How long should you wait before...

**kia027** · 03-05-2012, 01:40 PM

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When you are both comfortable with the answers to these questions?

**LusciousJohnson** · 03-05-2012, 01:46 PM

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geez! lotta questions...

mek mi chek it

**LusciousJohnson** · 03-05-2012, 01:57 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> When you are both comfortable with the answers to these questions? </div></div>

ok about 90% of those are good to go. the rest just havent come up yet.

**Wendy** · 03-05-2012, 02:20 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Fancy</div><div class="ubbcode-body">...you get married to someone you've been seeing?

i know all situations are different so general opinions/advice welcomed.

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Well you answered it already... it all up the two people. Some marriages going on 40 years with people who married within 3 months and you have marriages lasting three days after being together for 3 years.

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But my advice is to wait until him pop di question..nobadda goh get married before di smaddy ask </div></div></div>

**kia027** · 03-05-2012, 02:29 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Fancy</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> When you are both comfortable with the answers to these questions? </div></div>

ok about 90% of those are good to go. the rest just havent come up yet.

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so go ask about the 10% and see where unno stand. btw if im need a visa, i say plan to move there then

**ILP** · 03-05-2012, 02:59 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> When you are both comfortable with the answers to these questions? </div></div>

a suh much questions you haffi ask?
bless god mi nu inna di marriage tings again...

**kia027** · 03-05-2012, 03:43 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: HIELPEE</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> When you are both comfortable with the answers to these questions? </div></div>

a suh much questions you haffi ask?
bless god mi nu inna di marriage tings again... </div></div>

28 dates about 10 questions per date

**LusciousJohnson** · 03-06-2012, 10:59 AM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: WeNdY_PeNdY</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Fancy</div><div class="ubbcode-body">...you get married to someone you've been seeing?

i know all situations are different so general opinions/advice welcomed.

</div></div>

Well you answered it already... it all up the two people. Some marriages going on 40 years with people who married within 3 months and you have marriages lasting three days after being together for 3 years.

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But my advice is to wait until him pop di question..nobadda goh get married before di smaddy ask </div></div></div> </div></div>

u right Wendy and wi inna di miggle wid one year

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**RichD** · 03-06-2012, 11:05 AM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: WeNdY_PeNdY</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Fancy</div><div class="ubbcode-body">...you get married to someone you've been seeing?

i know all situations are different so general opinions/advice welcomed.

</div></div>

Well you answered it already... it all up the two people. Some marriages going on 40 years with people who married within 3 months and you have marriages lasting three days after being together for 3 years.

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But my advice is to wait until him pop di question..nobadda goh get married before di smaddy ask </div></div></div> </div></div>

more and more women are asking the question these days

**LusciousJohnson** · 03-06-2012, 11:07 AM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Fancy</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> When you are both comfortable with the answers to these questions? </div></div>

ok about 90% of those are good to go. the rest just havent come up yet.

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so go ask about the 10% and see where unno stand. btw if im need a visa, i say plan to move there then </div></div>

mi nah marry man fi visa

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besides di man bawn a farrin neva been a yaad but mi ago mention di odda question dem pon wi nexx outing

**LusciousJohnson** · 03-06-2012, 11:10 AM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: RichD</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: WeNdY_PeNdY</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Fancy</div><div class="ubbcode-body">...you get married to someone you've been seeing?

i know all situations are different so general opinions/advice welcomed.

</div></div>

Well you answered it already... it all up the two people. Some marriages going on 40 years with people who married within 3 months and you have marriages lasting three days after being together for 3 years.

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Click to reveal.. <input type="button" class="form-button" value="Show me!" onclick="toggle_spoiler(this, 'Yikes, my eyes!', 'Show me!')" /></div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div style="display: none;">
But my advice is to wait until him pop di question..nobadda goh get married before di smaddy ask </div></div></div> </div></div>

more and more women are asking the question these days </div></div>

thats true. im old fashioned i guess. him haffi get dung pon bended knee

**sistactry** · 03-06-2012, 04:11 PM

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ahhh.................................. love is in the air

ahhh......go deh fancycat ~~~

**Jazz** · 03-07-2012, 02:26 AM

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But what are the ideal answers to these questions? How will you know if an answer is good or not?

Eg. Are you working in your chosen field?

If he says no... Is that necessarily a bad thing?

Sounds subjective to me.

*Kanye shrug*

**kia027** · 03-07-2012, 08:22 AM

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It is how they feel they can live with the answers - not subjective at all

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