. So I would not be willing to try a big man.

Besides I like tall men, and if him ovah six foot and is overweight, dat is a whole heap a man.

[Skelly]

Re: Overweight lover in the house...

how unoo tan so wid di big belly man dem?