Doc's Tonic

[mangoskin]

<span style="font-size: 14pt"><span style="font-weight: bold">(advice column in today's Punch, Nassau)</span></span><span style="font-weight: bold"><span style="font-size: 14pt">He's mad at gay pal for sissy taunts</span></span>
<span style="font-size: 14pt"><span style="font-weight: bold">Q.</span> </span>My gay lover invited me to his office Christmas party. His co-workers don't know he's a sissy. So, we attended the function as buddies, not lovers. But one of his drunk colleagues figured us out. And he made jokes about those &quot;two sissies.&quot;

I expected my lover to speak up for us and cuss out his co-worker. But instead, my cowardly man fled and left me to be taunted for being gay!

I felt so ashamed. And I don't know if I can forgive my guy for leaving me to fend for myself at his office party. My man is 30 and I am 28. We've been a couple for a year. I don't think either of us looks gay. We're not flamboyant and &quot;womanish&quot; But my man's co-worker picked up on our gayness. And he called us every rude name for &quot;sissy&quot; you could think of. I wanted to cuss him. But I didn't think it was my place to do so, since I was a guest. My lover has since apologised to me. But I'm still very upset about it.

<span style="font-weight: bold"><span style="font-size: 14pt">A</span></span>. Give him a break. It's not easy being gay in this town.

[sistactry]

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i figure its not easy being gay in any town, esp at a office party?? not in good taste, u shudden a did go

[mangoskin]

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<span style="font-size: 14pt"><span style="font-weight: bold">he fears revenge acts of girl in jealous rage</span></span>
<span style="font-size: 14pt"><span style="font-weight: bold">Q.</span></span> I was dating two gals for over a year. One of them I thought of as my steady lady. And the other was my &quot;jungalist fun-girl&quot;. I ended it with my hot sweetie when my regular woman got pregnant. We decided to get married. So, I dumped the other gal. But she didn't take it well. A few days later, the jungalist girl vandalised my car. She broke off the side mirrors, scratched the paint and smashed all the lights. Then she left a pair of her red thong panties hanging from the rear-view mirror as her &quot;calling card&quot;. I put the car in the mechanic's shop for repairs, so my lady wouldn't see it. I told her someone had run into my car. But now I fear what my mad ex might do next.
I am 30, my lady is 28 and the jungalist ex is 25. I called her and asked her toaccept that the fling is over and leave me alone. And her reply was a menacing &quot;maybe&quot;. That sounds like a &quot;no&quot; to me. I didn't need the expense of repairing my car right before Christmas. And I also don't need the stress of looking over my shoulder for my crazy ex.

<span style="font-size: 14pt"><span style="font-weight: bold">A</span></span> Tell her you'll call the police if she breaks the law again. That may not calm her down. But eventually she will get tired of harassing you and move on.

[Pepper]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SistaCtry</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> u shudden a did go </div></div>


BOAL!!!

[Pepper]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: mangoskin</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><span style="font-size: 14pt"><span style="font-weight: bold">(advice column in today's Punch, Nassau)</span></span><span style="font-weight: bold"><span style="font-size: 14pt">He's mad at gay pal for sissy taunts</span></span>
<span style="font-size: 14pt"><span style="font-weight: bold">Q.</span> </span>My gay lover invited me to his office Christmas party. His co-workers don't know he's a sissy. So, we attended the function as buddies, not lovers. But one of his drunk colleagues figured us out. And he made jokes about those &quot;two sissies.&quot;

I expected my lover to speak up for us and cuss out his co-worker. But instead, my cowardly man fled and left me to be taunted for being gay!

I felt so ashamed. And I don't know if I can forgive my guy for leaving me to fend for myself at his office party. My man is 30 and I am 28. We've been a couple for a year. I don't think either of us looks gay. We're not flamboyant and &quot;womanish&quot; But my man's co-worker picked up on our gayness. And he called us every rude name for &quot;sissy&quot; you could think of. I wanted to cuss him. But I didn't think it was my place to do so, since I was a guest. My lover has since apologised to me. But I'm still very upset about it.

<span style="font-weight: bold"><span style="font-size: 14pt">A</span></span>. Give him a break. It's not easy being gay in this town. </div></div>

Mango, did you get this from a Jamaican publication?

[Peasie]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Pepper</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Mango, did you get this from a Jamaican publication? </div></div>

Punch is a rag in Nassau.

[mangoskin]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Pepper</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SistaCtry</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> u shudden a did go </div></div>


BOAL!!! </div></div>
u ever see?!

[mangoskin]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Peasie</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Pepper</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Mango, did you get this from a Jamaican publication? </div></div>

Punch is a rag in Nassau. </div></div>
yeah page 3 gals an all (men near the back)

[quodlibet]

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oh, punch as in Rum Punch...